Is anyone trying?

[Epedaphic]

You way more resilient that me tbh. I can't imagine being 30+, constantly being rejected, no foids showing interest in me and having no sex life(Even though I'm 99% sure its going to be me in a decades time). All I can say brocel, you still gotta try even if that means betabuxxing, I know betabuxxing for most incels is cucked, but if you long for intimacy(star fish sex) and "love", betabuxxing IS the only option. No female will love you for you. We have to accept that fact. I commend you on trying, eventually you'll succeed and maybe, just maybe you can live a normal life, have children, watch them grow up then when you're are on your death bed, you get surrounded by your family and die a peaceful death. I long for that but at the same time not everyone is meant to win ya know. So just do what you feel is right and don't get disappointed when you realise the outcome of your situation. Godspeed brocel

Thank you for your encouragement bro. I know betabuxxing is probably my best option like you said but tbh I am hoping not to.

and maybe, just maybe you can live a normal life, have children, watch them grow up then when you're are on your death bed, you get surrounded by your family and die a peaceful death.

I really fuckin hope so man. For both of us. I’ll do my best and I encourage you to do the same, I was glad to read your post that you had some people reach out to you.

 

[Epedaphic]

optimism and hope, top kek!

Who’s optimistic?

I was permabanned for saying that .is doesn't try anymore.

You’d get permabanned for being volcel in 2017-2020 for not trying. the culture changed

I used to be that way, thinking those who didn’t try were volcel. But now I understand, trying for years and years in the current environment of hypergamy and open misandry just isn’t sustainable. I do think people should try at least once, also there’s of course a range of people here, the threshold I’d have to consider a 1/10 trucel to have “tried” at is much lower than a 4/10, although of course the experience is probably just as soul crushing for them both.

 

[Epedaphic]

mostly just text, voice calls have been few and awkward with tism. could get a voice call easily though

I see, didn’t know you could just do text on those! I gotta try them.

 

[naizuri]

I see, didn’t know you could just do text on those! I gotta try them.

only chad voice calls

 

[UnluckyCell]

trying to muster up the courage to kill myself

 

[Antifem Lord]

If you have to try it's already over

 

[BlueCore]

no I've given up.

doesn't matter, anyway.

 

[RegularManlet]

That sucks man, but it’s true, so much of “going out” or hanging out in adult life is centered around alcohol. I do drink but I don’t love it. Although it helps a lot with social anxiety. Did you suggest something else specific? I find people will ghost me sometimes if I don’t do that. But then it’s just a matter of if I care enough to follow up, which is 50/50.

I suggested a movie instead, I did not know what to suggest lol but I did not suggest a specific movie and I told him I don't drink and he ghosted me, the thing is hanging out of work was his idea.
I guess people need to alcohol there in case it is boring or whatever so it is not awkward

 

[Maikowski]

No one likes that guy that can't catch a hint and keeps "trying"

There's am army of men approaching women, every day, every where. and the funny thing is, foids complain and say they're not being approached. It's because they only see chads as human beings, they automatically turn down ugly/normie men after 2 miliseconds of looking at our face. Men "trying" annoys the fuck out of foids unless he's chad.

 

[Epedaphic]

I suggested a movie instead, I did not know what to suggest lol but I did not suggest a specific movie and I told him I don't drink and he ghosted me, the thing is hanging out of work was his idea.
I guess people need to alcohol there in case it is boring or whatever so it is not awkward

I see, got it. Weird. Yeah, I guess drinks do serve that purpose. It always kind of pissed me off that it was the default activity.

 

[sultryloser]

Dating apps are a shit show for any sub8 male, it's not even worth your time if you have something other to do than rotting.

 

[RegularManlet]

I see, got it. Weird. Yeah, I guess drinks do serve that purpose. It always kind of pissed me off that it was the default activity.

Yeah its stupid its unhealthy you become low inhib but in a retarded way it causes so many fights and deaths and its a slippery slope I do not want to go down.

I feel like through out my life people would offer to hangout as more of a pleasantry like "hey we should definitely hangout sometime" I used to think they actually wanted to hang out or maybe be friends but it seems like people say it as a way of making small talk these days which is just fucking stupid

 

[Caesercel]

I'm nw3. No trying will save me

 

[Asgard]

If I never got shit over OD or late high school as a young guy, why would I get female attention outdoors? Most probably, I'll remain in this current situation for life.

 

[psyop]

Do you like talking with them (teachers and nurses)?

Yes because they’re way older than me (18) and I look young for my age so they treat me like a child but in a nice way. Also my mom walked out when I was pretty young so I kinda view them as mother figures as I didn’t get any female attention growing up.

