ForeverGrey
Greycel
★★
- Joined
- Mar 9, 2024
- Posts
- 188
It might sound idiotic to some of you, but ironically I think we have a much better chance at befriending normies than our own kind.
Despite being a total shut in, the people whom I referred to as “friends” back in school were communally calibrated, well adjusted and extroverted, and yet, they somehow enjoyed my company. They didn’t really care about me of course, and I don’t blame them, but I could sense that they were attracted to hanging around me somehow. By the time I finished school, they’d already forgotten about who I was.
Other “introverts” on the other hand didn’t want anything to do with me, and neither did I honestly.
Opposites attract. You need someone to balance you out a little bit for mental equilibrium, but I think it’s more about them needing someone more sentimental and lenient with a quiet side to help them reconnect with that of theirs, than us in need of their attention.
The problem with all of this of course, is that past a certain age, if you’re not ‘in the zone’ of what is expected from you, NO ONE wants to be your friend. As a matter of course, they’ll just view the bitchless loner as someone who brings down their social status and hinders their matchmaking, so you’re bound to end up with no friends at all, further alienating you.
Despite being a total shut in, the people whom I referred to as “friends” back in school were communally calibrated, well adjusted and extroverted, and yet, they somehow enjoyed my company. They didn’t really care about me of course, and I don’t blame them, but I could sense that they were attracted to hanging around me somehow. By the time I finished school, they’d already forgotten about who I was.
Other “introverts” on the other hand didn’t want anything to do with me, and neither did I honestly.
Opposites attract. You need someone to balance you out a little bit for mental equilibrium, but I think it’s more about them needing someone more sentimental and lenient with a quiet side to help them reconnect with that of theirs, than us in need of their attention.
The problem with all of this of course, is that past a certain age, if you’re not ‘in the zone’ of what is expected from you, NO ONE wants to be your friend. As a matter of course, they’ll just view the bitchless loner as someone who brings down their social status and hinders their matchmaking, so you’re bound to end up with no friends at all, further alienating you.