when my work colleagues wish me a nice evening, a normie would say "I wish you too" it comes off their lips immediately. I always have to remind myself to say this so as not to hurt the other person's feelings. you can see in their eyes that they literally expect the "I wish you too", then embarrassing situations always arise because nothing comes from me. they wish me a nice evening and then it takes my brain a few seconds to remind me that i have to wish them a nice evening too. haha because i am not interested in this normie small talk, especially in all the years of rotting i am even more numb when it comes to feelings. i don't wish anyone a nice evening FROM THE HEART, that's why it doesn't come off my lips straight away.