To be honest many adults never learn basic hygiene and grooming because their parents ignore their existence. I love my mother because she pays the house and college and stuff but she doesn't do anything else for me, she doesn't talk with me, my house feels like a fucking hotel filled with strangers, she didn't even teach me to wipe my ass jfl when I was like 6yo I figured it out because I dared to try. The same happened when I crossed the street alone for the first time, she never taught me, I just dared to try and then she criticized me and say I'm too useless for that and that I shouldn't cross the street alone because I'm stupid, but then I figured out how to do it well and she stopped worrying.
I remember I once went to a classmate's house and I was genuinely surprised he had conversations with her mother, I couldn't believe people trusted their mothers that much, I never talk with mine, I don't even know her.
She never taught me to tie my shoes, it was the sister of my grandmathe one who taught me and my cousins how to do it.
Of course she never taught me to wash my dick, idk if it's normal for mothers to teach that or people just figured it out but when I was in highschool I thought my cheesedick full of smegma was normal until I overheard three men talking about washing their penis and then I realized I was doing things wrong all this time.
I'm trying to find haircuts that fit me and trying to shave more often, but my mother never helped me with those things.
At least my grandma talked with me when I was little but she was a little bit harsh and frequently called me useless and asked me if I was stupid, sometimes she talked to me in a harsh tone so I basically learned that I was inferior and useless from a very early age, my self esteem was destroyed since I was four jfl.
I genuinely feel like a fucking caveman, I'm not well educated about the basic things of the outside world and the internet is the only tool I can use to learn about how things are out there, the internet is my true mother and my true nationality.
I remember I once went to a classmate's house and I was genuinely surprised he had conversations with her mother, I couldn't believe people trusted their mothers that much, I never talk with mine, I don't even know her.
She never taught me to tie my shoes, it was the sister of my grandmathe one who taught me and my cousins how to do it.
Of course she never taught me to wash my dick, idk if it's normal for mothers to teach that or people just figured it out but when I was in highschool I thought my cheesedick full of smegma was normal until I overheard three men talking about washing their penis and then I realized I was doing things wrong all this time.
I'm trying to find haircuts that fit me and trying to shave more often, but my mother never helped me with those things.
At least my grandma talked with me when I was little but she was a little bit harsh and frequently called me useless and asked me if I was stupid, sometimes she talked to me in a harsh tone so I basically learned that I was inferior and useless from a very early age, my self esteem was destroyed since I was four jfl.
I genuinely feel like a fucking caveman, I'm not well educated about the basic things of the outside world and the internet is the only tool I can use to learn about how things are out there, the internet is my true mother and my true nationality.
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