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Theory Incel Tears - my 2 cents

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Summary
1. Introduction
2. Normies & foids and their engagement with the word "incel", and it's meaning
3. Their frustration & the disconnect with the reality of the situation
4. The "hate" that they have for incels and the meat of IT sub
5. Conclusion

1.Introduction
With me being a graycel here, I haven really spent time on incel exclusive forums/sites, but I've talked to a lot of incels both online and in real life. With me being one as well ofc. So a few days ago I decided to rage fuel myself and went on IT since I've seen a lot of reddit posts here that really did it for me. But after some time I realised. It's not really about incels. It's about men (or their opinions) that they don't like. Let me explain.

2. Normies & foids and their engagement with the word "incel", and it's meaning
Seeing normies and especially foids use the word "incel", feels like hearing a 70-80yo person use the words "online trolls". It's never directed towards and actual incel, and it's taken the meaning of "loser", "ugly man", "nerd","dork", "weak man", "misogynist", "creep", "rapist" etc. Basically any and every thing that a woman would think of as disgusting is replaced by the word "incel" to signal to other people how nobody does and shouldn't like them. I've had girls call others virgins or girfriendless in HS, but life really is one big HS huh? At least those words has some solid ground below them, and it just goes to show what the real core value of every man and woman is, but I digress...

The real core meaning of the word, or experience of being an incel, is being locked out of fundamental parts of society, from the very beginning. Something being deemed inherently wrong with you, that is almost, if not truly impossible to change, and it comes natural to the rest of the world and they take it as granted and judge you for it. And every day you get reminded of it trough most regular human interactions. It really does feel like getting fucking CUCKED in real time. Ofc, the symptom of that is the fact that you can't get sex, yet how many escortcels are still here? It's not just about sex. The issue is much deeper than a normgroid could ever comprehend, yet that's the exact reason they are allowed to have no sympathy.

3.Their frustration & the disconnect with the reality of the situation
Now imagine you are an average Jane.
You have a few issues that you come across everyday and you see people online that you deem the root of that problem. Maybe even the comicall version of the problem (as everything online gets exaggerated). What better target to have than the lowest of the low group in your eyes - men low on social hierarchy. Women in the workplace - incel, objectification - stupid incel, misogyny - incel, I've been treated bad by men - incel (I've legit seen posts like this, where women insulated men after having sex by calling them an incel). You've created the ultimate insult and the ultimate punching bag for every issue you have. AND they can't fight back - they are low value men, who gives a fuck, nobody is going to come to help anyway. You don't have to feel bad for them, or even better, other people don't expect you to feel bad for them.
And why should they? In their eyes you just have to be normal bro. Get a job, wash yourself, and work on your personality bro! Go to therapy! I mean that's what I do! It's just that easy. Oh it's not? Well you must be doing something VERY VERY wrong then, maybe it is just all your fault and you deserve it. You deserve to be treated like shit for you inherit characteristics.
Now your opinions (be they true or not is besides the point) are validated no matter what and you can go all out. It's just so righteous yet easy!
That's the disconnect. They take mountain of things for granted. Yet they say stuff like "you are not entitled to a girl or sex or anything". Yet all of them are. They just don't see how much they are blessed. No you did not earn your spot in the world, it was given to you, you just had to not actively try to ruin it.

4. The "hate" that they have for incels and the meat of IT sub
Now for the meat of the post. They don't even hate us. Yes. You've read it right. They just have a topic or a particular person they don't like and call them an incel. I've looked and looked, and it's just things in peripheral to the actual inceldom. Stuff you can really find anywhere, but sometimes it's an actual incel speaking.
Their insults don't even hurt. They never insult the root of the problem, they are just completely disconnected. They hate us because we are supposed to be hated. They don't even know us. It's just womens issues and men affirming their beliefs. Sprinkle it with "fuck these losers they deserve it" and voila. That's it. Not talking about how we are genetic waste both mentally and physically, how we are made to suffer and deserve it. How we deserve everything that comes to us, the way we've been treated as kids by family and peers, by our bosses. No. They just talk about sex, and surface level relationships. It's just so vayne and mundane. So soulless.

Conclusion
Honestly disappointed. We really are truly alone bros. I knew the rest of the internet was like this, yet even the people who are supposed to hate us, don't even really hate us. Soulless beings guided by an invisible hand of mob mentality, and social pressures.

PS idgaf about the typos
 
I have to bump this it's too high effort
 

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