Story I'm turning 40 soon and this is why I joined the community...

[WastedPotential]

Thanks! I found it on Reddit to see if there is an incel community and I found the subreddit r/IncelTears where they are making fun of the posts from here. It made me angry because it's like making fun of somebody with a disability. Some things are not in our control. We can do as much as we can but we cannot control the opposite sex's mind. I can relate with everyone here and I feel your pain.

Yeah it's tough.

 

[Reverend Insanity]

I found this forum from Reddit because I want to be part of this community. It's near impossible for me to approach women, I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me but the idea of talking to a random complete stranger is too uncomfortable for me. I rather be a approached but we all know that's not going to happen.

Ok

 

[DrowziBone]

Yeah I was hanging with girl last year and completely utterly fucked it up but it wasnt planning on loosing my virginity to her because she had herpes and she was sub3.

That's definitely a win bro, better to stay as a clean virgin than getting herpes from a slut that will stick with you forever, fuck that! You would've instantly regretted it. Just take it as a practice run.

 

[Goofygoober007]

That's definitely a win bro, better to stay as a clean virgin than getting herpes from a slut that will stick with you forever, fuck that! You would've instantly regretted it. Just take it as a practice run.

Yeah I pissed her off when I said well you have herpes and she said Im not taking your V card and Im like "I know you aren't you have herpes" I think she thought she was too ugly too which was part of it and she was not to be dick.

 

[DrowziBone]

Yeah I pissed her off when I said well you have herpes and she said Im not taking your V card and Im like "I know you aren't you have herpes" I think she thought she was too ugly too which was part of it and she was not to be dick.

Good for you man! I respect that a lot.

 

[subindian]

Maybe I should go to UK lol in Canada, the desi girls think I'm POS for acting like a white guy and the Indian girls born and raised here, they are stuck up and have super high expectations, like I need look like a Bollywood star or their favorite Punjabi singer. I'm into white girls which makes it almost impossible to date.

Thanks btw for the suggestion. I'm trying to cut down on the edibles because it is making me super lazy also.

yh no id say the meta here is balanced, indian couples normally speak in a regional language and not english in the times i overheard them, or have heavy indian accents. brum born jeets only can be seen with white panzers or a very very slutty jeeta

 

[ThePornographer]

I always told myself that I'm not an incel but today I am finally accepting it.

It took you a long ass time.

Welcome in reality man

 

[Zionist]

That's why I'm fucked unless I find a Polish or Russian girl, not white white if that makes sense.

Date your own race nigger, enough race mixing going on.

 

[Azaylias]

ethnic volcel exhibit #38297382131231

 

[itstoolate]

Yes I'm Sikh

You buried the lede

Brutal. You should go abroad, Thailand or Phillippinnes.

 

[NoIdeaWhy]

I always told myself that I'm not an incel but today I am finally accepting it.

I had zero chance with girls in school and as you know if it doesn't happen in high school or college, then after in the "real world" it only gets harder. I was on dating sites and apps from when I was 18 until I was 30. The amount of girls I would message would go on for pages and the amount of swipes I did, got to the point where there were no more matches in my area. I put in serious effort and money to get zero results. These cunts say "I want a man who has his shit together" and don't say just "hey" or they won't respond but they still never did when I wrote a personalized message.

I have a career in engineering, I'm born and raised in Canada, I'm 6' tall, average build, I have my own place, I have my own car. I hit all the fucking checkboxes on paper and I'm still not "good enough". What do us males have to f'n do?

It's like the media decides what women should be attracted to. So I went to the gym 7 days a week, got jacked, I grew a beard to grow somewhat of a chin and decent face shape. I got a tattoo sleeve. I did everything these bitches want. Yes in those 12 years I did manage to get a handful of dates (btw they were not the attractive ones, mostly heavy) and they still went no where. They either lost interest or ghosted me. I'm a shy person so I don't know what to say to turn a girl on or I don't know how to make moves because I don't have experience. It's like even if you think you have all the factors to be a good healthy loyal caring man are not enough. All these girls that write they want a relationship are just hooking up with guys that look like their favorite celebrity. Sorry I look like an average Canadian male who works hard to make a living.

