I don't see how you can be opposed to patriarchy as an incel. Even if I still can't get a wife under patriarchy, at least women would also lose their say in society, thus they wouldn't be able to shame me as a male virgin anymore. Women losing their rights would also greatly benefit me and other incels in other ways. For example, there would be less lookism in the work force, people who are ugly or short would get discriminated against less, male relationships would become much less competitive and fractious, and so on, because the influence of women would be greatly diminished.
Not only that, but if women left the workforce, the number of jobs would double especially in comfortable, nice fields that women overwhelmingly dominate such as HR. Salaries for most fields would greatly increase and there would be less risk of being fired due to less competition. And all the while, productivity either wouldn't be affected much or would actually go up despite having less workers, because you would no longer have women causing trouble in the workplace and dragging everyone else down. All of this would be good news for incels who wageslave.
Additionally, our society's consumption would go significantly down. Women consume a lot more than men, and they consume much more vain, wasteful nonsense like luxury clothes, fashionable accessories, jewelry, makeup, and so on. Admittedly, us men also consume a lot of garbage we don't need, but much of this is because we want to impress women. Not as many men will want a Lamborghini or a yacht or a mansion to impress some hot foid if women's rights were taken away. This will be better for our planet, and for the survival of civilization itself by reducing our overconsumption.
And who guarantees me that??? Look at this forum, its full of white supremacists, if they manage to take womans rights, without a doubt they would try to take the rights of blacks too, betraying even their own black incel brothers.
This is a genuine fear, as an ethnic I also agree with you. It's why I will never support the right-wing no matter how anti-feminist they are because I know they will fuck me and you over far worse than they would screw over white women. Even under historical white patriarchy, blacks were getting lynched while white women were treated like pretty princesses. And today the right-wing celebrates the slaughter of foreign ethnics in other countries under the guise of "fighting terrorism" while they white-knight for white women being "abused" by the "refugee hordes". No offence to whitecels here, I know many of you don't think this way, but the general right-wing feels this way.
But I think that us ethnics could spread patriarchy on the left as well, especially among fellow non-white left-leaning men. Look at how many non-white women are sleeping with alt-right Chads while leaving us ethnic incels in the dust. It is pretty much a fact at this point that even the staunchest left-wing ethnic woman would rather fuck a right-wing Nazi Chad than an ethnic left-wing incel, and indeed, many of the left-wing women who decry racism and white patriarchy go home to a white Chad boyfriend. If other left-wing ethnics were aware of how women have no loyalty, they would not be so supportive of women's rights. We can advocate for socialism and racial equality without having to white-knight for extremely privileged women who do not have any real problems in life.