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Incel trait: You feel both mature and immature at the same time

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I feel both mature and immature at the same time. Intellectually speaking, i feel like im 80 years old (hence my signature), i feel like i discovered so much (dangerous) knowledge in such a short time, that is supposed to be learned slowly and with age and not at fucking 20, my supposed prime.

But i also feel immature at the same time because mentally i feel like im completely stunted. After 20 years on this damn planet, i still cant hold a basic conversation with NTs, even if my life depended on it. I dont know and will never know what and how a relationship with a girl actually is, i dont know whats its like to be part of a social group, i dont know how humans live. Why i said humans ? I dont even feel human anymore, i feel like im a distant relative species of humans at best, an underdeveloped species that will never be able to live a happy life.
 
Yeah man feels like im controlled by an alien parasite within me. Im just the hollow vessel controlled by it.
 
I am so used to rotting that I cannot hold a basic conversation with NT's without sweating and worrying that I may mess up my words while speaking that's why I'd rather rot inside and talk to other spergs.
 
I am so used to rotting that I cannot hold a basic conversation with NT's without sweating and worrying that I may mess up my words while speaking that's why I'd rather rot inside and talk to other spergs.
Same. Tried to integrate and socialise with normies my whole life and all i was met with was rejection. Its over
 
We've learned how the world truly is (feeling of age, wisdom) but were denied the formative experiences everyone else goes through between child and adult (life immaturity)
 
Same. Tried to integrate and socialise with normies my whole life and ill met with was rejection. Its over
being met with a rejection is much more preferable than being met with mocking. Of course rejection is brutal , but It hurts less.

I've tried integrating my entire life with different normies but I could never fit in because my brain is is not wired the "right" way.

People sort of just look you in the face and can tell that you're different from them.
 
We've learned how the world truly is (feeling of age, wisdom) but were denied the formative experiences everyone else goes through between child and adult (life immaturity)
Sums it up pretty well
 
being met with a rejection is much more preferable than being met with mocking. Of course rejection is brutal , but It hurts less.

I've tried integrating my entire life with different normies but I could never fit in because my brain is is not wired the "right" way.

People sort of just look you in the face and can tell that you're different from them.
Mockery is just another form of rejection
 
But i also feel immature at the same time because mentally i feel like im completely stunted. After 20 years on this damn planet, i still cant hold a basic conversation with NTs, even if my life depended on it. I dont know and will never know what and how a relationship with a girl actually is, i dont know whats its like to be part of a social group, i dont know how humans live. Why i said humans ? I dont even feel human anymore, i feel like im a distant relative species of humans at best, an underdeveloped species that will never be able to live a happy life.
Being incel is the state of permanent immaturity due to not experiencing proper human social and sexual desire's.
 
Relatable.
I was never treated as a child. I was always held accountable and blamed when it was convenient for my parents or whoever I was talking to.
I think if your "maturation" is forced and accelerated, then you are incomplete. You are "mature" but not really. You're not both mature and immature, it's more like you're neither. You couldn't develop yourself and instead had to develop an incomplete mask.
To quote patrick bateman, you simply are not there.

Same. Tried to integrate and socialise with normies my whole life and all i was met with was rejection. Its over
Same.
"Just join clubs incel, just put yourself out there"
Didn't make a single friend in 5 years of being part of clubs or 18 years of school.
 
you are not mature after seeing your ideas on garctic phone lol
 
I feel that way because I know so much of the wrong things and so little of the right things
 
"Maturity" seems like experiences having mogged someone, which incels can only do intellectually, but normies won't recognize intellect outside of normal. It seems like intelligence is considered equally outside of neurotypical as autist, so being outside of normal means that you don't get to participate in the mog v. mog conversations where you compare consumer products or interactions with gyns. What's leftover are visual comparisons, looks and height, and as incels we are at the bottom of that comparison, so "immature."
 
We've learned how the world truly is (feeling of age, wisdom) but were denied the formative experiences everyone else goes through between child and adult (life immaturity)
Yep. I feel old because of all the shut I’ve been through. I’ve had more negative experiences, loneliness, and health issues at 19 than most people would in a lifetime. My body is physiologically older than my chronological age from all the damage the health issues and loneliness caused. I’ve been told I’m very mature for my age all throughout my life, but I missed the social development milestones like a teen friend group and getting a gf.
 
autist sub-5 trait: you get called an “old soul”
 
We've learned how the world truly is (feeling of age, wisdom) but were denied the formative experiences everyone else goes through between child and adult (life immaturity)
Also, people treat us as if we are children no matter what.
 
:yes:

Immature in the sense that I've missed so many milestones and I'm now permanently stuck in a state of arrested development. Mature in the sense that I live like an elderly widower. :feelsbadman:
 
I feel both mature and immature at the same time. Intellectually speaking, i feel like im 80 years old (hence my signature), i feel like i discovered so much (dangerous) knowledge in such a short time, that is supposed to be learned slowly and with age and not at fucking 20, my supposed prime.

