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It's Over In 3 years I am 30

TheGrayWolf

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EDIT- felt the past 4 years went by so quickly and obviously 3 years will pass even faster :feelscry:

I turned 27 on Saturday, mother bought me presents, a cake and made a nice dinner, of course I stayed home and read. But what I really need is a decent gf. I'm a shit son though, feel bloody guilty about it, a fucking failure I know exactly how my future will be nothing will change except it'll all get even worse

I feel and look like I'm 19-22 bc of my height and young looking but extremely weird face (hasn't changed a bit for about 9-10 years I think this is a very rare condition where you don't bloody age? Which doesn't matter bc I'm deformed anyway. Even the bluepillers don't think I can get a gf I'm that ugly and also have no idea how to 'small talk' I'm boring and nonNT AF
 
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Happy incel birthday :dab:
 
10 years till wizardcel :panties:
 
Happy birthday
 
Brootal, i dont know how and if i will be able to endure it for another decade
 
Congrats on being 1 year closer to death, brocel. :feelsautistic::feelsautistic::feelsautistic:
 
i fucking don't know how to get one. i can configure a fucking GRE-encapsulated tunnel and do difficult patch updates but i can't get laid
 
I would call turning 30 as final nail in the coffin, since everyone your age gets kids, perma jobs, house etc.... If you don't have those, people will consider you a gay pedo serial murderer.
 
Happy birthday
 
I feel the same way, my parents wanted me to be someone important but I'm still not there yet.
:feelscry:brutal feeling

yeah I'm literally seen as a failure and a nuisance and I'll be that forever.
 
I turned 27 on Saturday, mother bought me presents, a cake and made a nice dinner, of course I stayed home and read.
That was really nice of her.
I feel and look like I'm 19-22 bc of my height and young looking but extremely weird face (hasn't changed a bit for about 9-10 years I think this is a very rare condition where you don't bloody age? Which doesn't matter bc I'm deformed anyway. Even the bluepillers don't think I can get a gf I'm that ugly and also have no idea how to 'small talk' I'm boring and nonNT AF
I have the opposite issue. I'm 21 but look 35.
 
That was really nice of her.
true:yes: nd I feel bad for being such a loser/bad son but tbf it's also 80% not my fault sounds dumb but it's true

I have the opposite issue. I'm 21 but look 35.
That sucks even more, but people think I'm either 18-22 or think I look female (like 25% of people) bc of my height, framelet and boneless face/skull shape
 
true:yes: nd I feel bad for being such a loser/bad son but tbf it's also 80% not my fault sounds dumb but it's true
I'm a complete loser too. Luckily it sounds like your Mom still respects you as a son. You must be making her life enjoyable in some way if she's willing to do all that stuff for you on your birthday.
That sucks even more, but people think I'm either 18-22 or think I look female (like 25% of people) bc of my height, framelet and boneless face/skull shape
Sorry to hear that. You definitely have it worse than I do. At the very least I'm built like an ogre so people don't take me as a female. It really sucks people don't understand men have different body types and not every guy is built like Dwayne Johnson.
 
I'm a complete loser too. Luckily it sounds like your Mom still respects you as a son. You must be making her life enjoyable in some way if she's willing to do all that stuff for you on your birthday.
It may seem like that but I think she's just nice, I live at home but I'm more of a nuance bc many reasons, she says it many times, I lose her keys and forget stuff and a dozen other things, also I don't really get her anything for her birthdays bc of my extreme social anxiety

Sorry to hear that. You definitely have it worse than I do. At the very least I'm built like an ogre so people don't take me as a female.
Thanks for understanding.

It really sucks people don't understand men have different body types and not every guy is built like Dwayne Johnson.
Damn right :yes:
 
turned 27
Hit the gym.

If you don't build muscle mass now you probably never will. From age 30 onwards we lose muscle and bone. Time to get big is now.

Moreover try to discover new ways to cope, like a sport or hobby. Maybe you'll enjoy mountain biking, or skateboarding, or rollerblading, or swimming, who knows? The time to do shit like this is now, when you're still young, as when you become elderly it will already be too late.
 
Hit the gym.

If you don't build muscle mass now you probably never will. From age 30 onwards we lose muscle and bone. Time to get big is now.
Thank you, this is motivating! I really really regret not starting work out routines when covid started (I was 22/23 then). I have a missing chromosome that makes it even harder for me to build and maintain muscles

Moreover try to discover new ways to cope, like a sport or hobby. Maybe you'll enjoy mountain biking, or skateboarding, or rollerblading, or swimming, who knows? The time to do shit like this is now, when you're still young, as when you become elderly it will already be too late.
Yes I do mountain biking in summer and skate skiing/skiing in winter, they somewhat help to cope but I still desire female companionship (not landwhales or really ugly females though)
 
agepill is brutal , especially when you realize how fast time flies
 
agepill is brutal , especially when you realize how fast time flies
exactly :feelsbadman: fuck I remember how I was just 23

when I was 17 I fucking dreaded turning 18 bc then I was an adult. and I'm literally the exact same person, same face than back then I'm short and look young heck nobody would guess I'm 27 but I'm also really strange looking
 
You have about a year left before it's truly over. I know it never began but still, hurry or it will get much worse. So much worse
 
You can still betebux or ascend with a single mother. After 30 there is no coming back.
 
