Discussion Inceltrait: complete inability to take initiative in your life, and difficulty pushing back against even mild suggestions

[ForcedMarriageNow]

I felt like I unironically had more control over my life as a toddler than I do now in my mid 20s I used to express desires of my own rather than just waiting around for my parents to tell me to do something that might somehow improve my situation and unless a suggestion takes commitment and effort on my part or is potentially life ruining I feel utterly unable to offer even slight pushback. Mom offers food that I won't enjoy and will take up my entire calorie budget for the day? Well I guess I'll just hold off on the one thing that still gets me genuine enjoyment in life to have this shit instead. Shopping for new glasses my family suggests frames that offer a smaller FOV and which look identical to flimsy frame I've been using that always fell off my face and ended up bent up and with the lenses popping out? Well that's okay, I guess I don't need to see well, have basic durability or even not look like a retard when the same things happen to them as long as I don't have to offer any pushback.

 

[zd60]

I lack initiative to do anything

 

[Trident]

All the bullying, mockery throughout life and the condemnation of your initiative actions when you was young makes you very high inhib later, so you're scared of what other people think, it makes you biggest NPC ever.

 

[Deleted member 8078]

All the bullying, mockery throughout life and the condemnation of your initiative actions when you was young makes you very high inhib later, so you're scared of what other people think, it makes you biggest NPC ever.

It's the same for me

 

[soft]

It's the same for me

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

All the bullying, mockery throughout life and the condemnation of your initiative actions when you was young makes you very high inhib later, so you're scared of what other people think, it makes you biggest NPC ever.

I didn't even have much of that, I rarely interacted with anyone outside of my direct family and for the most part they treated me well but it's pointless trying to have a discussion with them on the vast majority of topics because they either don't understand or act like I'm the unreasonable one for caring about any practical concerns.

Just as an example the main thing I wanted my phone to be good for is game emulation and for that purpose the best option seemed to be a used S20 because they were high performance, had an SD card slot, and were still affordable and yet I had to fight to be able to get the cheaper more capable option over a shitty overpriced iPhone that would just rot in a drawer somewhere instead of receiving regular use as a handheld console.

 

[soft]

Avolition - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

I'm not a fan of making everything a disorder but it's an interesting read

 

[Lego Island 2]

Brutal learned helplessness

 

[Icarus]

I lack initiative to do anything

 

[Ghostface]

All the bullying, mockery throughout life and the condemnation of your initiative actions when you was young makes you very high inhib later, so you're scared of what other people think, it makes you biggest NPC ever.