Inceldom wouldn't be much of a problem if I weren't getting old

[Deleted member 7448]

My prospects are narrowing by the day, people my age go through marriages and kids and already have lead full lives and have been through the full range of human emotions and experiences.

My body is deteriorating, my mind is growing duller by the day - a fate that no human can escape.

Can't stop my brain from thinking about what I missed out on, on contemplating all of my regrets - despite actively trying to brainwash myself with all the "live in the present" "forget about the past" mumbo jumbo you can think of. No amount of religious or spiritual, philosophical ways of looking at life can make me see past my own failures and regrets, for some reason my brain won't let itself be brainwashed.

And the worst of it all? If I could do it all again, I'm sure I'd do the exact same things. My past failures aren't a result of me doing something wrong, they're a result of me being me. This is who I am, I am a living mistake, a living contradiction never able to be happy.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I didn't start caring until my early 20s tbh. And even then I couldn't figure out exactly what was missing in my life. For a while I thought it was a social circle or some greater purpose (e.g. a meaningful career). Now I realize it was all about sex. Youngcels need to understand that everything else is cope. Socialmaxxing, making money, etc. is just a means to an end.

 

[uninstall]

bro I am 30. I will turn 31 this year. You are younger than me. I can tell you with certainty that you are not as old you think.

 

[LastGerman]

And the worst of it all? If I could do it all again, I'm sure I'd do the exact same things. My past failures aren't a result of me doing something wrong, they're a result of me being me. This is who I am, I am a living mistake, a living contradiction never able to be happy.

This is my exact same thought about this/my situation, although I would do it slightly different.
Another problem is that you are constantly reminded of your situation. You go out and it seems people have everything, while you are nothing but a useless spectator.

 

[micropenis29]

My prospects are narrowing by the day, people my age go through marriages and kids and already have lead full lives and have been through the full range of human emotions and experiences.

They've been through a range of emotions and experiences. So have you. Nobody knows what the "full range" is though. You're giving other people your age an awful lot of credit for no particular reason.

My body is deteriorating, my mind is growing duller by the day - a fate that no human can escape.

The future is extremely difficult to predict though. You're pretending to know more about it than you in fact know.

Can't stop my brain from thinking about what I missed out on, on contemplating all of my regrets - despite actively trying to brainwash myself with all the "live in the present" "forget about the past" mumbo jumbo you can think of. No amount of religious or spiritual, philosophical ways of looking at life can make me see past my own failures and regrets, for some reason my brain won't let itself be brainwashed.

That you're framing any adoption of new beliefs as "brainwashing" highlights the root of your problem; you seem to actually believe that your current nihilistic worldview is accurate, and that steering away from it requires you to adopt religious beliefs of some sort.

This is mistaken. You're actually the one with the insane religious belief that your past failures and regrets serve any purpose other than to guide your future decision-making.

No "brainwashing" or "mind tricks" are required for you to stop believing in such nonsense. It can be as simple as it was to stop believing in Santa Claus.

And the worst of it all? If I could do it all again, I'm sure I'd do the exact same things. My past failures aren't a result of me doing something wrong, they're a result of me being me. This is who I am, I am a living mistake, a living contradiction never able to be happy.

You've stated it, and yet you won't let yourself simply believe it. You still seem to believe, deep down, that you "could've done otherwise."

That sort of confusion is what is preventing you from being happy in the present.

 

[Cuyen]

I think everything become harder and harder by day. agepill is worst

 

[Pareg]

Agepill gotta be the worst type of blackpill.

 

[MudslimeMo]

The future is extremely difficult to predict though. You're pretending to know more about it than you in fact know.

It isn't, assuming you understand your current circumstances well and you don't have much potential. Incel past your mid 20s, balding and getting nasal folds? You're going to be sex starved for life, unless you - stupidly - betabux. You don't have a career and the job market is shit? You will most likely remain a low pay wage slave for the rest of your pathetic existence.

You only have to extrapolate your current situation and all of its immediate ramifications to arrive at a reasonably accurate idea of the future.

That you're framing any adoption of new beliefs as "brainwashing" highlights the root of your problem; you seem to actually believe that your current nihilistic worldview is accurate, and that steering away from it requires you to adopt religious beliefs of some sort.

This is mistaken. You're actually the one with the insane religious belief that your past failures and regrets serve any purpose other than to guide your future decision-making.

Nihilism is very much the default state of any high sentience being who's been through trials and tribulations. Being nihilistic and pragmatic to the core will save you from making life altering errors.

