我這輩子是不是很難交女友了 - 感情板 | Dcard
如題，本人22歲了還是母胎單身，身高完全是殘障才163，個性十分內向閉俗，交友圈十分狹窄，看到女生都不知道要說什麼，這樣484很難交女友啊qq - 單身
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as the title
I'm 22 and still single
Height is completely disabled only 163
Personality is very introvert
and then this redpiller gets him advice
沒錯! 沒有女人會渴望現在的你 - 感情板 | Dcard
Photo ： Alexander Krivitskiy，今年22歲，想必你應該大學畢業左右正準備當兵或是還在讀研究所吧，男人的價值曲線就是由15歲從0分開始一路努力往上爬，直到40幾歲才會到人生的巔 - 感情,自卑,沒自信,搭訕,溝通
"LAUGH AT THIS REDPILLER"
22 years old this year, presumably you should be preparing to join the army or still in graduate school around the time of graduation , So as men, we can only choose to embark on the road of self-improvement, overcome difficulties without complaining, be humble or arrogant, pass difficult and difficult passes, and create our own heroic journey.
I can offer you a few suggestions based on your situation:
1. Don't care about your height, you should go to the gym instead. You should have heard "you can't control the length of your life, then you can control the depth." For the same reason, if you can't control the length of the human body, you can control the width and depth. Bar!
Fitness can make you more masculine, and there are many, many other benefits. If you are interested, you can read my other articles.
As for how far you should stop practicing, I can provide you with an indicator.
When the girl around you looks at you from "Hey dwarf, I want my mother to fall in love with you, fake match!" to "Oh fuck! Why is this dwarf so fucking strong", you have succeeded, so don't do it for your own sake Feeling inferior because of your height, imagine that strong self!
2. You must improve your interpersonal communication skills. Here we start from two aspects: mentality and actual combat:
Heart method: You can search for related videos or articles by reading books related to interpersonal communication, or follow some media such as IG or YT. I believe you can and will definitely find the knowledge you need to learn.
Practical combat: Practice chatting up, regardless of gender, age, or occupation, as long as you have the opportunity to connect with people (hey! I mean this kind of connection is not that kind of connection), then do it. Small enough to start gossiping with the aunt who calls you handsome every time in the breakfast shop; more advanced, you can chat with the bus driver or the clerk of the beverage shop who is very idle; as big as go to chat with the flower or even the school flower, but recently sexual harassment The law has added provisions. I don't recommend jumping the ranks to fight monsters at the beginning, otherwise I will wake up and find myself in the police station, and I can't protect you (laughs).
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