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LDAR Incel trait: Your parents cared so little about you that you had to learn hygiene on the internet

AshamedVirgin34

AshamedVirgin34

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To be honest many adults never learn basic hygiene and grooming because their parents ignore their existence. I love my mother because she pays the house and college and stuff but she doesn't do anything else for me, she doesn't talk with me, my house feels like a fucking hotel filled with strangers, she didn't even teach me to wipe my ass jfl when I was like 6yo I figured it out because I dared to try. The same happened when I crossed the street alone for the first time, she never taught me, I just dared to try and then she criticized me and say I'm too useless for that and that I shouldn't cross the street alone because I'm stupid, but then I figured out how to do it well and she stopped worrying.

I remember I once went to a classmate's house and I was genuinely surprised he had conversations with her mother, I couldn't believe people trusted their mothers that much, I never talk with mine, I don't even know her.

She never taught me to tie my shoes, it was the sister of my grandmathe one who taught me and my cousins how to do it.

Of course she never taught me to wash my dick, idk if it's normal for mothers to teach that or people just figured it out but when I was in highschool I thought my cheesedick full of smegma was normal until I overheard three men talking about washing their penis and then I realized I was doing things wrong all this time.

I'm trying to find haircuts that fit me and trying to shave more often, but my mother never helped me with those things.

At least my grandma talked with me when I was little but she was a little bit harsh and frequently called me useless and asked me if I was stupid, sometimes she talked to me in a harsh tone so I basically learned that I was inferior and useless from a very early age, my self esteem was destroyed since I was four jfl.

I genuinely feel like a fucking caveman, I'm not well educated about the basic things of the outside world and the internet is the only tool I can use to learn about how things are out there, the internet is my true mother and my true nationality.
 
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i pissed in the corners of my room when i was 8 cause i was scared the grudge girl would snatch me in the night
 
i pissed in the corners of my room when i was 8 cause i was scared the grudge girl would snatch me in the night
Mastered the art of marking one's territory at the tender age of 8 :chad:
 
i pissed in the corners of my room when i was 8 cause i was scared the grudge girl would snatch me in the night
Michael Jordan Lol GIF
 
Of course she never taught me to wash my dick
My mother never taught me this, either. As a result, I have phimosis. I never bothered to fix it because what's the fucking point when you're a subhuman anyway jfl. :lul:
 
My mother never taught me this, either. As a result, I have phimosis. I never bothered to fix it because what's the fucking point when you're a subhuman anyway jfl. :lul:
You should try to fix it anyway don't let problems grow, our lives are already too bad we can't let it get worse we can't be that passive.

But yeah, I didn't know how to wash my dick and tbh I don't understand how the hell was I supposed to learn that out of nowhere? I fucking hate this society, I feel I'm treated like absolute trash.
 
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You should try to fix it anyway don't let problems grow, our lives are already too bad we can't let it get worse we can't be that passive.
I only have phimosis when my dick is hard, so it's not a problem. I still wash under my skin every time I shower, which is like 3x per week. I won't get it fixed, there's no point. 0% chance I'll need it and I don't wanna see an escort
 
I wasn't even told to wash my legs.
Only female at work said in a condescending tone that I need to wash my legs
Imagine the embarrassment.
I was neglected at extreme level, almost like a hobo.
When you're ugly, no one cares about you...
 
I wasn't even told to wash my legs.
Only female at work said in a condescending tone that I need to wash my legs
Imagine the embarrassment.
I was neglected at extreme level, almost like a hobo.
When you're ugly, no one cares about you...
Yeah, nobody told me, but myself found out I had to brush my teeth for 2 minutes, and floss at night. I would have genuinely roped without atleast some proper hygiene.
 
I wasn't even told to wash my legs.
Only female at work said in a condescending tone that I need to wash my legs
Imagine the embarrassment.
I was neglected at extreme level, almost like a hobo.
When you're ugly, no one cares about you...
Wow dude, to be honest at least they told you instead of ostracizing you without at least telling you why. Some of us were born in conditions that are too wrong, I hate how much your life is ruined if you're born in a bad family.
 
I hate how much your life is ruined if you're born in a bad family.
It's very hard, almost impossible, to grow up as a normal person if you was raised in dysfunctional family.
 
Any notable people who have?
I'm sure you can find some notable people who grew up in 'bad' families or without parents.
But were they 'normal'? You can become notable by massacring other people, for example.
 
Still haven't learned how to speak properly. Zero Speech Therapy when I was a kid.
 

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