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sub3genecel

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I’ve had people telling me this since I was like 16 after I told some people I thought were my friends about my lack of success in dating, my issues with my family, my experiences with being bullied, the abuse I received from my bosses at my job, and my daily routine. After I told them they told some other people about it too. I still have people tell me how sad my life was in high school and asking me if it’s any better now

Was this just something that happened to me or did this happen to anyone else
 
Everyone tells me that i'm mentally ill, i'm already on antidepressants but nothing seems to work
 
Everyone tells me that i'm mentally ill, i'm already on antidepressants but nothing seems to work
Everyone here has some mental issues it’s natural when you have been ostracized your entire life
 
No im just avoided
 
Everyone here has some mental issues it’s natural when you have been ostracized your entire life
Some people are NT on here or have friends I don't have either
 
No, they do fucking worse, they gaslit me saying 'But a lot of people wish to be in your place, without a partner, is not worth it!'
 
Some people are NT on here or have friends I don't have either
I have 1 friend and I’m not diagnosed with anything but growing up everyone called me sped or autistic
 
No, they do fucking worse, they gaslit me saying 'But a lot of people wish to be in your place, without a partner, is not worth it!'
My family tries to gaslight me so much by saying having a relationship wouldn’t fix any of my problems like it wouldn’t fix literally every single problem I have in my life
 
I have 1 friend and I’m not diagnosed with anything but growing up everyone called me sped or autistic
Having high inhibition and social anxiety sucks so much, growing up I stuttered a lot as well and would jestermax for normies approval
 
growing up I stuttered a lot as well and would jestermax for normies approval
I tried jestermaxxing but I got told I was annoying and people only avoided me
 
My family tries to gaslight me so much by saying having a relationship wouldn’t fix any of my problems like it wouldn’t fix literally every single problem I have in my life

Sucks, everyone married telling you that marriage is bad.

Everyone with kids saying kids are annoyng.

Everyone who gets sick has someone to driven then to the hospital, when I get alone I will have nobody to care for me but myself, sucks.
 
I tried jestermaxxing but I got told I was annoying and people only avoided me
They would laugh at me but I was funny at times or at least I think I was so maybe some of it was genuine, I still cringe thinking back on it
 
Sucks, everyone married telling you that marriage is bad.

Everyone with kids saying kids are annoyng.

Everyone who gets sick has someone to driven then to the hospital, when I get alone I will have nobody to care for me but myself, sucks.
It’s like a billionaire saying money doesn’t buy happiness
 
They would laugh at me but I was funny at times or at least I think I was so maybe some of it was genuine, I still cringe thinking back on it
I guess I wasn’t funny :feelskek:
 
No im just avoided
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Like I said I can't tell that's how socially retarded I am lol
I couldn’t tell that people were avoiding me until looking at it retrospectively I’m not good at reading people
 
I know that my life is pathetic.
 
Only in the online world.
 
No, I don't communicate with anyone.
 
Someone literally said to me during last year of high school, "If you were a charity, I would give money to your cause."
 
Never tell people your weaknesses
 
I’ve had people telling me this since I was like 16 after I told some people I thought were my friends about my lack of success in dating, my issues with my family, my experiences with being bullied, the abuse I received from my bosses at my job, and my daily routine. After I told them they told some other people about it too. I still have people tell me how sad my life was in high school and asking me if it’s any better now

Was this just something that happened to me or did this happen to anyone else
one time when i was 18 this mid age guy, whilst i was a cashier said
"is this all you do with your life?"
smiled then left
 
My family tries to gaslight me so much by saying having a relationship wouldn’t fix any of my problems like it wouldn’t fix literally every single problem I have in my life
To be honest, thats actually very true,
because your facially a problem,
lmao.
 
Too many times to count, by my own mother and sister
 
Went from bullied, to being in an experimental class where everyone was friends managed to get lots of friends, then just ended up avoided and invicible for 3 years, and bullied for 1 of that year
 
I can relate. People have said it to me out of the blue and without context. They've done it to me with the clear intention of making me look ridiculous.
 
yes, all the time, they say my life is depressing and that i should get a girl

"yoooo just get some confidence dude, and she will fall for you...." :soy:
 
No because apart from my mother I was never close to anyone for them to know how I live my life
 
Not in those exact words but yes
 
Yes many times, by classmates growing up they would tell me to kill myself if they were me they would do it , i was so ugly i dont even know how i went out in public, i was told to kill myself or accused of wanting to kill them every day until covid, then things got better by staying home and when i went back i had majorly lost weight and i looksmaxxed to looking almost like a human by fixing my teeth and hair cut. Then recently i was talking online to some nazi larping foid she was playing videogames with me and other men often and one day i told her i loved her, my mistake for doing so because she started saying to others im too chopped and "omg ew he thinks i want him" and she told me it was my personality she said im too depressed and miserable sbe wouldnt be with me even if i was taller, and i believed it, im always retarded depressed and miserable, so she probably didnt even lie. Now she insults me all the time and she thinks im basically a stalker for having a crush on her. Truth is when ugly people have crushes its always creepy and stalking when chads hav3 crushes its cute romantic and sensitive even if they follow her every night
 
Gay

u have foid friends?

sounds like ur fine looking just insufferable :feelskek:
Yeah i have a terrible personality, i dont have foid friends she just infiltratwd our gaming sessions, but its irrelevant now, she is just a whore who larps for male attention online.
im not fine looking my face is severly asymmetrical expecially my nose and jaw, my ramus is like over 4cm on one side and genuinely 0 on the other. I have recessed infraorbitals, and a terrible overbite despite my parents spending thousands to try to fix ir when i was a kid.
On top of that im very socially isolated i barely leavr my house, so that made me even more unsufferable , i dont know how to improve it and i genyinely dont care anymore i lost every hope for the future and i hope i die very soon so i dont go to hell roping
 
All the time, but less now as I tend to not leave the house much in regards to meeting new people.
 
I have one close friend I’ve known since high school and he’s the only person aside from my immediate family I regularly talk to. He doesn’t say it out right but I can feel that all he has is pity for me. Same with my father. Not disappointment, but I can feel the pity he has for the man I am today.
 
Coworker the other day said "Wow you have no life"
 

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