 

[depressedblackcel]

Nope, I'm done trying. I've tried the past 5 years so fucking hard. So many brutal attempts, so much effort put in just for it to fail. Last attempt was summer which I documented about but of course futile. If I do magically get her number I'm instantly friend zoned. When I mean freindzoned I mean INSTANTLY. so nah I'm done.

 

[FuckEmAll]

Yeah, I fuckin hate the dynamic of foids flocking to Chad. We need to end hypergamy. I’m glad you got friends out of it. Are you still in touch with the friends? Same with dating apps, I hate the excitement of getting a match only to get messaged a link to someone’s Instagram or onlyfans and then instantly unmatched.

Yeah we are not close friends but I still see them multiple times each year so I definitely consider that a good experience.
I'm still doing volunteer work to cleanup the neighbourhood but that's really only because I want to live in a nice neighbourhood, I expect nothing else out of it.

 

[badalien44]

Not on dating apps, too soul crushing for me.

I tried in real life last year and almost succeeded two times. A femoid at my job liked me (I made a post about it in the bunker) and I got a waitress’ number. Unfortunately, the text conversation died, because she stopped replying.

I’m on nofap now and not trying. I have no motivation atm.

At least you were smart enough not to do dating apps. I was on a dating app for 2 years never got a single match.

 

[badalien44]

Im losing weight and fixing my teeth in hopes of ascending in china next year.

I’m also trying to lose weight and fix my teeth so I could ascend.

I'm trying to deflower 18 year old autistic virgin zoomer pussy at age 31.

I’m trying to deflower a 17 year old virgin at my job, I feel like I might be close. But who knows, there are a couple chads we work with.

Honestly I just feel like giving up at this point because it feels so repetitive, a never ending story;
> I meet foid
> I get to know foid
> I try set up a date with foid
> Foid passively declines by becoming the most busiest person on the planet
> Repeat

I’ve had a lot of experience with this never ending story as well. With me they either say I’m not looking for anything right now, they call me a creep, or they become “busy” so they can just ignore me. But hopefully that all changes for me since I’m currently pursuing this co worker foid of mine.

 

[Michael W. Ford]

I’m trying to deflower a 17 year old virgin at my job, I feel like I might be close. But who knows, there are a couple chads we work with.

Virgin pussy is so much tighter than rostie pussy. It's like a pin hole.

 

[Michael W. Ford]

I’m trying to deflower a 17 year old virgin at my job, I feel like I might be close. But who knows, there are a couple chads we work with.

You need to use magick on her

 

[Cmonk]

Nope I pretty much embrace the fact that I will die alone.

 

[badalien44]

Virgin pussy is so much tighter than rostie pussy. It's like a pin hole.

I bet! If the foid isn’t a virgin I’m not pursuing, is what I say to myself.

 

[Epedaphic]

I bet! If the foid isn’t a virgin I’m not pursuing, is what I say to myself.

Not worth it otherwise. It’s too much to go through for someone who views relationships as just a dime a dozen.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Same, I just can't rest easy because my dad always amplifying it.
When are you going to get a girlfriend?
When are you going to fuck?
Leave me alone You don't understand you
You're old you lived in a different time
Now it's over

That oldfag doesn't understand.
Stay strong bro

 

[Izayacel]

I used to, but a man nows when to stop making a fool of himself

 

[Izayacel]

Trying? Trying for what , a hole of flesh that will disregard you when she feels Like It ? And maybe uses your for Money aswell ?

Hell fucking yeah ! Must Be fun Being a gaslighted Male Dog in this Shit !

@Mecoja @lemon21 @Intellau_Celistic @The Abyss @Swagpilled @Rotter @Retardinator @Luzifer @Geryon @OutcompetedByRoomba @subhuman @dungeondragon @Puppeter

 

[Cuckoja]

Trying? Trying for what , a hole of flesh that will disregard you when she feels Like It ? And maybe uses your for Money aswell ?

Hell fucking yeah ! Must Be fun Being a gaslighted Male Dog in this Shit !

@Mecoja @lemon21 @Intellau_Celistic @The Abyss @Swagpilled @Rotter @Retardinator @Luzifer @Geryon @OutcompetedByRoomba @subhuman @dungeondragon @Puppeter

Exactly, I gave up long time ago. I actually never really tried to better myself and socialize, because I had bigger problems in life, being abused at home made me give up on life before it started.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Pretty sure I will keep trying till I die. I don't feel any better giving up. Also, need money to maybe buy sexbot in the future, so moneymaxxing is a must.

 

[badalien44]

Good luck on your quest brocel

Thanks! I just hope the fucking chads just don’t get her first. Because if she gets deflowered by a Chad instead of me first, I’m going to be so pissed. I can’t have her turn into a whore when it’s already so rare to meet a 17 year old virgin.

 

[Izayacel]

Exactly, I gave up long time ago. I actually never really tried to better myself and socialize, because I had bigger problems in life, being abused at home made me give up on life before it started.

