Serious Inceldom is not just about sex

[Lv99_BixNood]

We talk about sex a lot, but not having sex is just the consequence of being a low value male at the bottom of the social hierarchy. The pain of inceldom is not just about celibacy and loneliness, but also about having zero value in society, being disrespected and laughed at, and the general hopelessness to ever ascend from this position.

There are only two socially acceptable trajectories for men to succeed in society: get married or be a hedonistic Chad and play the field as eternal bachelor. There is no space for men who aren't able to have sex. You are an eternal outsider, an undesirable element at the very bottom of society. This is something I don't see mentioned a lot and should be emphasized more.

 

[BataviaCel]

 

[VitaminS]

spot on muh brocel

 

[zephyr]

but also about having zero value in society, being disrespected and laughed at

Education never told me I need at least Cs to pass my exams

I would be told "Be a comedian" often. As in. I was a Jester to them.

 

[Med Anime]

true shit tbh, you're not here just because you don't have a gf but for other reasons also
tbh if i wasn't facially ugly and short i wouldn't come to this forum, getting a gf isn't much of a problem to me the same being ugly and having low self esteem is. also bullying is a thing but i don't care about something that happened years ago

 

[parzurnacs]

The real pain about inceldom is realizing that even if you could ascend you already know the true nature of women and now all that love fantasy that you believed in is nothing but a lie. One of the things you valued and wished for the most turned out to be a lie.

 

[Indari]

Water. We all know this but normies will always portray our positions as bad faith as possible.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

We talk about sex a lot, but not having sex is just the consequence of being a low value male at the bottom of the social hierarchy. The pain of inceldom is not just about celibacy and loneliness, but also about having zero value in society, being disrespected and laughed at, and the general hopelessness to ever ascend from this position.

There are only two socially acceptable trajectories for men to succeed in society: get married or be a hedonistic Chad and play the field as eternal bachelor. There is no space for men who aren't able to have sex. You are an eternal outsider, an undesirable element at the very bottom of society. This is something I don't see mentioned a lot and should be emphasized more.

Ugly earns us disdain across the board not just from foids but from everyone, our only use is to provide unthanked labor.

 

[BornToLose]

In normie speak I'd call it a state of severe, relentless depression.

 

[Lv99_BixNood]

In normie speak I'd call it a state of severe, relentless depression.

Normies will just understand that as a muh brain chemistry argument and suggest you just take pills and go to therapy when in reality your life is just objectively shit and no amount of drugs or therapy can change that.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

The real pain about inceldom is realizing that even if you could ascend you already know the true nature of women and now all that love fantasy that you believed in is nothing but a lie. One of the things you valued and wished for the most turned out to be a lie.

This is the actual pain. Even if you do "ascend" now, it's too late.

 

[BornToLose]

Normies will just understand that as a muh brain chemistry argument and suggest you just take pills and go to therapy when in reality your life is just objectively shit and no amount of drugs or therapy can change that.

True tbf. It is severe, relentless depression but yeah they will think it's not because of the reasons that we know it is. Or more likely won't admit it.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I can totally live without sex tbh, I like masturbation.

What's really hurtful is the lack of recognition, the lack of attraction, the lack of affection, the lack of intimacy, etc.

 

[ElliotRodgerGod]

I thought it was already implied - your ability to get sex affects every facet of your life.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

We talk about sex a lot, but not having sex is just the consequence of being a low value male at the bottom of the social hierarchy. The pain of inceldom is not just about celibacy and loneliness, but also about having zero value in society, being disrespected and laughed at, and the general hopelessness to ever ascend from this position.

There are only two socially acceptable trajectories for men to succeed in society: get married or be a hedonistic Chad and play the field as eternal bachelor. There is no space for men who aren't able to have sex. You are an eternal outsider, an undesirable element at the very bottom of society. This is something I don't see mentioned a lot and should be emphasized more.

actually you can also be gay, or trans-- have you thought about exploring your sexuality?

 

[Lv99_BixNood]

actually you can also be gay, or trans-- have you thought about exploring your sexuality?

That's unironically the only solution they offer. They want us all to become gay while also claiming you can't change your sexuality and forcing fags to be straight is genocide. Jfl at the irony

 

[SlayerSlayer]

That's unironically the only solution they offer. They want us all to become gay while also claiming you can't change your sexuality and forcing fags to be straight is genocide. Jfl at the irony

WHAT I HATE ABOUT THE JEW MOVIES MOST OF ALL IS THAT ALWAYS MAKE THE MINORITY MALE GAY, LUMP ALL THIS DIVERSITY ON ONE PERSON AND HES JUST A FUCKING CLOWN. WHITE JEWS LAUGHING AT A GAY NIGGER QUEEN WITH AIDS THAT THEY WROTE THEMSELVES

 

[Lv99_BixNood]

WHAT I HATE ABOUT THE JEW MOVIES MOST OF ALL IS THAT ALWAYS MAKE THE MINORITY MALE GAY, LUMP ALL THIS DIVERSITY ON ONE PERSON AND HES JUST A FUCKING CLOWN. WHITE JEWS LAUGHING AT A GAY NIGGER QUEEN WITH AIDS THAT THEY WROTE THEMSELVES

 

[diedlonely]

I thought it was already implied - your ability to get sex affects every facet of your life.

It shouldn’t but it really does.
Fuck this world.