RageFuel Incel trait: Your mom keeps comparing you to other people your age

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Can anyone relate ? I dont know if she does it intentionally to hurt me or if she is trying to do retarded normie smalltalk, but she kept and keeps comparing me directly or indirectly to other people my age. She will tell me how X whom i went to school with now lives with his gf who he met in midldle school now live in an apartment together or how Y is studying and working as whatever, while all i do is ldar at home.

I wish i could say i dont give a shit about how other peoples live are, but truth is that shit actually hurts me and makes me feel even more depressed.

 

[lnceI]

Of course

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Of course

I wish they would accept that im a hopeless case and that they would just leave me alone

 

[Geno]

Mine has never done this to me. She probably is aware that all it does is make the child feel like shit

 

[AdExpress]

all the time

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Mine has never done this to me. She probably is aware that all it does is make the child feel like shit

Mogs me for having a somewhat empathetic mother, mine is mostly cold hearted

 

[Geno]

Mogs me for having a somewhat empathetic mother, mine is mostly cold hearted

She still is a shit mother, but it's because she is retarded and clueless.

 

[Albertopenheimer]

worst is that shes to retarted to know it makes depressed and that now matter how u try, as ugly u cant get gf

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

She still is a shit mother, but it's because she is retarded and clueless.

worst is that shes to retarted to know it makes depressed and that now matter how u try, as ugly u cant get gf

Its brutal having a mom who keeps trying to feed you the blue pill. She always dismissed all the struggles i faced due to height and bullying (big mistake sharing that with her, i know)

 

[La Longue Fourchett]

Yep.
W got straight A's
X got into ivy league
Y got work at ___company
Z got married and bought a huge home

 

[TheIndividual]

I think it stems from this mentality:

"I raised this child, so their level of success reflects my ability to parent. If my child fails, it means I did a bad job."

Not to say that all motherly love is selfish, perhaps she genuinely made sacrifices for you, but the motherly instinct can indeed be tainted by selfishness.

 

[gluttony]

Yep.
W got straight A's
X got into ivy league
Y got work at ___company
Z got married and bought a huge home

 

[Trident]

hey look this guy is 10 years younger and makes millions

 

[Trident]

say it's all her fault

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

say it's all her fault

Not worth arguing with her, she is a NPD bitch who puts the blame on everything and everyone but herself

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

I think it stems from this mentality:

"I raised this child, so their level of success reflects my ability to parent. If my child fails, it means I did a bad job."

Not to say that all motherly love is selfish, perhaps she genuinely made sacrifices for you, but the motherly instinct can indeed be tainted by selfishness.

This. MothERs see their cildren as some sort of clout. Like if their child does well they are looked upon as being good or special or something like that.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

This. MothERs see their cildren as some sort of clout. Like if their child does well they are looked upon as being good or special or something like that.

When their son is winner, the mom wants to take all the credit on how great of a mother she is.

But if her son is a loser, then she will blame everyone and everything for his misachievements

 

[Zaraj11]

She always compares me...

 

[The Void]

Mine did this once in a while, it never really bothered me. But then, just for fun, i started comparing her with other moms or women in general, and she suddenly stopped it. XD

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

But if her son is a loser, then she will blame everyone and everything for his misachievements

My mom does this. She accuses like forums and the internet for the way I have turned out.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Mine did this once in a while, it never really bothered me. But then, just for fun, i started comparing her with other moms or women in general, and she suddenly stopped it. XD

how exactly did you compare her ?

My mom does this. She accuses like forums and the internet for the way I have turned out.

When i was younger she always accused video games and the internet if i said or did something she didnt like (which is like everything, since me existing is already a severe crime in her eyes)

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Yes
Despite her being as useless as me

 

[Pancakecel]

How does she know what random people you went to school with are doing now, does she stalk them on social media?

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

How does she know what random people you went to school with are doing now, does she stalk them on social media?

She knows some of their moms

 

[Pancakecel]

She knows some of their moms

Ah ok, that's annoying. I wish parents wouldn't do that shit, what do they think comparing their kids to others will achieve. All it does is make them feel worse.

 

[KetamineCel]

“why can’t you be more like x”

 

[Geno]

My mom does this. She accuses like forums and the internet for the way I have turned out.

When i was younger she always accused video games and the internet if i said or did something she didnt like

Mine has done this before too but not often. It is stupid as fuck because they are the ones who give internet access to their kids in the first place.

 

[The Void]

how exactly did you compare her ?

Looks, accomplishments in life etc. I did it compare her in the same way as she compared me.

 

[zd60]

sometimes but not as often anymore

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Yes, my Mom did this and wew smokies did she learn the hard way the damage that did to me.

 

[Klaus.]

Can anyone relate ? I dont know if she does it intentionally to hurt me or if she is trying to do retarded normie smalltalk, but she kept and keeps comparing me directly or indirectly to other people my age. She will tell me how X whom i went to school with now lives with his gf who he met in midldle school now live in an apartment together or how Y is studying and working as whatever, while all i do is ldar at home.

I wish i could say i dont give a shit about how other peoples live are, but truth is that shit actually hurts me and makes me feel even more depressed.

It's true, especially with my shitty friend Chad. He always succeeds in everything, always has a girlfriend...How am I friends with him? I have no choice, otherwise I don't have one friend...

 

[Emba]

"Why can't you be like Endicott?"


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0s0onZaiL4Q

 

[Manlet]

Just cut your parents out of your life and never talk to them again theory.

 

[Emba]

"Why can't you be like
Lloyd Braun?"

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=20LTYxHON3g

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Just cut your parents out of your life and never talk to them again theory.

No money

 

[Manlet]

No money

Yeah I figured the case was that you were dependent on them.
I can tell you my life has improved 1000% since cutting my parents out of my life though they made my life a living hell, I dont know your parents but if they are half as bad as mine the sooner you can cut them out of your life the better you will be.

 

[Failed Pullout]

Her intention is to make you feel worse about yourself and muh improoov or whatever.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Yeah I figured the case was that you were dependent on them.
I can tell you my life has improved 1000% since cutting my parents out of my life though they made my life a living hell, I dont know your parents but if they are half as bad as mine the sooner you can cut them out of your life the better you will be.

Luckily i dont see my parents too often anymore, usuallly like once a month. Living with my grandparents has plenty of benefits, i have to do almost nothing

 

[Grodd]

Used to alot but not so much anymore

 

[Extern]

They stopped caring much after I got autism dx

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

They stopped caring much after I got autism dx

dx ? You mean diagnosis ?

 

[Extern]

dx ? You mean diagnosis ?

Yea, much lower expectations for me now. Got dx at 20 or 21