Having to try for a necessity ( Sex ) Is ridiculous.

Woman Ofc arent affected by this AS usual , its only man that have to try "

Funny how apoarent It becomes that this world is Woman Favoured .

 

[Cuckoja]

Having to try for a necessity ( Sex ) Is ridiculous.

Woman Ofc arent affected by this AS usual , its only man that have to try "

Funny how apoarent It becomes that this world is Woman Favoured .

Yeah, humans are made to have a partner and have kids. It should come naturally without the need to roleplay something youre not only for her to discard you once she finds a "better man" Jfl at existing only to shape yourself to women's needs. Giving up it's actually gigabased.

 

[Puppeter]

Nope it was alreqdy over since 15

 

[iblamemyself]

At least you were smart enough not to do dating apps. I was on a dating app for 2 years never got a single match.

I was too embarrassed to keep my profile up there for longer than a month. I spotted my college class mates there (cocksucking fuck sluts), so I assumed they can see me, too. Didn’t want them to know that I was constantly looking for some action and not getting any

 

[The Abyss]

Trying? Trying for what , a hole of flesh that will disregard you when she feels Like It ? And maybe uses your for Money aswell ?

Hell fucking yeah ! Must Be fun Being a gaslighted Male Dog in this Shit !

@Mecoja @lemon21 @Intellau_Celistic @The Abyss @Swagpilled @Rotter @Retardinator @Luzifer @Geryon @OutcompetedByRoomba @subhuman @dungeondragon @Puppeter

Heh

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

Is anyone on dating apps? Going outside to meet people during the day? At night?

I’ve been trying to meet people at events. It’s difficult, I’m managing to meet and talk to a few foids but nobody seems to see me in a romantic or sexual way (unsurprisingly). No sexual view for my face. And nobody really keeps in touch with me long term, also not surprising since they have hundreds of other guys at their fingertips with dating apps. At least I can have some friendly interactions.

The failure is difficult to handle. I think it’s only a matter of time until I sink into another depression and isolate myself for another few years. Although at 30+ I cannot do this too many more times if I don’t want to die alone. But I feel it coming. Each disappointing interaction just chips away that much more at my ability to live a normal life and have a normal self-value. All because of freaking millimeters of bone, women won’t give me a damn chance.

The upside is that I’m learning to talk to them and it’s getting easier. Sometimes I think maybe I won’t die alone, or that I’ll be able to raise kids. But then another awkward interaction happens, or I’ll catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror and just lose all hope, and think I was stupid to try in the first place.

I think there is hope, even if just a little, for all of us. I support any and all of you who are out there trying, hit me up if you ever need support or want to talk about it.

When i go outside and get no attention and negativity, it is ABSOLUTE SUIFUEL FOR ME, SO I AM ESSENTIALLY TRAPPED AS THIS IS THE ONLY WAY OUT OF THE INCEL PREDICAMENT, GO OUTSIDE OR DIE.

BUT WHAT IF YOU DIE WHEN YOU GO OUTSIDE.

THERE IS NO OUTSIDE FOR YOUR FACE.

 

[Swagpilled]

Trying? Trying for what , a hole of flesh that will disregard you when she feels Like It ? And maybe uses your for Money aswell ?

Hell fucking yeah ! Must Be fun Being a gaslighted Male Dog in this Shit !

@Mecoja @lemon21 @Intellau_Celistic @The Abyss @Swagpilled @Rotter @Retardinator @Luzifer @Geryon @OutcompetedByRoomba @subhuman @dungeondragon @Puppeter

I try. I try alot. have been trying for a good few years now. Looksmaxxing and shit

 

[Epedaphic]

When i go outside and get no attention and negativity, it is ABSOLUTE SUIFUEL FOR ME, SO I AM ESSENTIALLY TRAPPED AS THIS IS THE ONLY WAY OUT OF THE INCEL PREDICAMENT, GO OUTSIDE OR DIE.

BUT WHAT IF YOU DIE WHEN YOU GO OUTSIDE.

THERE IS NO OUTSIDE FOR YOUR FACE.

I hear you man, it’s this way for me often as well. I think it helps to make friends to go outside with, especially male friends, that way you’ll have people that are more likely to genuinely value you that you can talk to and it makes the whole experience more tolerable

Still, I find that it’s kind of depressing and discouraging to have experiences like that (like you described) and I usually need time to recover before going out again

 

[Epedaphic]

Nope I stopped trying after going out to language exchanges at bars.

Where do you find these?

 

[badalien44]

I was too embarrassed to keep my profile up there for longer than a month. I spotted my college class mates there (cocksucking fuck sluts), so I assumed they can see me, too. Didn’t want them to know that I was constantly looking for some action and not getting any

Yea I understand but I never saw any of my classmates.