Venting Incel trait everytime you talk no one seems to hear or understand most of the time.

[autisticsoy]

Ever since I was a kid most of the time when I talk I either get ignored or people just cant seem to understand what im saying well. Which leads to have to repeat myself many times. It got even worse of lately while playing at game shop I remember how frequent I seems to be that people seem to either not hear me or ignore me. Even with my own parents seem to have the same proble with me. Im pretty certain I talk normally and in enough volume, but fuck it seems that the a lot of the times I talk I just get ignored or people cant understand my words well.

 

[Dead End]

Yes, I am the exact same at work, I'll often have to repeat myself many times, although I think I talk quietly, slur my words and mutter a fair bit.

I also am poor at understanding others and will sometimes ask them to repeat what they said even if I heard their words clearly (it takes a while for me to process what they say oftentimes).

 

[autisticsoy]

Yes, I am the exact same at work, I'll often have to repeat myself many times, although I think I talk quietly, slur my words and mutter a fair bit.

I also am poor at understanding others and will sometimes ask them to repeat what they said even if I heard their words clearly (it takes a while for me to process what they say oftentimes).

Same except slurring of the words. Especially with the understanding others words my hearing is also becoming awful.

 

[Emba]

Yes

 

[Biggie cheesel]

I'm always left out and ignored.

 

[Dead End]

Same except slurring of the words. Especially with the understanding others words my hearing is also becoming awful.

My hearing's fine, I'm just a bit slow socially I think.

 

[autisticsoy]

My hearing's fine, I'm just a bit slow socially I think.

Are you nt or nd?

 

[Dead End]

Are you nt or nd?

I would consider myself to be NT as I have never been diagnosed with anything.

 

[Mango]

Happens to me a lot. I talk rather softly and I think I have poor diction.

That, and people have a tendency to just talk over me in group settings. I don’t know why I even bother

 

[LostSoulUK]

Same, I think its societies way of telling us that we're inferior in every conceivable way.

 

[Tšuudi]

I have the same problem. People ignore me often and talk over me a lot.

 

[autisticsoy]

I have the same problem. People ignore me often and talk over me a lot.

same

 

[VλREN]

Me

 

[jnoob60]

Same here

 

[NorwoodVictim]

Yup, feels like talking to doors, then they would just change the topic while I am still talking.

 

[andrej]

I'm always left out and ignored.

 

[autisticsoy]

Yup, feels like talking to doors, then they would just change the topic while I am still talking.

fucking shit I had something similar in college.

 

[Caichan]

People only listen when they like the speaker.

 

[autisticsoy]

People only listen when they like the speaker.

I remember trying to gets someone's attention they seem to not hear me, and another person has to call out to them that im talking to them. I literally saw their face showing actually fukin annoyance or anger I cant tell so I just said something and leave to no bother them any further. That damn expression was so clear even I could figure out the meaning.

 

[Caichan]

I remember trying to gets someone's attention they seem to not hear me, and another person has to call out to them that im talking to them. I literally saw their face showing actually fukin annoyance or anger I cant tell so I just said something and leave to no bother them any further. That damn expression was so clear even I could figure out the meaning.

People are biased, their biases pertain to looks and status. So trying to have a meaningful conversation with someone IRL (or even normies on the internet) is pointless. It is best to be in a circle of like minded people, that sounds like an echo chamber and to some extent it is, however it better that than trying to explain something to someone who doesn’t want to hear you.

 

[autisticsoy]

People are biased, their biases pertain to looks and status. So trying to have a meaningful conversation with someone IRL (or even normies on the internet) is pointless. It is best to be in a circle of like minded people, that sounds like an echo chamber and to some extent it is, however it better that than trying to explain something to someone who doesn’t want to hear you.

It was at a gaming center everyone there was playing yu-gi-oh.

 

[Caichan]

It was at a gaming center everyone there was playing yu-gi-oh.

Bro went to a gaming center

 

[autisticsoy]

Bro went to a gaming center

No not gaming center I was mistaken, it used to be a ots place. They sold card games, i get things confused.

 

[LostSoulUK]

Ye everytime at work, and people speak down to me in a patronising tone like im a fuckin baby.

 

[poorenglishcel]

 

[Dead End]

Ye everytime at work, and people speak down to me in a patronising tone like im a fuckin baby.

Same. My coworkers have always treated me like I'm retarded and subhuman.

 

[Shitskin=Shitlife]

I have a deep voice which creates the same problem

 

[ULTRAMAN]

That happens to me too; they tell me to repeat what I just said. I think I say it too fast. Of course, they'd never tell Chad to repeat what he says.

 

[littlemanhikicel]

Others don't make effort in hear us. It's to call you retard later.

 

[Hohenstaufen]

I don't speak clearly enough.

I'm a mumbler

 

[EcstasyCel]

It's an autism thing. I just want total access to society's database of opinions and worldviews.

 

[bigantennaemay1]

I think they intentionally ignore me, and don't care what I have to say. I have to be wrong, because I'm a genetic freak. I've noticed it again with my new coworkers: if they do behavior A, it's normal and healthy. If I do behavior A, I'm low self-esteem, and something's wrong with me. I'm getting tired of the double standards, and I'm tired of pretending they're not.

 

[incel3roar]

Your too ugly for people to care about what you have to say, this has happened to me all the time, nobody gave as shit what I had to say when i was younger so I just stopped speaking all together.

 

[universallyabhorred]

I'm always left out and ignored.

 

[160cmbloop]

yell at them

 

[Nithingr]

Often when I reply to something in a group conversation during an appropriate lull, I immediately get talked over by the recipient or someone else. I don't think I'm socially retarded and missing the right timing, or not loud enough, the group hears me but just carries on and ignores me. It happens so often. And I am so sensitive to it, yet I never see anyone else have it happen to them. I'm a freak.

 

[Aspiegamercel]

That also seems to happen to me, I have to repeat myself a number of times.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

One of the reason why I stopped talking

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I have to repeat myself a number of times.

 

[autisticsoy]

Often when I reply to something in a group conversation during an appropriate lull, I immediately get talked over by the recipient or someone else. I don't think I'm socially retarded and missing the right timing, or not loud enough, the group hears me but just carries on and ignores me. It happens so often. And I am so sensitive to it, yet I never see anyone else have it happen to them. I'm a freak.

your pretty much the one guy that no one really enjoys talking to so they just ignore you. Happens to me if im ever in a group and my conversations are akward which are almost always the people there will soon ignore me to not have a convo.

 

[autisticsoy]

People only listen when they like the speaker.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

I have a weak autist voice so I can't get involved in loud group conversations that normies have. They like to shout over eachother. I have often wondered if I have a vocal disorder.

 

[cactusjuice]

“what is he even saying”

 

[Kan>Foids]

I personally found that if you aren't droning on about retarded sportsball drivel or personal drama then most normies don't want to hear what you have to say because those are the only two things in the world the imbeciles can understand.

 

[Neurotic]

They do it on purpose btw

 

[Wrath]

same