So my entire 30s I have been abusing alcohol and cocaine out of loneliness and hating life. I'm finally 80+ days sober because I'm not stressing over getting a girlfriend anymore. I would try to go to bars and clubs like everyone says but my anxiety gets the best of me and I just end up getting wasted and going on benders alone at home while the girls I was checking out are getting fucked by some random stranger they think is hot, nothing to do with personality btw because how can you know someone in an hour with loud music blaring.

I always dreamed of having a nice family. I'm not even picky, any average female would be good enough but even the fat bitches think they are hot shit with guys trying to get an easy lay.

I wish the world did not become one-sided like this. Men are paying women thousands on OF for just showing their body for fucks sake! These bitches don't need to work anymore. I'm so frustrated at how disposable men have become over the years. Robots and surgeries are not the answer. Women need to respect men the same way they respect one another. We are all human. I feel bad for myself and for all of you that this is our reality. I'm going to try to stay sober but having a family seems further than ever.

its good though that at your age you still had the energy and mental capacity to looksmaxx. im sorry it didnt work out for you bro, being an incel is not a label you should be ashamed to carry, its good at least that you’ve come to the conclusion that the blackpill always comes to collect

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Sounds like a larp from Incel Tears or tik tok. 6ft 40 year old man even if it's a curry in STEM field is still a virgin?

That poojeet only wants to fuck a white foid.
I would suggest that he goes back to Mumbai and finds himself a poojeeta there.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Date your own race nigger, enough race mixing going on.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

I didn't get laid though. I fucked up the dates everytime but now I'm not on any dating app so zero chance for dates now...

Yes, I've read the rest now, and you're a curry with a preference for white foids. Dating someone of your own race will probably solve your problem. There are plenty of foids in India, after all.

 

[VanGobbel]

If I am still a virgin at 40 I might become a terrorist, brutal

dw, you won't make it

 

[INCELIBATE12]

Brutal. I knew from early teenage years that i was born to lose. I was average at everything, at best and despite all the effort i have tried putting in nothing changed so i gave up at this life. I never had any friends, i had been spending most of the time rotting my room.

same fucking situation man...

 

[Dr.Crusty]

I always told myself that I'm not an incel but today I am finally accepting it.

I had zero chance with girls in school and as you know if it doesn't happen in high school or college, then after in the "real world" it only gets harder. I was on dating sites and apps from when I was 18 until I was 30. The amount of girls I would message would go on for pages and the amount of swipes I did, got to the point where there were no more matches in my area. I put in serious effort and money to get zero results. These cunts say "I want a man who has his shit together" and don't say just "hey" or they won't respond but they still never did when I wrote a personalized message.

I have a career in engineering, I'm born and raised in Canada, I'm 6' tall, average build, I have my own place, I have my own car. I hit all the fucking checkboxes on paper and I'm still not "good enough". What do us males have to f'n do?

It's like the media decides what women should be attracted to. So I went to the gym 7 days a week, got jacked, I grew a beard to grow somewhat of a chin and decent face shape. I got a tattoo sleeve. I did everything these bitches want. Yes in those 12 years I did manage to get a handful of dates (btw they were not the attractive ones, mostly heavy) and they still went no where. They either lost interest or ghosted me. I'm a shy person so I don't know what to say to turn a girl on or I don't know how to make moves because I don't have experience. It's like even if you think you have all the factors to be a good healthy loyal caring man are not enough. All these girls that write they want a relationship are just hooking up with guys that look like their favorite celebrity. Sorry I look like an average Canadian male who works hard to make a living.

