Cope “Incels think having a girlfriend will solve their problems.”

[moggedbyjsanza]

I'll take any friends at this point.

 

[VλREN]

People constantly say, “Incels think getting a girlfriend will solve all their problems,” but I do not believe that. Even if I somehow got into a relationship, the deeper issues wouldn’t magically go away.

Lookism would still exist. Society would still treat me differently because of how I look. It’s not like a girlfriend could erase the reality that being unattractive affects how people perceive you—not just in dating, but in jobs, friendships, and even basic respect. Heightism wouldn’t vanish either.

And as an autistic man, ableism is always present. Neurodivergent men are overlooked and misunderstood in almost every social situation. We’re labeled as “creepy” or “weird” just for existing differently. A relationship wouldn’t stop that stigma.

The point is, systemic biases don’t go away with a partner. They’re ingrained in how people treat you every day. Incels aren’t delusional for pointing this out. Having a girlfriend wouldn’t fix these issues; society itself has to change.

This is bigger than relationships—it’s about the way people like me are judged, excluded, and dehumanized. A girlfriend isn’t a solution to a world that constantly reminds me I’m less-than.

Am too far gone

 

[InvoluntaryChigga]

*Having the means ie looks to easily get a gf and stop her from leaving

 

[Manlet Ricecel]

It will. Most of my problems come from my fucking shit household and family. If I got a girlfriend, I’d move in.