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Venting Inceldom wrecks your brain chemistry

BPmonk

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First incels have the misfortune of being genetically predisposed to be incapable of getting into real romantic relationships with a real life partner so we have no other option but to satiate our sexual instincts with artificial stimuli like porn but all this does is dysregulate our dopamine and oxytocin systems making us feel less motivated and less emotionally fulfilled which literally makes us less capable of feeling deeper human connection or exhibiting empathy because our brain chemistry is all fucked, meanwhile the neurological health of normies is actually being enhanced because they get to have the privilege of experiencing healthy sources of dopamine and oxytocin from real intimate relationships with real people.

https://www.healthline.com/health/love-hormone#behaviors
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9109630/

And then retarded normies scratch their heads in confusion wondering why all these incels are so frustrated and bitter. It’s bad enough that poor looks and being neurodivergent makes us incapable of entering into romantic relationships with others. But the fact that this also creates a self-sustaining cycle of deteriorating mental health as our brains seek to satisfy our primal instincts with virtual sources which, again, MESS UP OUR BRAIN CHEMISTRY IN THE PROCESS, just adds insult to injury.

https://sustainrecovery.com/blog/pornography-addiction-and-the-brain

Sometimes I'm tempted to just lose all empathy for sexhaving normies and foids. I don't even know how to adequately describe just how much I fucking hate every single one of you selfish, uncompassionate vile scum. You have absolutely no conception of what you take for granted on a daily basis.

Water post, I know, but I was feeling particularly mad today for some reason. I once had an old friend of mine tell me that he watched porn occasionally but he never fapped to it because he preferred fapping to nudes of his girlfriend. That sounded really weird to me back then but I later came to understand that it was because he had developed such a deep emotional connection to his real-life partner for sexual gratification that he didn't have the problem of getting addicted to porn because it wasn't as satisfying by comparison to a person who you can touch, look into the eyes of, who reciprocates the same sentiments, etc.
 
Same. I’m 27 and I went through a period where I thought I could attract a woman, that period fucked me more than my incel phase. Now that I’ve accepted it, it’s easier, but looking back I realize how much of a fool I made out of myself trying to pick up women I had no chance with. I’m short, not good looking and never had any success on the dating apps besides ugly, desperate women no man would want to fuck anyway. I’m embarrassed that I even tried, but I read too many self help books and just thought that working out and being yourself would make up for all my genetic flaws. It didn’t, and won’t. Hookers, porn, weed, and video games is as good as my life will ever get.
 
Same. I’m 27 and I went through a period where I thought I could attract a woman, that period fucked me more than my incel phase. Now that I’ve accepted it, it’s easier, but looking back I realize how much of a fool I made out of myself trying to pick up women I had no chance with. I’m short, not good looking and never had any success on the dating apps besides ugly, desperate women no man would want to fuck anyway. I’m embarrassed that I even tried, but I read too many self help books and just thought that working out and being yourself would make up for all my genetic flaws. It didn’t, and won’t. Hookers, porn, weed, and video games is as good as my life will ever get.
I know bro, it’s so brutal having intrinsic desires that can’t even be expressed
 
Thats why I say that porn wont cause ERectile dysfunction. As much as pixels are good if you have a foid infront of you wanting to fuck, you are gonna get hard.

Also why money/escortmaxxin is irrelevant, if the foid is interested in you thats what gets you hard
I once had an old friend of mine tell me that he watched porn occasionally but he never fapped to it because he preferred fapping to nudes of his girlfriend. That sounded really weird to me back then but I later came to understand that it was because he had developed such a deep emotional connection to his real-life partner for sexual gratification that he didn't have the problem of getting addicted to porn because it wasn't as satisfying by comparison to a person who you can touch, look into the eyes of, who reciprocates the same sentiments, etc.
 
Did read.

Yeah it sucks like crazy. Restlessness is such a common struggle for incels since we don’t have basic needs like love, sex, and touch from a woman met. Being without that stuff increases cortisol (stress hormone) and lowers serotonin (the feel good hormone). And lower serotonin decreases melatonin production (the sleep hormone). So there are literally biological reasons why we have these issues too, and it’s not just psychological.

It’s actually on a physiological level that our brains get damaged, not just psychological. IT won’t touch this
 
Absolutely. I'm fucked in the head.
 
Did read.

Yeah it sucks like crazy. Restlessness is such a common struggle for incels since we don’t have basic needs like love, sex, and touch from a woman met. Being without that stuff increases cortisol (stress hormone) and lowers serotonin (the feel good hormone). And lower serotonin decreases melatonin production (the sleep hormone). So there are literally biological reasons why we have these issues too, and it’s not just psychological.

It’s actually on a physiological level that our brains get damaged, not just psychological. IT won’t touch this

Only sex havers get to have sympathy for that though. Incels? We should just hurry up and die. Fuckkkkking cuntsz.
 
Only sex havers get to have sympathy for that though. Incels? We should just hurry up and die. Fuckkkkking cuntsz.
And we literally will die faster from it all too. Most of us ain’t making it to a normal lifespan, not a chance, and it’s gonna FEEL longer sadly because we suffer more
 
And we literally will die faster from it all too. Most of us ain’t making it to a normal lifespan, not a chance, and it’s gonna FEEL longer sadly because we suffer more
Yep. The chances of self deleting also increase by the day, slow, brutal, painful process.
 
Yep. The chances of self deleting also increase by the day, slow, brutal, painful process.
Not gonna go into all the details but the last month was horrible for me and today was the worst day of all this month. Closest I came to ending myself in a long time. Man I was on the verge of losing it and actually doing it
 
Not gonna go into all the details but the last month was horrible for me and today was the worst day of all this month. Closest I came to ending myself in a long time. Man I was on the verge of losing it and actually doing it

S

Same. Very numb nowadays.

Yeah I get it. It's a part of life thesedays. Some days are better than others but none are really good/great. You owe it to yourself to keep going as cliche and cope as that sounds. I'll fight until I mentally/physically can't no more.
 
I’m an engineer and used to be able to do advanced math problems in my head. Now I need a calculator to do basic multiplication. Being an incel has completely fucking destroyed my brain.
 

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