So my entire 30s I have been abusing alcohol and cocaine out of loneliness and hating life. I'm finally 80+ days sober because I'm not stressing over getting a girlfriend anymore. I would try to go to bars and clubs like everyone says but my anxiety gets the best of me and I just end up getting wasted and going on benders alone at home while the girls I was checking out are getting fucked by some random stranger they think is hot, nothing to do with personality btw because how can you know someone in an hour with loud music blaring.

I always dreamed of having a nice family. I'm not even picky, any average female would be good enough but even the fat bitches think they are hot shit with guys trying to get an easy lay.

I wish the world did not become one-sided like this. Men are paying women thousands on OF for just showing their body for fucks sake! These bitches don't need to work anymore. I'm so frustrated at how disposable men have become over the years. Robots and surgeries are not the answer. Women need to respect men the same way they respect one another. We are all human. I feel bad for myself and for all of you that this is our reality. I'm going to try to stay sober but having a family seems further than ever.

Brutal man, it hurts I know

 

[DrowziBone]

It took you a long ass time.

Welcome in reality man

Yeah denial is real bro

 

[DrowziBone]

its good though that at your age you still had the energy and mental capacity to looksmaxx. im sorry it didnt work out for you bro, being an incel is not a label you should be ashamed to carry, its good at least that you’ve come to the conclusion that the blackpill always comes to collect

Thanks bro

 

[DrowziBone]

its good though that at your age you still had the energy and mental capacity to looksmaxx. im sorry it didnt work out for you bro, being an incel is not a label you should be ashamed to carry, its good at least that you’ve come to the conclusion that the blackpill always comes to collect

Thanks for understanding and the support

 

[VanGobbel]

I feel bad for myself and for all of you that this is our reality. I'm going to try to stay sober

Why stay sober now? Your "best" years are already gone. You're going to deprive yourself of any joy while growing older and more depressed every year??

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

Its depressing to know that my future will be exactly like this

 

[DrowziBone]

Yes, I've read the rest now, and you're a curry with a preference for white foids. Dating someone of your own race will probably solve your problem. There are plenty of foids in India, after all.

I just don't find them attractive, they all look like trans or like my cousins haha I rather stay as an incel

 

[DrowziBone]

You buried the lede

Brutal. You should go abroad, Thailand or Phillippinnes.

Yeah I was thinking of moving to one of these places. If I sold everything here and with my savings converted to their currency, I could be pretty well off over there and it would be easier to get girls finally.

 

[DrowziBone]

ethnic volcel exhibit #38297382131231

Lol

 

[DrowziBone]

Why stay sober now? Your "best" years are already gone. You're going to deprive yourself of any joy while growing older and more depressed every year??

Because it will kill me, I was going on 3 to 4 day benders with no sleep, no food, just drugs and alcohol. I'm only living for my parents. Even though I hate myself and life, they still care too much about me and they would never get over it if something happened to me.

 

[VanGobbel]

I'm only living for my parents.

respect for that

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

I just don't find them attractive, they all look like trans or like my cousins haha I rather stay as a volcel

If you have a chance with foids of your race, but don't want it, you are a volcel.

 

[DrowziBone]

If you have a chance with foids of your race, but don't want it, you are a volcel.

In Canada, they don't like me. I've been ghosted and rejected by them because they think I'm too white-washed. I could probably find someone in India but then that's like grabbing anyone from a third world country. I'm trying to find someone born here and I can't.

 

[Zaraj11]

Thanks for sharing your story. I think these stories help us to find a passion or hobby that we can spend our time and not waste our time on women. MGTOW!

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

In Canada, they don't like me. I've been ghosted and rejected by them because they think I'm too white-washed. I could probably find someone in India but then that's like grabbing anyone from a third world country. I'm trying to find someone born here and I can't.

You're Indian, so that would be the logical consequence. I'll tell you quite frankly: As a shitskin, a white nation will never be your home. (Even if Canada isn't really white anymore, and if it ever was. As a German, I'm not familiar with the situation.)
But I'm convinced that you can only find true happiness where you belong.

