It's Over Incel trait: you preplan conversations

[Friezacel]

Almost every time i have to call someone or ask someone something at work i already preplan the conversation in my head. Im too autistic and socially retarded to just go with the flow and talk without a plan. Meanwhile NT normies can just start a conversation with anyone without trying and it all flows naturally

 

[KillNiggers]

Brootal. I never preplanned except for a job interview a bit.

 

[Friezacel]

Brootal. I never preplanned except for a job interview a bit.

mogs me hard

 

[faded]

Brootal. I never preplanned except for a job interview a bit.

 

[cripplecel]

Yes I do it all the time

 

[Acorn]

 

[zerozerozero]

i did this for a long time but now i just unironically be myself. it feels good knowing my autistic mannerisms and awkwardness makes normies feel uncomfortable and annoys them

 

[Cryotron]

yes, and even if you preplan it you easily fail because you're not talking like you planned to.

 

[Friezacel]

yes, and even if you preplan it you easily fail because you're not talking like you planned to.

hits hard

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Relatable af

 

[mcmoohyun]

 

[Left4DeadKoala]

Brootal I do that too

 

[Bianor]

Yes I do it all the time

 

[Nate Dogg]

Yes but it never goes remotely as planned

 

[SociallyStupid]

yes, and even if you preplan it you easily fail because you're not talking like you planned to.

Yeah, when I don't know what to say I am just way too slow in any conversation. When they talk about something and I think about what to say, then the moment I know what to say they are already at the next topic. And if anyone asks me anything I do not expect and I am not prepared for I stumble around for like 10 seconds when I try to search for an answer and often just talk crap initially because I don't know what to answer but also don't want to be silent.

I guess that's also part of the reason why nobody wants to be with me: I am too fucking slow in conversations.

 

[RealSchizo]

 

[SteelCentaur]

Yes but it never goes remotely as planned

This, and it's so brutal. All of that planning and mental pain for nothing.

 

[highschoolcel]

Almost every time i have to call someone or ask someone something at work i already preplan the conversation in my head. Im too autistic and socially retarded to just go with the flow and talk without a plan. Meanwhile NT normies can just start a conversation with anyone without trying and it all flows naturally

SPOT ON

You wouldn’t believe how many times ive tried to pre script a conversation with a girl.

It never works though.

 

[adharmi]

Yes I do it all the time

Relatable af

 

[Friezacel]

SPOT ON

You wouldn’t believe how many times ive tried to pre script a conversation with a girl.

It never works though.

I have become so socially retarded that i cant even speak without forgetting what i wanted to say and stutter my arse off

 

[LifeMaxxer]

Never goes as planned. Whats worse is I only do it when im nervous and when things go wrong, I panic

 

[rext]

everyone preplan at least something

 

[LORD_DARTOYL]

Almost every time i have to call someone or ask someone something at work i already preplan the conversation in my head. Im too autistic and socially retarded to just go with the flow and talk without a plan. Meanwhile NT normies can just start a conversation with anyone without trying and it all flows naturally

Litterly me

 

[slavcel11]

i often play out conversations in my head, and before asking something or making a call i will write down and rehearse everything i would say or ask

 

[Mrugly420]

Almost every time i have to call someone or ask someone something at work i already preplan the conversation in my head. Im too autistic and socially retarded to just go with the flow and talk without a plan. Meanwhile NT normies can just start a conversation with anyone without trying and it all flows naturally

 

[SupremeGentleCel]

Yes, but that´s cause im High inhib.
Everything must go according to plan.

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

Almost every time i have to call someone or ask someone something at work i already preplan the conversation in my head. Im too autistic and socially retarded to just go with the flow and talk without a plan. Meanwhile NT normies can just start a conversation with anyone without trying and it all flows naturally

I preplan conversations for scenarios that might happen to me.

 

[AngryUbermensch]

Almost every time i have to call someone or ask someone something at work i already preplan the conversation in my head. Im too autistic and socially retarded to just go with the flow and talk without a plan. Meanwhile NT normies can just start a conversation with anyone without trying and it all flows naturally

Same.

 

[Diddy]

I only preplan for any possible verbal fights I might get into.

 

[autisticmanchild]

I do this all the time.

 

[AshamedVirgin34]

It's brutal how much I relate to this.

 

[Cock'nBalls]

that's actually a good thing though

 

[Fire.]

If it's someone important I will have to talk to I will do this.

 

[Friezacel]

that's actually a good thing though

No its not. We are supposed to go with the flaw and not preplan everything like a robot

 

[Logic55]

Almost every time i have to call someone or ask someone something at work i already preplan the conversation in my head. Im too autistic and socially retarded to just go with the flow and talk without a plan. Meanwhile NT normies can just start a conversation with anyone without trying and it all flows naturally

Not all incels are autistic

 

[manletcel1488]

Yeah.
I talk to myself often and act out different scenarios by myself.
I think talking to yourself is a lot more common than people think and is actually beneficial to do.

No its not. We are supposed to go with the flaw and not preplan everything like a robot

Second hand sociopathy is a useful trait to develop as a sub5 imo, best chance we have at earning anyones respect, obviously its better if people respect you naturally but they don't otherwise we wouldn't be here.

 

[The Abyss]

Asd trait for sure.

 

[Friezacel]

Asd trait for sure.

What do you mean with asd ? Asperger or anti social disorder ?

 

[starystulejarz]

Fuck i always do this when i have appointments like my dentist.

 

[The Abyss]

What do you mean with asd ? Asperger or anti social disorder ?

Autism spectrum disorder, forgot they keep splitting hairs & inventing new fucking conditions to rinse ppl financially with new "wonder drugs" & a piece of paper stating only they're qualified to deal with whatever random ass acronym they pull outta their ass.