I always told myself that I'm not an incel but today I am finally accepting it.
I had zero chance with girls in school and as you know if it doesn't happen in high school or college, then after in the "real world" it only gets harder. I was on dating sites and apps from when I was 18 until I was 30. The amount of girls I would message would go on for pages and the amount of swipes I did, got to the point where there were no more matches in my area. I put in serious effort and money to get zero results. These cunts say "I want a man who has his shit together" and don't say just "hey" or they won't respond but they still never did when I wrote a personalized message.
I have a career in engineering, I'm born and raised in Canada, I'm 6' tall, average build, I have my own place, I have my own car. I hit all the fucking checkboxes on paper and I'm still not "good enough". What do us males have to f'n do?
It's like the media decides what women should be attracted to. So I went to the gym 7 days a week, got jacked, I grew a beard to grow somewhat of a chin and decent face shape. I got a tattoo sleeve. I did everything these bitches want. Yes in those 12 years I did manage to get a handful of dates (btw they were not the attractive ones, mostly heavy) and they still went no where. They either lost interest or ghosted me. I'm a shy person so I don't know what to say to turn a girl on or I don't know how to make moves because I don't have experience. It's like even if you think you have all the factors to be a good healthy loyal caring man are not enough. All these girls that write they want a relationship are just hooking up with guys that look like their favorite celebrity. Sorry I look like an average Canadian male who works hard to make a living.
So my entire 30s I have been abusing alcohol and cocaine out of loneliness and hating life. I'm finally 80+ days sober because I'm not stressing over getting a girlfriend anymore. I would try to go to bars and clubs like everyone says but my anxiety gets the best of me and I just end up getting wasted and going on benders alone at home while the girls I was checking out are getting fucked by some random stranger they think is hot, nothing to do with personality btw because how can you know someone in an hour with loud music blaring.
I always dreamed of having a nice family. I'm not even picky, any average female would be good enough but even the fat bitches think they are hot shit with guys trying to get an easy lay.
I wish the world did not become one-sided like this. Men are paying women thousands on OF for just showing their body for fucks sake! These bitches don't need to work anymore. I'm so frustrated at how disposable men have become over the years. Robots and surgeries are not the answer. Women need to respect men the same way they respect one another. We are all human. I feel bad for myself and for all of you that this is our reality. I'm going to try to stay sober but having a family seems further than ever.
I had zero chance with girls in school and as you know if it doesn't happen in high school or college, then after in the "real world" it only gets harder. I was on dating sites and apps from when I was 18 until I was 30. The amount of girls I would message would go on for pages and the amount of swipes I did, got to the point where there were no more matches in my area. I put in serious effort and money to get zero results. These cunts say "I want a man who has his shit together" and don't say just "hey" or they won't respond but they still never did when I wrote a personalized message.
I have a career in engineering, I'm born and raised in Canada, I'm 6' tall, average build, I have my own place, I have my own car. I hit all the fucking checkboxes on paper and I'm still not "good enough". What do us males have to f'n do?
It's like the media decides what women should be attracted to. So I went to the gym 7 days a week, got jacked, I grew a beard to grow somewhat of a chin and decent face shape. I got a tattoo sleeve. I did everything these bitches want. Yes in those 12 years I did manage to get a handful of dates (btw they were not the attractive ones, mostly heavy) and they still went no where. They either lost interest or ghosted me. I'm a shy person so I don't know what to say to turn a girl on or I don't know how to make moves because I don't have experience. It's like even if you think you have all the factors to be a good healthy loyal caring man are not enough. All these girls that write they want a relationship are just hooking up with guys that look like their favorite celebrity. Sorry I look like an average Canadian male who works hard to make a living.
So my entire 30s I have been abusing alcohol and cocaine out of loneliness and hating life. I'm finally 80+ days sober because I'm not stressing over getting a girlfriend anymore. I would try to go to bars and clubs like everyone says but my anxiety gets the best of me and I just end up getting wasted and going on benders alone at home while the girls I was checking out are getting fucked by some random stranger they think is hot, nothing to do with personality btw because how can you know someone in an hour with loud music blaring.
I always dreamed of having a nice family. I'm not even picky, any average female would be good enough but even the fat bitches think they are hot shit with guys trying to get an easy lay.
I wish the world did not become one-sided like this. Men are paying women thousands on OF for just showing their body for fucks sake! These bitches don't need to work anymore. I'm so frustrated at how disposable men have become over the years. Robots and surgeries are not the answer. Women need to respect men the same way they respect one another. We are all human. I feel bad for myself and for all of you that this is our reality. I'm going to try to stay sober but having a family seems further than ever.
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