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Serious Insecurity/ perfectionism is the only way to stay on top of your looksmaxxing game.

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What are other motivators besides self hate to keep improving?
Loving progress? Well that's the thing. Loving progress doesn't give oyu any boosters because positivities rarely come. Whereas offenses plug into even deeper, more aggressive emotions.
You cannot just simply love progress and hopes that carries the day realistically. People get tired, afraid, under pressure.
Insecurity though gives into the pressures and works post-, is realistic, doesn't have any fake bluepill ordinances that keep you vulnerable in the dirt.
Being a positive person when dealing/ solving with negative circumstances is an inefficient two way battle.
An efficient two way battle is dealing with the stress of insecurity when fighting the things that cause it. But that stress also helps, and doesn't just made you desensitized to certain things, gives you a high pain resilience, but also helps you learn how to deal wit hthe growing grotesquery you face in life.
Positivity reinforcement is like trying to keep an inflatable house afloat in a bad neighborhood with psychopaths who like to consistently pluck and prick at everything.
Whereas being negatively reinforced is like trying to get a tight fit shoe on. Yeah it might be a little painful to put on, and have on your feet. But the good way it fits is what helps you, and eventually when you really get rolling it wont' even be an issue after a while... but a bonus. And then when ready, it gets you at full blast. Against all that you want to run over.

Anger, hate, they are methods of eliminating hte negative.
Being positive just lets you go to what you want. But it's unsafe, not fulfilling, too humble/ underwhelming/ mansy pansy/ goodie two shoes even if it were realistic.
When you're left in the lurch by foids/ in a foxhole then being filled with hatred is the best way to start motivating yourself so long as you have rage control/ impulse control/ intelligence. Just to ensure it all goes appropriately.
 
Of course dude. Mere mortals are running with insecurities like a foid without makeup on a sunday night. It is inevitable that the concept of trying to impress others leads to the point we spoke in the other topic. The previous thread to be more precise. It is all about feeling better than the other human in your presence and having a higher status mentally because you feel so egoistic and proud about yourself over the other more insecure person.

We have to be aware and clairvoyant about such cases.
 
Fear makes me leave the house to gym.

Fear makes me put on the penis extender.

Fear makes me inject melanotan.

Fear makes me research plastic surgeries.

100% true.
 
Fear makes me leave the house to gym.

Fear makes me put on the penis extender.

Fear makes me inject melanotan.

Fear makes me research plastic surgeries.

100% true.
Its all fear. The fear of being judged by other human beings in this aspect. Its all being terrified and frightened. A invisible scar which you attempt to fix.
 
Fear makes me leave the house to gym.

Fear makes me put on the penis extender.

Fear makes me inject melanotan.

Fear makes me research plastic surgeries.

100% true.
yes it isn't love for progressing. rather fear, and hate/ snap reflex to strike back to achieve what you love.
Negative emotions are the careful strategizing to get back to ideal life circumstances.
Religion tries to make you settle for mediocrity.
you'd love to be good looking.
but because your proximity to what you love is coated in a lot you don't like, then it condenses into fear/ hate. Your brain does this work for you so you can use this emotion to better yourself.
In a sense, being hateful is like being positive only that you are eliminating the negativity to reach what you love.
The universe is in debt to you for a good life you are owed. And you want it back. Because it is the universe to blame. You are encroaching to reach the life you want through burning away the negative, and getting the justice you feel entitled to. You hate all the contrasting implications the universe has delivered you.
 
Yes. Insecurity and anxiety are my only sources of motivation. If my negative emotions disappeared, what little I accomplish currently would be reduced to nothing.
 
Yes. Insecurity and anxiety are my only sources of motivation. If my negative emotions disappeared, what little I accomplish currently would be reduced to nothing.

Exactly, everything will appear meaningless. The same may be applied to hate.
 
Of course dude. Mere mortals are running with insecurities like a foid without makeup on a sunday night. It is inevitable that the concept of trying to impress others leads to the point we spoke in the other topic. The previous thread to be more precise. It is all about feeling better than the other human in your presence and having a higher status mentally because you feel so egoistic and proud about yourself over the other more insecure person.

