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Theory Incel trait: You fall for an average/below average female bc you think she's "cute"

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I remember in senior year of high school I liked some girl in school and sent one of her IG posts to a groupchat. My good-looking and relatively blackpilled acquaintance cut through the bullshit and made the joke that I had a thing for 4/10s. He was totally right. Some trait about her made my brain think she was "cute" in some way, as if my brain was performing gymnastics to make me attracted to girls closer to my "league".

Thoughts?
 
Even though i'm AF and don't have any options, i'm gonna have to disagree with you, i'm pretty hypergamous too.

I find most foids pretty ugly and unappealing, that's why i like escorts, it's the only way possible for beta males to have sex with 6+ women.
 
Its normal. Im more likely to catch oneitis for foids that seem more attainable. Juggernaut law or something.
 
Jfl “cute”. Nice cope. Its simply because you think she may be attainable for someone of ur looks level (more coping). If u were more attractive u would go for stacies
Its normal. Im more likely to catch oneitis for foids that seem more attainable. Juggernaut law or something.
 
I remember in senior year of high school I liked some girl in school and sent one of her IG posts to a groupchat. My good-looking and relatively blackpilled acquaintance cut through the bullshit and made the joke that I had a thing for 4/10s. He was totally right. Some trait about her made my brain think she was "cute" in some way, as if my brain was performing gymnastics to make me attracted to girls closer to my "league".

Thoughts?
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Applies to me tbh. I have relatively low standards.
 
If she is not fat (not fat, not ‘not a landwhale’) then with enough mental gymnastics I can fall for her. It’s been a while since I last “fell” for anyone though.
 
This is more like a cuck trait
 
I would not know as since as far as I can remember, I've never went by the ratings that guys tend to go by. I tend to find most that people consider 3/10 or 4/10 really attractive and those that guys consider 8/10 or 9/10 not interesting to me.

Doesn't mean I would reject a 9/10 if in whatever dream I would get one to be interested in me.
 
Yeah I feel for this cute becky but like all beckies shes a chadsexual
 
I always tended to get feelings for women who were around slightly below average levels of attractiveness but my type.
 
Yes, your brain copes and registers her general unattractiveness as a chance for you.

That way seeing an appearing lonely girl generates the same response in you as if someone had shown actual romantic interest in you.

You have to go through brutal first-hand rejections to develop this mental affect.

It is in part an adaptation but it can go wrong,

It’s also the same effect that leads people into fetishes like 2D anime girls, traps, disabled, kidnapping etc. It’s what causes the juggernaut law.

Understanding the psychology behind this helps you prevent degeneration like this.
This is more like a cuck trait

Truecel trait
 
I remember in senior year of high school I liked some girl in school and sent one of her IG posts to a groupchat. My good-looking and relatively blackpilled acquaintance cut through the bullshit and made the joke that I had a thing for 4/10s. He was totally right. Some trait about her made my brain think she was "cute" in some way, as if my brain was performing gymnastics to make me attracted to girls closer to my "league".

Thoughts?
This is only something a subhuman male like us would experience. Women are superior, they don't get infatuated by shit genetics like us, meanwhile I'm blackpilled and still do it accidentally. I should rope.
 
Relatable and i feel the same way about jbs :feelsYall:
 
It's funny, men dont mind lower rated foids.
Meanwhile foids aim for high tier normies chads
 
Brutal but so true.
Its because your brain tells you, wrongly, there will be less competition, and that they are closer to your league so less likely to reject you.

Its same as why landwhales like degenerate subhuman BBC, only replace the positive 'cute' trait with positive 'BBC' trait
 
no shit your brain is gonna try to cope with being rejected by literally every foid , they're be times when u find 2/10's attractive
 
This seems like a logical and smart thought process, however guess how many other guys are thinking the exact same thing as you?
Ugly foids can have just as much SMV compared to an average or above average foid because, more men will think they have a chance with average and below looking foids vs attractive ones.
 
Yes, the first female I liked in 7th grade was fat and ugly. Yet she ruthlessly made fun of me for daring to have a crush on her.
 
Yes, the first female I liked in 7th grade was fat and ugly. Yet she ruthlessly made fun of me for daring to have a crush on her.
I always found it funny, fat ugly girls seem to be the rudest and loudest of them ALL.
 
This seems like a logical and smart thought process, however guess how many other guys are thinking the exact same thing as you?
Ugly foids can have just as much SMV compared to an average or above average foid because, more men will think they have a chance with average and below looking foids vs attractive ones.

I don't like that type of logic. It's the same logic used by a random normie trying to convince you that you can get the stacy because everyone else is too scared of approaching her. Even if that's true, that doesn't increase their chances at all, because stacy can go out of her way to get whatever chad she wants at any time. She's not an island or a passive entity.
Even though i'm AF and don't have any options, i'm gonna have to disagree with you, i'm pretty hypergamous too.

I find most foids pretty ugly and unappealing, that's why i like escorts, it's the only way possible for beta males to have sex with 6+ women.

Everyone is hypergamous, but sometimes your subconscious wants you to forget that instinct and gives you the oneitis fever.
 
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I had a crush on this girl everyone else said was weird and ugly
 
i cant fall in love with average/below average foids. Im kinda hypergamous too.
 
Yeah 3/10 and 4/10 foids can be "cute" to me if they don't treat me like shit
Yes, your brain copes and registers her general unattractiveness as a chance for you.

That way seeing an appearing lonely girl generates the same response in you as if someone had shown actual romantic interest in you.

You have to go through brutal first-hand rejections to develop this mental affect.

It is in part an adaptation but it can go wrong,

It’s also the same effect that leads people into fetishes like 2D anime girls, traps, disabled, kidnapping etc. It’s what causes the juggernaut law.

Understanding the psychology behind this helps you prevent degeneration like this.


Truecel trait
It's over
Relatable and i feel the same way about jbs :feelsYall:
Based tbh
 
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Jfl “cute”. Nice cope. Its simply because you think she may be attainable for someone of ur looks level (more coping). If u were more attractive u would go for stacies
 
I remember in senior year of high school I liked some girl in school and sent one of her IG posts to a groupchat. My good-looking and relatively blackpilled acquaintance cut through the bullshit and made the joke that I had a thing for 4/10s. He was totally right. Some trait about her made my brain think she was "cute" in some way, as if my brain was performing gymnastics to make me attracted to girls closer to my "league".

Thoughts?
juggernaut oneitis dude you caught the big one
 
Yes, my oneitis is older than me, jfl at my life.
 
Theres this girl I like that many consider to be unattractive
 
One day male's standarts are gonna be so low we will marry 400 pound roasties with 3 race-mix children after their 40's
Mark my words
 
Everytime. Contrary to what the normcucks at IT might think, I don’t focus on the 8s and above — I’m have enough self fucking awareness to understand that some women are out of my league, and I have focused on OK looking, even homely girls, only to be rejected. The 5s and 6s want Chads
 
You fall for her because you naively think you might have a shot with her.
 
Meanwhile my crushes are gonna do modeling soon
 

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