Past experiences don't just guide your decision making.They are what made you the man you are today. Your entire state of being and mindset is the result of past positive or negative experiences. Adopting such a dismissive attitude towards your past is very much wrong. You will ALWAYS dwell on the past if it sucked. Always. Whether you like it or not. Sure it's unhealthy, but it is what it is.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

It isn't, assuming you understand your current circumstances well and you don't have much potential. Incel past your mid 20s, balding and getting nasal folds? You're going to be sex starved for life, unless you - stupidly - betabux. You don't have a career and the job market is shit? You will most likely remain a low pay wage slave for the rest of your pathetic existence.

You only have to extrapolate your current situation and all of its immediate ramifications to arrive at a reasonably accurate idea of the future.




Nihilism is very much the default state of any high sentience being who's been through trials and tribulations. Being nihilistic and pragmatic to the core will save you from making life altering errors.

Past experiences don't just guide your decision making.They are what made you the man you are today. Your entire state of being and mindset is the result of past positive or negative experiences. Adopting such a dismissive attitude towards your past is very much wrong. You will ALWAYS dwell on the past if it sucked. Always. Whether you like it or not. Sure it's unhealthy, but it is what it is.

I like you.

 

[Cybersex is our hope]

My prospects are narrowing by the day, people my age go through marriages and kids and already have lead full lives and have been through the full range of human emotions and experiences.

My body is deteriorating, my mind is growing duller by the day - a fate that no human can escape.

Can't stop my brain from thinking about what I missed out on, on contemplating all of my regrets - despite actively trying to brainwash myself with all the "live in the present" "forget about the past" mumbo jumbo you can think of. No amount of religious or spiritual, philosophical ways of looking at life can make me see past my own failures and regrets, for some reason my brain won't let itself be brainwashed.

And the worst of it all? If I could do it all again, I'm sure I'd do the exact same things. My past failures aren't a result of me doing something wrong, they're a result of me being me. This is who I am, I am a living mistake, a living contradiction never able to be happy.

Same here. Worst thing is exactly I won't change shit if I was able to live the same life again lol

 

[TheNEET]

barely anything would be a problem if I was immortal

 

[Smallondick]

No amount of religious or spiritual, philosophical ways of looking at life can make me see past my own failures and regrets, for some reason my brain won't let itself be brainwashed.

That is terrible. I'm feel the same or I'm beginning to feel, I do not know if I go for antidepressants.

 

[Deleted member 11032]

My prospects are narrowing by the day, people my age go through marriages and kids and already have lead full lives and have been through the full range of human emotions and experiences.

My body is deteriorating, my mind is growing duller by the day - a fate that no human can escape.

Can't stop my brain from thinking about what I missed out on, on contemplating all of my regrets - despite actively trying to brainwash myself with all the "live in the present" "forget about the past" mumbo jumbo you can think of. No amount of religious or spiritual, philosophical ways of looking at life can make me see past my own failures and regrets, for some reason my brain won't let itself be brainwashed.

And the worst of it all? If I could do it all again, I'm sure I'd do the exact same things. My past failures aren't a result of me doing something wrong, they're a result of me being me. This is who I am, I am a living mistake, a living contradiction never able to be happy.

Always found your posts to be high iq and relatable.

It isn't, assuming you understand your current circumstances well and you don't have much potential. Incel past your mid 20s, balding and getting nasal folds? You're going to be sex starved for life, unless you - stupidly - betabux. You don't have a career and the job market is shit? You will most likely remain a low pay wage slave for the rest of your pathetic existence.

You only have to extrapolate your current situation and all of its immediate ramifications to arrive at a reasonably accurate idea of the future.




Nihilism is very much the default state of any high sentience being who's been through trials and tribulations. Being nihilistic and pragmatic to the core will save you from making life altering errors.

Past experiences don't just guide your decision making.They are what made you the man you are today. Your entire state of being and mindset is the result of past positive or negative experiences. Adopting such a dismissive attitude towards your past is very much wrong. You will ALWAYS dwell on the past if it sucked. Always. Whether you like it or not. Sure it's unhealthy, but it is what it is.

High iq.

 

[Michael15651]

I think everything become harder and harder by day. agepill is worst

Yeah, looking back at all the opportunities you've missed it brutal.

 

[_wifebeater_]

Yeah, looking back at all the opportunities you've missed it brutal.

I've never had an opportunity to miss.

 

[GameDevCel]

I didn't start caring until my early 20s tbh. And even then I couldn't figure out exactly what was missing in my life. For a while I thought it was a social circle or some greater purpose (e.g. a meaningful career). Now I realize it was all about sex. Youngcels need to understand that everything else is cope. Socialmaxxing, making money, etc. is just a means to an end.

also din't cared about all this crap untilo i was out of high school