But i also feel immature at the same time because mentally i feel like im completely stunted. After 20 years on this damn planet, i still cant hold a basic conversation with NTs, even if my life depended on it. I dont know and will never know what and how a relationship with a girl actually is, i dont know whats its like to be part of a social group, i dont know how humans live. Why i said humans ? I dont even feel human anymore, i feel like im a distant relative species of humans at best, an underdeveloped species that will never be able to live a happy life.
I feel like a boy and a man at the same time
 
Immaturity feeling for me stems from not having any skills. I've only worked low IQ food service and I'm 26. I've done nothing w my life and now I'm too agoraphobic to start anything new.
 
Holy shit, this is too real. I haven't been able to put into words before, but that's it. Both mature and immature.
 
We've learned how the world truly is (feeling of age, wisdom) but were denied the formative experiences everyone else goes through between child and adult (life immaturity)
 
:yes:

Immature in the sense that I've missed so many milestones and I'm now permanently stuck in a state of arrested development. Mature in the sense that I live like an elderly widower. :feelsbadman:
brutal(ly true) :feelsrope:
 
Immaturity feeling for me stems from not having any skills. I've only worked low IQ food service and I'm 26. I've done nothing w my life and now I'm too agoraphobic to start anything new.
I know how this feels, minus the agoraphobia; for me it's moreso being repulsed by normies and having zero energy. It's a daily struggle when you have zero marketable skills.
 
feeling mature in a way I'm aware of certain things but immature where I still do a behavior knowing damn well I shouldn't because of impulse. Makes me have a disgusting feeling about myself after wards that I neglect.
 
I feel both mature and immature at the same time. Intellectually speaking, i feel like im 80 years old (hence my signature), i feel like i discovered so much (dangerous) knowledge in such a short time, that is supposed to be learned slowly and with age and not at fucking 20, my supposed prime.

But i also feel immature at the same time because mentally i feel like im completely stunted. After 20 years on this damn planet, i still cant hold a basic conversation with NTs, even if my life depended on it. I dont know and will never know what and how a relationship with a girl actually is, i dont know whats its like to be part of a social group, i dont know how humans live. Why i said humans ? I dont even feel human anymore, i feel like im a distant relative species of humans at best, an underdeveloped species that will never be able to live a happy life.
Absolutely agree brocel

Im more mature compared to the people of my age since I've had to go through hardships since a young age.

However at the same time mentally im still a kid, at least that's how i feel around NT spaces.
 
The paradoxical dichotomy! This is a real phenomenon, and I have experienced it, though not quite the same as you described. Like being "advanced" or "mature" in some aspects of life, but "behind" or "immature" in others (and in the latter case often being treated as such).
 
I feel both mature and immature at the same time. Intellectually speaking, i feel like im 80 years old (hence my signature), i feel like i discovered so much (dangerous) knowledge in such a short time, that is supposed to be learned slowly and with age and not at fucking 20, my supposed prime.

But i also feel immature at the same time because mentally i feel like im completely stunted. After 20 years on this damn planet, i still cant hold a basic conversation with NTs, even if my life depended on it. I dont know and will never know what and how a relationship with a girl actually is, i dont know whats its like to be part of a social group, i dont know how humans live. Why i said humans ? I dont even feel human anymore, i feel like im a distant relative species of humans at best, an underdeveloped species that will never be able to live a happy life.
I am 13 sexually and 120 in awareness
 
foid trait too tbh

foids all think of themselves as hyper-mature, then feel like kids while they're around males in authority positions telling them what to do

they get turned on by that kind of power dynamic or sth idk. I just find it annoying

edit: my avi is so cute uwu
 
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foid trait too tbh

foids all think of themselves are hyper-mature, then feel like kids while they're around males in authority positions telling them what to do

they get turned on by that kind of power dynamic or sth idk. I just find it annoying
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I feel both mature and immature at the same time.
I feel you. It is as if you have enough life experience to know how the world works however your inner child is still intact. You don't have the same vivacity like when you were smaller, but mentally you haven't changed much.


hence my signature
Karls Lauterbach was and is a vaccine faggot. Like he wanted Germany to have the most draconian anti pandemic laws ever and it looks like the world hasn't ended even though nobody followed the lockdown or the green card bullshit.
I understand why you like him: weed, dude.... But like he was a pretty shitty health minister other than the fact he decriminalized weed.
 
Mature = we went through so many bs in our life that we're tired of it and feel much more mentally exhausted than normies of our age

Immature = we missed key stepstones in our life (teen love, teen sex, teen everything, parties etc), we live with our parents and/or NEETing, therefore we still feel like teenagers bc we didn't have the "required life experience" to fully feel like adults
 
Same. It most likely is a ND trait
 

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