Incel trait: being overly nice to people

[Ramiel]

Being nice to people, and worse, overly opening up to them, is a terrible sign of being an incel. I have suffered from this. I realize that I'm acutally a lonely piece of shit so I cope by being nice to people so that they may temporarily hang out with me.

Of course, most normies by the age of 18 already have had a relationship and a friend circle from their youth, so this stage of their life is already pretty fulfilled. No one is looking to make friends, and thus its pretty pointless to be overly nice to people to try to fit in.

Most normfags will either just rebuff you, or worse, you use your inkwell ass for resources, like money, homework answers, etc. and then dump you to go party and have sex with their actual friends.

It's a ruthless world, but I'm glad I learned this lesson partway through college rather than at work, when everyone is certainly out of the friend market.

 

[EngelCallDell19]

im not overly nice to anyone, i barely talk to anyone anymore

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

that's an invitation to be a human rug

 

[Ramiel]

that's an invitation to be a human rug

it's normal to want things like friends and a social life. However, most ppl eventually achieve these things pretty naturally

Unfortunately for ugly trash like us, we don't ever feel the fulfillment of that so we just subconsciously try to get these things by being a human rug lmao

 

[Ramiel]

im not overly nice to anyone, i barely talk to anyone anymore

i've slowly become the same way

every single interaction feels the same, and yet I still have the urge to be normal. Sadly this is never gonna be the case so i should just jobmaxx and at least buy copes to enjoy by myself LOL

 

[future&$]

It was tuff when I was blue pilled I thought being nice would work

 

[erenyeager]

that's an invitation to be a human rug

Destroy HUMANITY

 

[Ramiel]

No. Fuck being nice to normies and toilets. I am on the journey to becoming more low inhib and will start directly insulting them like spitting in their food and spilling drinks on them.

ideally ignore them jfl

if you're rude to foids and normies irl then whiteknights will charge you and you'll end up on the face of reddit

 

[Wilmoty_95]

that's an invitation to be a human rug

I've learned this the hard way.

Don't let people walk over you.

 

[MillionBashStream97]

I'm nice to people who are assholes to me, even...

People don't skip sleep because they were assholes. I do. Just the idea that I made someone upset will keep me up at night, even if they deserved it.

I fucking hate it

 

[Lord Beric]

im not overly nice to anyone, i barely talk to anyone anymore

 

[Ramiel]

I'm nice to people who are assholes to me, even...

People don't skip sleep because they were assholes. I do. Just the idea that I made someone upset will keep me up at night, even if they deserved it.

I fucking hate it

honestly the better thing to do is to just become aloof and more quiet

being nice as genetic trash will just get you walked all over. it's easier said than done but avoid normies, especially since you won't get to hang out or fuck any of them

 

[MillionBashStream97]

honestly the better thing to do is to just become aloof and more quiet

I agree. Just don't know how to do that yet, cuz my brain is wired in that way. To just be nice to everyone.

being nice as genetic trash will just get you walked all over. it's easier said than done but avoid normies, especially since you won't get to hang out or fuck any of them

You are totally right! Don't have anything to add beyond that.

 

[SociallyStupid]

It's true. In fact, the nicest conversations I had were of people who were similarly "nice because no chance" guys.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

I was like that but i mostly dropped it now

 

[Wolnir]

It's a myth that incels are crazy psychos with horrible personalities, most of us are polite and quiet guys that get shit on by society and come here to vent our anger.

 

[ElTruecel]

It's a myth that incels are crazy psychos with horrible personalities, most of us are polite and quiet guys that get shit on by society and come here to vent our anger.

 

[Japanese Detective]

not completely true in regards to what you said about normies: they build their social connections well as they grow older, albeit the activity isnt as intense as when they were younger at age 18-22 during college years

 

[Mango]

Being nice to people, and worse, overly opening up to them, is a terrible sign of being an incel. I have suffered from this. I realize that I'm acutally a lonely piece of shit so I cope by being nice to people so that they may temporarily hang out with me.

Of course, most normies by the age of 18 already have had a relationship and a friend circle from their youth, so this stage of their life is already pretty fulfilled. No one is looking to make friends, and thus its pretty pointless to be overly nice to people to try to fit in.

Most normfags will either just rebuff you, or worse, you use your inkwell ass for resources, like money, homework answers, etc. and then dump you to go party and have sex with their actual friends.

It's a ruthless world, but I'm glad I learned this lesson partway through college rather than at work, when everyone is certainly out of the friend market.

i did this myself, got jack shit out of it in the end

tried helping people out with homework, buying shit for them, giving rides in my car, giving answers to assignments in class, etc.

Just wasted time and had a thinner wallet