 

[DrowziBone]

You're Indian, so that would be the logical consequence. I'll tell you quite frankly: As a shitskin, a white nation will never be your home. (Even if Canada isn't really white anymore, and if it ever was. As a German, I'm not familiar with the situation.)
But I'm convinced that you can only find true happiness where you belong.

Sometimes the truth is hard to swallow

 

[DrowziBone]

Thanks for sharing your story. I think these stories help us to find a passion or hobby that we can spend our time and not waste our time on women. MGTOW!

Thanks for the affirmation

 

[The Death Devil]

if it makes you feel better it's not that your not adequete your probably above average it's that being above average became not good enough

I disagree. Even today, being above average is enough. Above average guys still have a chance of being desired by foids—average and below average is where you have to start betabuxxing for any real female attention.

If I had to guess, it's probably just his high-inhib and race that screwed him over. Even still, I doubt that he's entirely a truecel, probably just a nearcel at worst, but it's close enough to the point where I don't see any reason to say that he should go out and continue trying. Plus, at that age, there's no real reason to try to begin with. You've already missed out on practically all of the important parts of your life and you can never get them back. Most if not all women you date will have kids already—not to mention that if you want your own, there is a high chance they're going to be severely autistic or retarded in the miracle that your wife somehow manages to conceive.

 

[The Death Devil]

Let me ask you, and I hope it doesn't come off as overly-prodding, but how have other people treated you in your life? Have you been generally treated poorly? If so, do you think it stemmed from your looks, way of acting, or something else entirely?

 

[hunter x atomics]

I disagree. Even today, being above average is enough. Above average guys still have a chance of being desired by foids—average and below average is where you have to start betabuxxing for any real female attention.

If I had to guess, it's probably just his high-inhib and race that screwed him over. Even still, I doubt that he's entirely a truecel, probably just a nearcel at worst, but it's close enough to the point where I don't see any reason to say that he should go out and continue trying. Plus, at that age, there's no real reason to try to begin with. You've already missed out on practically all of the important parts of your life and you can never get them back. Most if not all women you date will have kids already—not to mention that if you want your own, there is a high chance they're going to be severely autistic or retarded in the miracle that your wife somehow manages to conceive.

 

[DrowziBone]

Thanks for sharing your story. I think these stories help us to find a passion or hobby that we can spend our time and not waste our time on women. MGTOW!

Thanks for the adfir

I disagree. Even today, being above average is enough. Above average guys still have a chance of being desired by foids—average and below average is where you have to start betabuxxing for any real female attention.

If I had to guess, it's probably just his high-inhib and race that screwed him over. Even still, I doubt that he's entirely a truecel, probably just a nearcel at worst, but it's close enough to the point where I don't see any reason to say that he should go out and continue trying. Plus, at that age, there's no real reason to try to begin with. You've already missed out on practically all of the important parts of your life and you can never get them back. Most if not all women you date will have kids already—not to mention that if you want your own, there is a high chance they're going to be severely autistic or retarded in the miracle that your wife somehow manages to conceive.

Oh nooooo :'(

 

[DrowziBone]

Turning 40 next week....I hope I get lucky this summer. I've been single all my life and I love alone, it's so fucking lonely. I'm taking to autistic people on discord for company, how depressing is that.

 

[undertaker77]

I'm really sorry that you were forced to turn to alcohol and cocaine because society rejected you and didn't allow you the same things everyone else has. It's completely unfair. I'll be your age in a few years. Welcome, brother.

I'm a 41 year old incel virgin and I drink alcohol a lot. Also what makes things worse for me is that I'm facing homelessness.

 

[ihatelife2]

I'm a 41 year old incel virgin and I drink alcohol a lot. Also what makes things worse for me is that I'm facing homelessness.

Oh fuck, why? I thought you were on neetbux, is there a danger of them being revoked?