I'm honestly terrified of aging, the older i get the less chances i have, but it's not like i had a chance anyways, which just makes it even more brutal as i rot away and waste my younger years...
 
You have about a year left before it's truly over. I know it never began but still, hurry or it will get much worse. So much worse
yeah it's quite over but I still regret not starting workout 4, 3, 2 or even 1 year ago, it's bc I always thought what's the point—I still do but I could've done it for myself
 
exactly :feelsbadman: fuck I remember how I was just 23

when I was 17 I fucking dreaded turning 18 bc then I was an adult
same
. and I'm literally the exact same person, same face than back then I'm short and look young heck nobody would guess I'm 27 but I'm also really strange looking
so you still have some youthful features? hows your skin?
 
You’re afraid to turn 30

What you don’t get is that 60, 80 will come just as fast.

« Just yesterday I was turning 18 »
 
About to hit that milestone myself
Feels weird
 
same

so you still have some youthful features?
you'd think so.... but I'm not really "youthful" looking.... it's hard to describe but I don't look 27. I have missing facial bones and a very strange head/skull and facial features


hows your skin?
Bad. Acne keeps appearing. Can't take the prescribed stuff, got horrible side effects. I also have scars and discolourations bc of the scars (very uneven skin tone). You could say I'm fighting a losing battle. Had it ever since I was about 11 or 12 (early puberty)
 
You’re afraid to turn 30

What you don’t get is that 60, 80 will come just as fast.

« Just yesterday I was turning 18 »
I do not think I will turn 60, let alone 80. Literally can't imagine it. As in, how I will look (seems like I don't age) but in particular bc I just don't want to
 
What do we say to oldcels who are in their 50s today lololol
 
EDIT- felt the past 4 years went by so quickly and obviously 3 years will pass even faster :feelscry:

I turned 27 on Saturday, mother bought me presents, a cake and made a nice dinner, of course I stayed home and read. But what I really need is a decent gf. I'm a shit son though, feel bloody guilty about it, a fucking failure I know exactly how my future will be nothing will change except it'll all get even worse

I feel and look like I'm 19-22 bc of my height and young looking but extremely weird face (hasn't changed a bit for about 9-10 years I think this is a very rare condition where you don't bloody age? Which doesn't matter bc I'm deformed anyway. Even the bluepillers don't think I can get a gf I'm that ugly and also have no idea how to 'small talk' I'm boring and nonNT AF
In 2 months i’ll be 30
 
EDIT- felt the past 4 years went by so quickly and obviously 3 years will pass even faster :feelscry:

I turned 27 on Saturday, mother bought me presents, a cake and made a nice dinner, of course I stayed home and read. But what I really need is a decent gf. I'm a shit son though, feel bloody guilty about it, a fucking failure I know exactly how my future will be nothing will change except it'll all get even worse

I feel and look like I'm 19-22 bc of my height and young looking but extremely weird face (hasn't changed a bit for about 9-10 years I think this is a very rare condition where you don't bloody age? Which doesn't matter bc I'm deformed anyway. Even the bluepillers don't think I can get a gf I'm that ugly and also have no idea how to 'small talk' I'm boring and nonNT AF
Soon youll be a wizard Harry!

Wizchan.org awaits you!
 
Very relateable, I'm turning 25 in a month and have a good relation to my mother.
I gave up on dating and finding a gf aswell and will LDAR for the rest of my life.
 
you'd think so.... but I'm not really "youthful" looking.... it's hard to describe but I don't look 27. I have missing facial bones and a very strange head/skull and facial features
i see
Bad. Acne keeps appearing. Can't take the prescribed stuff, got horrible side effects. I also have scars and discolourations bc of the scars (very uneven skin tone). You could say I'm fighting a losing battle. Had it ever since I was about 11 or 12 (early puberty)
brutal
 
1 year for me

its over
 
I would call turning 30 as final nail in the coffin, since everyone your age gets kids, perma jobs, house etc.... If you don't have those, people will consider you a gay pedo serial murderer.
fuck ,that's brutal.
 
Very relateable, I'm turning 25 in a month and have a good relation to my mother.
I gave up on dating and finding a gf aswell and will LDAR for the rest of my life.
i want to escortmaxed before 25
 
That was really nice of her.

I have the opposite issue. I'm 21 but look 35.
Why

Do you think that’s a good thing tho bc you won’t feel the shiftiness of anything going away lol
 

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