Deleted member 7448
Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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I am in no way at risk of ever dating a woman.
But even so, I do wish to have a girlfriend. And yet, at the same time, the mere thought terrifies me because of my avoidant personality. My whole life would have to change. I wouldn't be able to just be at home all the time, rot in front of my laptop, play with my cat, spend time with my parents. (Hell, a big part of why I don't just fuck off to a better country and I stay in this shithole with african-tier wages is to be near my parents. But if a woman comes into your life, you have little time for them, they have to become a lower priority).
Even worse, you'd have to share everything with that woman. Your time, your personal space, your resources.
And when you're a wageslave, most of your day is already not yours. So after you finish slaving away, you have to be chained to her now.
But even so, I do wish to have a girlfriend. And yet, at the same time, the mere thought terrifies me because of my avoidant personality. My whole life would have to change. I wouldn't be able to just be at home all the time, rot in front of my laptop, play with my cat, spend time with my parents. (Hell, a big part of why I don't just fuck off to a better country and I stay in this shithole with african-tier wages is to be near my parents. But if a woman comes into your life, you have little time for them, they have to become a lower priority).
Even worse, you'd have to share everything with that woman. Your time, your personal space, your resources.
And when you're a wageslave, most of your day is already not yours. So after you finish slaving away, you have to be chained to her now.