 

[parbate2025]

I always told myself that I'm not an incel but today I am finally accepting it.

I had zero chance with girls in school and as you know if it doesn't happen in high school or college, then after in the "real world" it only gets harder. I was on dating sites and apps from when I was 18 until I was 30. The amount of girls I would message would go on for pages and the amount of swipes I did, got to the point where there were no more matches in my area. I put in serious effort and money to get zero results. These cunts say "I want a man who has his shit together" and don't say just "hey" or they won't respond but they still never did when I wrote a personalized message.

I have a career in engineering, I'm born and raised in Canada, I'm 6' tall, average build, I have my own place, I have my own car. I hit all the fucking checkboxes on paper and I'm still not "good enough". What do us males have to f'n do?

It's like the media decides what women should be attracted to. So I went to the gym 7 days a week, got jacked, I grew a beard to grow somewhat of a chin and decent face shape. I got a tattoo sleeve. I did everything these bitches want. Yes in those 12 years I did manage to get a handful of dates (btw they were not the attractive ones, mostly heavy) and they still went no where. They either lost interest or ghosted me. I'm a shy person so I don't know what to say to turn a girl on or I don't know how to make moves because I don't have experience. It's like even if you think you have all the factors to be a good healthy loyal caring man are not enough. All these girls that write they want a relationship are just hooking up with guys that look like their favorite celebrity. Sorry I look like an average Canadian male who works hard to make a living.

So my entire 30s I have been abusing alcohol and cocaine out of loneliness and hating life. I'm finally 80+ days sober because I'm not stressing over getting a girlfriend anymore. I would try to go to bars and clubs like everyone says but my anxiety gets the best of me and I just end up getting wasted and going on benders alone at home while the girls I was checking out are getting fucked by some random stranger they think is hot, nothing to do with personality btw because how can you know someone in an hour with loud music blaring.

I always dreamed of having a nice family. I'm not even picky, any average female would be good enough but even the fat bitches think they are hot shit with guys trying to get an easy lay.

I wish the world did not become one-sided like this. Men are paying women thousands on OF for just showing their body for fucks sake! These bitches don't need to work anymore. I'm so frustrated at how disposable men have become over the years. Robots and surgeries are not the answer. Women need to respect men the same way they respect one another. We are all human. I feel bad for myself and for all of you that this is our reality. I'm going to try to stay sober but having a family seems further than ever.

You should've hardmaxxed bro.
After 30 you should've gone that route

 

[AdExpress]

I hope I get lucky this summer.

It's over sorry bro

 

[Sodes]

beyond brutal

 

[ItsOverMan]

I always told myself that I'm not an incel but today I am finally accepting it.

I had zero chance with girls in school and as you know if it doesn't happen in high school or college, then after in the "real world" it only gets harder. I was on dating sites and apps from when I was 18 until I was 30. The amount of girls I would message would go on for pages and the amount of swipes I did, got to the point where there were no more matches in my area. I put in serious effort and money to get zero results. These cunts say "I want a man who has his shit together" and don't say just "hey" or they won't respond but they still never did when I wrote a personalized message.

I have a career in engineering, I'm born and raised in Canada, I'm 6' tall, average build, I have my own place, I have my own car. I hit all the fucking checkboxes on paper and I'm still not "good enough". What do us males have to f'n do?

It's like the media decides what women should be attracted to. So I went to the gym 7 days a week, got jacked, I grew a beard to grow somewhat of a chin and decent face shape. I got a tattoo sleeve. I did everything these bitches want. Yes in those 12 years I did manage to get a handful of dates (btw they were not the attractive ones, mostly heavy) and they still went no where. They either lost interest or ghosted me. I'm a shy person so I don't know what to say to turn a girl on or I don't know how to make moves because I don't have experience. It's like even if you think you have all the factors to be a good healthy loyal caring man are not enough. All these girls that write they want a relationship are just hooking up with guys that look like their favorite celebrity. Sorry I look like an average Canadian male who works hard to make a living.