We have to be aware and clairvoyant about such cases.
human beings don't socialize for love.
if they were they would be going with people who value friendship instead of competitional dominance.
but that is not the primal way of humanity.
people don't want the friendliness. they want to use friendship not as a substance to promote (hence why someone would be friendly enoug hto the point of deserving the attribution of the adjective) themselves to get what they want from the genomarket/ sociomarket of the population. being wide eyed and hopeful is suicide.
 
human beings don't socialize for love.
if they were they would be going with people who value friendship instead of competitional dominance.
but that is not the primal way of humanity.
people don't want the friendliness. they want to use friendship not as a substance to promote (hence why someone would be friendly enoug hto the point of deserving the attribution of the adjective) themselves to get what they want from the genomarket/ sociomarket of the population. being wide eyed and hopeful is suicide.
I agree. They really dont socialize for love at all. They use friendship as a form of self validation and showing off. The mentallity of a lion in his tribe, he wants to be known as being above everyone.

Little does he know, there is always a lion bigger and better than him.

Normies need their bubbles bursted.
 
Yes. Insecurity and anxiety are my only sources of motivation. If my negative emotions disappeared, what little I accomplish currently would be reduced to nothing.
No you would be just completely stumped, and if you tried to be positive you would be walking into a landmine in reaching what you want, your desires, your dreams... with rose tinted glasses.
you would have to give up all ties to pride, exceptional existence to not feel anything bad. but without that you wouldn't be wanting to be good looking/ loving good looking/ positively inclined to good looks, or feeling that it would be positive. You need hatred to hold onto it.
If you ran purely on love for it, then you would get afraid/ scared of the whole topic, and just probably get stumped, or choose not to love it.
but loving things of primal dominarchal affinity is just human nature. to not love it is not human, and it is a good, but necessary evil.
you might say our evil nature is a prevention mechanism for others who might have taken what we needed to survive like genetics, foods, etc.
I agree. They really dont socialize for love at all. They use friendship as a form of self validation and showing off. The mentallity of a lion in his tribe, he wants to be known as being above everyone.

Little does he know, there is always a lion bigger and better than him.

Normies need their bubbles bursted.
No, love is a false trope. People are after primal value (looks, money, status, refinement, dominance, power, etc.)
Most human beings have compassion out of fear that they will receive karmic punishment (especially this reason because look at what they would want to get away with if they didn't have the guilting, shame on you narrative on them that affects their eternal existence... but when it just affects their lives temporarily then things get calculated... differently. There is a huge relationality between punishment volume and guilty conscience.). Societal punishment to a lesser extent.
Even if we do have some degree of nurturingness in our innocent-demeanor bundle (in our mentality) we still will disregard it eventually for the sake of more power.
But all things are bridged on confidence. Some people don't have a good way to accomplish that.
Friendship is just a form of validation. The fattest and ugliest people want friendship because they feel invalidated of everything they want to have. There is no real reason a person needs friendship in our daily society for food, drink, water, etc. resources are well managed.
So why does it kill them to be so alone?
they are going after people who are well taken care of so there's no reason to do it because people are... in need.
Go to africa if you want to help them with that.
 
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Fear makes me leave the house to gym.

Fear makes me put on the penis extender.

Fear makes me inject melanotan.

Fear makes me research plastic surgeries.

100% true.
 
Eugenicist is high IQ as fuck, should become a philosopher like Alan Watts
 
I feel like everyone knows this subconsciously. Or they don't want to admit it. Why else would anyone try to fit trends or wear makeup or get the most popular haircuts or high status cars. It's all insecurities of not fitting in or not being liked. Everything they say to excuse it is bullshit. Who wastes hours putting on uncomfortable powder on their face for themselves?
 
I feel like everyone knows this subconsciously. Or they don't want to admit it. Why else would anyone try to fit trends or wear makeup or get the most popular haircuts or high status cars. It's all insecurities of not fitting in or not being liked. Everything they say to excuse it is bullshit. Who wastes hours putting on uncomfortable powder on their face for themselves?
clogging their pours and shit yes.
Yes yes indeed.
They are doing this because they are high status obsessed. Narcissism is their goal, not love and friendship. Narcissistic personality disorder.
Some may be confident doing all of this. But clearly evident if all of the things they are doing is to be high status then you can bet they have insecurities towards being low value and they're trying ot get away with it.
What is evident is that things of low primal/ regalarchal status begin to make them afraid.
 

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