TeeHee "Im worried that my autism makes me unloveable"

[DoomThreeKoala]

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I wasn’t sure whether to put the venting or the need advice flair on this post because it’s kind of both.

I (f20) have been in two relationships, one from age 14-18 which ended a year and a half ago and one that just recently ended which lasted 8 months. Apart from these guys, no one else has ever shown any romantic interest in me and growing up i’ve always known I was not really anyone’s first choice dating wise.

Both relationships ended pretty much the same way, both guys realised that they didn’t love me enough to be with me. Due to this and other insecurities, i’ve started developing the fear that fundamentally who I am as a person is just undesirable or maybe just loveable but only to an extent.

I’m becoming worried that with all of my needs, my anxious attachment style and my general “off putting” (to some) autistic behaviours that I might never be the type of person people fall in love with.

I know i’m young, and can’t base my future off of two relationships, but I’ve just always known I’ve not really got the type of personality people fall in love with and i’m just worried that my autism is going to get in the way of anyone falling deeply in love with me rather than just surface level feelings.

Who is gonna tell her?

 

[Moth]

You know what's ironic? I was reading a post you made a couple of days ago talking about your ideal girlfriend, you said one of the prerequisites you had was that she was autistic like you. So in your case, it's quite the opposite.

 

[VanGobbel]

from age 14 to age 20 ive been giving my pussy daily to guys that wanted to be with me WHY AM I UNLOVEABLE???


istg these fucking attentionwhores need to kill themselves on the spot for being so retarded and oblivious

 

[endoftheskies]

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Who is gonna tell her?

Disgusting whore, while men that share the same condition as her end up as virgins forever. She is having an freakout over some irrationality which her festering up mind had conjured up.

 

[auxcking]

from age 14 to age 20 ive been giving my pussy daily to guys that wanted to be with me WHY AM I UNLOVEABLE???


istg these fucking attentionwhores need to kill themselves on the spot for being so retarded and oblivious

We have to kill them, because when they wanna kill themselves simps convince them not to

 

[Erenincel]

Two relationship and begin unloveable? many men haven't met a woman who liked them for many years and still likes white knights because they think they'll get laid this way.( This don't work but some idiot have 60 old and still do it)

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

You know what's ironic? I was reading a post you made a couple of days ago talking about your ideal girlfriend, you said one of the prerequisites you had was that she was autistic like you. So in your case, it's quite the opposite.

JFL. I want an autistic gf.

from age 14 to age 20 ive been giving my pussy daily to guys that wanted to be with me WHY AM I UNLOVEABLE???


istg these fucking attentionwhores need to kill themselves on the spot for being so retarded and oblivious

Disgusting whore, while men that share the same condition as her end up as virgins forever. She is having an freakout over some irrationality which her festering up mind had conjured up.

Two relationship and begin unloveable? many men haven't met a woman who liked them for many years and still likes white knights because they think they'll get laid this way.( This don't work but some idiot have 60 old and still do it)

Literally. Imagine being seen as "unlovable" when two men want you.

 

[Grodd]

Do i even have to say it

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Do i even have to say it

No.
Unlovable means unlovable to NT Chads. I would 1000% date her, but she would reject me instantly.