Inceldom doesn't come out of the blue. Having a oneitis is one sign

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There are signs of looming inceldom even from childhood. Including having a oneitis. This comprehensive study on love shy men showed that virgin, love shy men were much more likely to have been infatuated with a single girl, sometimes even a particular movie star or TV character, than other men.

http://www.love-shy.com/gilmartin_book/download.php?downloadbook=true

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[Michael15651]

Great way of putting it, OP.