So my entire 30s I have been abusing alcohol and cocaine out of loneliness and hating life. I'm finally 80+ days sober because I'm not stressing over getting a girlfriend anymore. I would try to go to bars and clubs like everyone says but my anxiety gets the best of me and I just end up getting wasted and going on benders alone at home while the girls I was checking out are getting fucked by some random stranger they think is hot, nothing to do with personality btw because how can you know someone in an hour with loud music blaring.

I always dreamed of having a nice family. I'm not even picky, any average female would be good enough but even the fat bitches think they are hot shit with guys trying to get an easy lay.

I wish the world did not become one-sided like this. Men are paying women thousands on OF for just showing their body for fucks sake! These bitches don't need to work anymore. I'm so frustrated at how disposable men have become over the years. Robots and surgeries are not the answer. Women need to respect men the same way they respect one another. We are all human. I feel bad for myself and for all of you that this is our reality. I'm going to try to stay sober but having a family seems further than ever.

Welcome to the 40+ club, fellow wizardcel. I'm over 40

 

[INVERTER]

I always told myself that I'm not an incel but today I am finally accepting it.

I had zero chance with girls in school and as you know if it doesn't happen in high school or college, then after in the "real world" it only gets harder. I was on dating sites and apps from when I was 18 until I was 30. The amount of girls I would message would go on for pages and the amount of swipes I did, got to the point where there were no more matches in my area. I put in serious effort and money to get zero results. These cunts say "I want a man who has his shit together" and don't say just "hey" or they won't respond but they still never did when I wrote a personalized message.

I have a career in engineering, I'm born and raised in Canada, I'm 6' tall, average build, I have my own place, I have my own car. I hit all the fucking checkboxes on paper and I'm still not "good enough". What do us males have to f'n do?

It's like the media decides what women should be attracted to. So I went to the gym 7 days a week, got jacked, I grew a beard to grow somewhat of a chin and decent face shape. I got a tattoo sleeve. I did everything these bitches want. Yes in those 12 years I did manage to get a handful of dates (btw they were not the attractive ones, mostly heavy) and they still went no where. They either lost interest or ghosted me. I'm a shy person so I don't know what to say to turn a girl on or I don't know how to make moves because I don't have experience. It's like even if you think you have all the factors to be a good healthy loyal caring man are not enough. All these girls that write they want a relationship are just hooking up with guys that look like their favorite celebrity. Sorry I look like an average Canadian male who works hard to make a living.

So my entire 30s I have been abusing alcohol and cocaine out of loneliness and hating life. I'm finally 80+ days sober because I'm not stressing over getting a girlfriend anymore. I would try to go to bars and clubs like everyone says but my anxiety gets the best of me and I just end up getting wasted and going on benders alone at home while the girls I was checking out are getting fucked by some random stranger they think is hot, nothing to do with personality btw because how can you know someone in an hour with loud music blaring.

I always dreamed of having a nice family. I'm not even picky, any average female would be good enough but even the fat bitches think they are hot shit with guys trying to get an easy lay.

I wish the world did not become one-sided like this. Men are paying women thousands on OF for just showing their body for fucks sake! These bitches don't need to work anymore. I'm so frustrated at how disposable men have become over the years. Robots and surgeries are not the answer. Women need to respect men the same way they respect one another. We are all human. I feel bad for myself and for all of you that this is our reality. I'm going to try to stay sober but having a family seems further than ever.

This is my future. I relate to a lot of what you post

 

[DrowziBone]

Welcome to the 40+ club, fellow wizardcel. I'm over 40

Thank you

 

[DrowziBone]

This is my future. I relate to a lot of what you post

Sorry to hear :'(

 

[UriBelmont]

Are you black? Fakecel alert. Get the fuck out crybaby.

 

[DrowziBone]

No brother I am just like you. I am in the same boat. I get no pussy

 

[taoistcel]

40 is a based age