Its not a “secret“ for me at least.
Knowing what I’ve come to know about women and their true nature I will accept nothing less than a 10 out of 10 giga Stacy at this point in my life.
And I could honestly care less at this point even if that guarantees I will die alone.
Hint to the low IQ’s out there: Everyone dies alone, even Chad and Stacy as its an individual experience not a shared one.
Anyway,
During my blue pilled low self esteem having youth, filled with delusions of true love, loyalty and romance, I would’ve literally forced myself to come to accept almost any type of female in my age range as a girlfriend if one were to have wanted me, as I’d have been so grateful that she’d given me a chance that I’d literally force myself to find her attractive enough over time in order to stay with her and thereby pay back the great “gift” that she’d given me by in a sense gifting her back in return by providing her with myself and all the loyalty, love and hard work at wage cucking and keeping the relationship going that, that would entail.
No such luck for me though as even pre internet + social media and dating apps, the girls in my gen X era only wanted thug maxxed wiggers and Chadrones among other druggie lowlives.
That said even during my desperate for a girlfriend youth, I still wouldn’t of gone to Shallow Hal levels just to have someone of the opposite sex in my life.
So my reasonable standards were zero fatties whatsoever as I just can’t force myself to be attracted to that on any level and as for ugly girls? Up to a certain degree so long as they’re not fat.
Thus IT is wrong once again or at least it was wrong about me in my youth ie other than fat girls I’d have given just about any girl regardless of attractiveness level a chance but they all only wanted thugs and scum.