Discussion Incel trait:You have (a) strict parent(s)

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

Since my biological shit father left me I have a step father who is super fucking strict and yells a lot because of his temper (possibly due to being in prison) which he says he doesn't yell he is just "loud" and he claims he is so hard on me because he wants me to be successful but what its done was cause social anxiety (which boosted inceldom) and me to be a good liar when people talk to me, sure it had its pros like I work harder but its side effects are probably going to be lifelong since I am practically horrified of cooking because if I fuck something up he rages at me. I am sure all this I said is an trait all incels can relate to.

 

[gymletethnicel]

Incel trait: Your parents are dead

 

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

Incel trait: Your parents are dead

You spelled truecel wrong.

 

[Friezacel]

he claims he is so hard on me because he wants me to be successful

I hate this narcissistic excuse. They mentally and psychologically abuse you and destroy your selfesteem and when you call them out on it they will claim that they this to "toughen you up"

 

[Friezacel]

Incel trait: Your parents are dead

at least you get inheritence from that

 

[gymletethnicel]

at least you get inheritence from that

Cope, more like debt
@based_meme he doesn't know

 

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

I hate this narcissistic excuse. They mentally and psychologically abuse you and destroy your selfesteem and when you call them out on it they will claim that they this to "toughen you up"

Yeah he gets enraged over little mistakes I make he would tell me to "be a man" and accept this strict regime. I have already gotten into several fights with him because of his temper issue.

Sidenote:I wouldnt say he is abusive but more toxic not abusive.

 

[based_meme]

Cope, more like debt
@based_meme he doesn't know

It's kind of a semi-blue pilled existence to not realize the kind of fucked up shit others like yourself can go through.

 

[Friezacel]

Cope, more like debt
@based_meme he doesn't know

In Germany you either inherit everything (assets+debts) or nothing. If they have too much dept you can just decide to not inherit

 

[Friezacel]

Yeah he gets enraged over little mistakes I make he would tell me to "be a man" and accept this strict regime. I have already gotten into several fights with him because of his temper issue.

Sidenote:I wouldnt say he is abusive but more toxic not abusive.

Tell him that a real man wouldn't be together with a used up roastie

 

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

Tell him that a real man wouldn't be together with a used up roastie

I'd get kicked out of my parents house

 

[Friezacel]

I'd get kicked out of my parents house

worth it, his ego will be permanently damaged

 

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

worth it, his ego will be permanently damaged

I've already nearly got kicked out for calling him "step dad" and last time we fought he told me "I will do whatever it takes to make me feel comfortable" or something along the lines of that I cant remember what he said exactly.

Edit:I have to hide some details for safety purposes incase he somehow finds this forum.

 

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

Tell him that a real man wouldn't be together with a used up roastie

I just remembered, I mean he did experience teen love even though he lived in a shithole so he likely lost his virginity at a young age and even if he did lose his virginity to a non virgin he still banged a woman who only banged one other dude so its barely even used up

 

[future&$]

Very much an immigrant parent trait too.

 

[Maladjusted Jerk]

Your step dad sounds like my mother

 

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

Your step dad sounds like my mother

Speaking of which, I am going to run an experiment today by treating the AI the same way my step father treats me I will make a thread about it.

Edit:does she also rage at you for little ass things?

 

[Maladjusted Jerk]

Speaking of which, I am going to run an experiment today by treating the AI the same way my step father treats me I will make a thread about it.

Edit:does she also rage at you for little ass things?

Yeah pretty much a lot of things set her off and I feel like always have to walk on eggshells when im around her which ironically makes me more prone to fucking up in front of her allowing her to get angry. She's a bit nicer these days but its too late considering shes done this the entire time I've been alive and I'm already a grown man.

 

[Swagpilled]

I hate this narcissistic excuse. They mentally and psychologically abuse you and destroy your selfesteem and when you call them out on it they will claim that they this to "toughen you up"

my mom is the prime example of a gaslighter. never admits she did anything wrong and blames every single one of her wrongdoings on me.she screams at me and when I talk back she asks why I'm attacking her.

 

[prajeet88]

There was a good post on here (rare for this forum) about how chad parents are never strict on their kids cause they had good lifes and were able to achieve what they wanted. Parents with chad dad don't propagate their unfulfilled desires onto their kids.

 

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

Yeah pretty much a lot of things set her off and I feel like always have to walk on eggshells when im around her which ironically makes me more prone to fucking up in front of her allowing her to get angry. She's a bit nicer these days but its too late considering shes done this the entire time I've been alive and I'm already a grown man.

so fucking relatable dude thats why I rarely leave my room when my step dad is home I would even starve myself for hours or hold my piss and shit until he leaves.

Edit:My step dad became nicer but its likely because he already I am a loser subhuman that has already failed but doesnt want to admit it.

 

[Friezacel]

my mom is the prime example of a gaslighter. never admits she did anything wrong and blames every single one of her wrongdoings on me.she screams at me and when I talk back she asks why I'm attacking her.

TND (total narcissist death)