B
Either due to some mental problem and/or always being excluded and considered an outsider and abnormal.
D
Social skills are picked up from groups
The problem is no one wants you in their group
The problem is no one wants you in their group
B
yup
goddamn so fucking brutal
but true, very true
every true incel has zero social skills
Honestly , i cant stand going out with normies , thier boring as fuck . If i could take an incel like minded friend to a club or bar or something as wingman lets say , i think my situation was alot better .
I just cant relate with normies ...thier too stupid , im sorry but its the truth , i feel like High IQ when im speaking to them , almost like im a robot .
But with my aspie cousin - shit .. im the most social person there is
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ouch
my face is abysmal
D
I have literally no social skills due to autism and high inhibition.
I find it very exhausting to socialize, probably because it doesn’t feel natural to me.
This as well.
know that feeling bro ...
It ruined my career , every damn job interview is world war
Same. Autism is death sentence for many men.
Social skills are just another way to say looks
I had to relearn social skills,it was fucking horrible
Social skills = understanding how to lie in a convincing manner so as to give yourself a competitive advantage or prevent conflict
Autists have "bad social skills" because they are fully truthful, prefer to LDAR instead of compete in a rigged game, and don't care about whether they offend others.
Autists have "bad social skills" because they are fully truthful, prefer to LDAR instead of compete in a rigged game, and don't care about whether they offend others.
Cope. I've seen many ugly guys with good social skills.
I'd give my social skills a 3/10 tbh ngl.
I need someone who's probably as socially inept as me to understand my social incapabilities and we build a friendship from that.
Socialising with normies? Impossible.
I need someone who's probably as socially inept as me to understand my social incapabilities and we build a friendship from that.
Socialising with normies? Impossible.
What did they accomplish with them?
D
I can only interact with other autists
pretty true , not that i care much , im low inhibiting already , stealing and shit
Look brocel. I'm a high inhibcel and I don't know how to act or what to say when I'm around people. I suffer from social anxiety and agoraphobia so I'm knowing what I'm talking about. They (the ugly guys with good social skills) at least can order food without acting like a legit autist, they can enter shops and buy the things they want and go to corwded places and for example talk in the phone, you name it. I cannot do these "simple" things without a herculian effort. I'm not talking here about foids nor dating. If you don't have social skills you're doomed
Same tbh they either talk about who won the latest football match or which mainstream game they're gonna consoom.
I talk quietly now a days because my mind keeps telling me that the person I'm talking to isn't interested, or they're not paying attention, or they're going to interrupt me any second. And I stutter sometimes and forget words. It's all part of being rejected. Part of being INCEL!!!!!!!
I WISH I WAS NORMAL!!!
I WISH I WAS NORMAL!!!
I'm sorry for your situation, but still social skills matter only in these extreme situations and here I guess is more of a genetic thing (just like every inceldom-related problem). Social skills as in learning how to talk with normies about sports for example is pretty useless imho
Thank you brocel! Maybe it's genetic maybe not. I wasn't like that when I was a teen/kid even though I was often bullied and mistreated cuz I was very peaceful (or low T? lol) and didn't like fights. In fact, I was low inhib god. I used to do crazy things. Things have changed a lot when I turned 19 and they're getting worse. When I'm talking about social skills I didn't mean talking with stupid normies. I wanna just do basic shit. Social skills are a necessity but they won't get you laid. Dating is about LOOKS (but as I said even with good looks you still need some basic social skills...)
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Chad can have the social skills of an aspie and still slay
The only way to pick up social skills is to have a social circle.
The only way to get a social circle is have social skills
The only way to get a social circle is have social skills
Then we are using two different definitions but at the end we're saying the same thing
they used to be but now people are surprised when i mention i have autism.
the problem is my looks.
the problem is my looks.
Eh for men social circle after 20 is basically just taking advantage of eachother.
No point to be friends with a socially retarded incel since you would only damage yourself any gain nothing.
No point to be friends with a socially retarded incel since you would only damage yourself any gain nothing.
My social skills are alright 1 on 1, but I error.exe when there's a group of people.
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This, I was in groups and shitty clubs, and it was the same thing everywhere. Looks determined how popular you are and the ugly people got treated the worst. If you're ugly and you try to social skills maxx you just get treated like a jester. Also once you learn how to rate e.g. maxilla, mandible, eye area you realize that mental illness=looks and that tall people and facially attractive people don't get anxiety.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0901502715000557
social skills me
how the fuck do you even talk to people post K-12?
Wanting a GF but having no social skills, no looks and no money.
ITS OVER.
ITS OVER.
I dont have social skills
It's not all looks when it comes to socializing, there are popular ugly hyper NT guys and unpopular good looking autistic guys. You admit yourself that ugly guys can jestermaxx and gain friends, someone who's average or above or tall and autistic cannot do this.
I dont even have social skills tbh
I’ve gone out with my blackpilled friend and we just stand there because we both know it’s over jfl
No, there are not ugly popular guys that are hyper nt. Jesters aren't popular. If you're a jester it's you doing all the work in social situations and getting nothing in return. It's like how when people use the kid with down syndrome for content.
The brain lights up when seeing attractive faces, and is repulsed by seeing ugly people.
Seeing disfigured faces prompts negative brain and behavior responses
A new study finds that people have implicit negative biases against people with disfigured faces, without knowingly harboring such biases.
www.sciencedaily.com
If you're ugly it's over for you. People would rather be around an autistic average looking sperg than be around an ugly male.
my social skills are hello then goodbye and that's about it.
i had ONE true friend that i could truthfully talk to and he moved away.
No, there are not ugly popular guys that are hyper nt. Jesters aren't popular. If you're a jester it's you doing all the work in social situations and getting nothing in return. It's like how when people use the kid with down syndrome for content.
The brain lights up when seeing attractive faces, and is repulsed by seeing ugly people.
Seeing disfigured faces prompts negative brain and behavior responses
A new study finds that people have implicit negative biases against people with disfigured faces, without knowingly harboring such biases.www.sciencedaily.com
If you're ugly it's over for you. People would rather be around an autistic average looking sperg than be around an ugly male.
Even so they still have friends and can act socially normal, even if they are not popular people don't actively despise the. On the other hand nobody wants to be around average looking sperg, the cringe would be unbearable. The sperg you posted is above average, not average. Also the study references noticeably disfigured faces not just below average ones.
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