Am I asexual.at.this point?
M (37), married to F (40), with a three year old boy.
I feel like our marriage has been dead bedroom for so long I am getting asexual. I used to write sex stories on this forum to spice things up, keep things fresh for myself but I have lost interest.
I am.getting to a point where I may just give up. I know I am sexually attracted to my wife and I suspect she is still attracted to me, but she has such a low interest in having sex that I think I am now losing interest.
For context, our son does sleep in the main bed with wife, in soite of me saying that he should sleep in his own bed, which he has.
I sleep in a different room and.have fkr a few years, including when.sje and I were having sex, so I inow that isnt the primary issue. I do this because I snore and roll.around in my sleep, etc.
At this point I am.jist over it and don't want to be the one pushing to restart our sex life anymore.
The next time she looks at me when I'm coming out of the shower or when she shows interest, I am.goi.g to.tey to.ignite a spark, but it is on her to make something happen.
I'm done being.the pursuer at this point.