I'm such an autist when it comes to women

[CopingGymcel]

>walk into brother's apartment complex
>female behind
>open door
>female: Thanks
>say nothing, look forward, walk
>open next door
>thanks again, tihi
>say nothing, look forward, walk

How did it become like this. I didn't use to be this autistic. I can't even say one word to a female other than "hello", "no thanks" to the cashier. 

Anyone else have this problem?

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

I can usually say "You're welcome" in a quiet, whispery voice.

 

[CopingGymcel]

I can usually say "You're welcome" in a quiet, whispery voice.

At least you have the ability to talk

How am I suppose to ever get a gf if i can't even communicate with them?

When I was 13, I had no issue talking with girls, even pretty ones.

I also try not to look at women, as I don't want them to think I'm a creep.

 

[KyloRen]

No, I don't.

 

[Tellem--T]

Yep I ignore all those chicks that work at the front desk of my gym when I swipe my card, even when they say hi while smiling lol

 

[New New Poster]

Actually it's autistic to say something then. You just nod or do some other non-verbal acknowledgment.

Of course, it's the most aspie to obsess over this and post a self-loathing thread later.

 

[CopingGymcel]

Actually it's autistic to say something then.  You just nod or do some other non-verbal acknowledgment.  

Of course, it's the most aspie to obsess over this and post a self-loathing thread later.

I'm pretty sure the correct response is to turn around slightly, look her in the eyes for a split second and say "you're welcome" with a friendly voice. But it's easier said than done. Contrary to actual autists, I actually know the correct response, I'm just not able to give it because of fears, anxiety and low self-esteem.

I'm able to say thanks when a female opens the door for me, but that's just because I don't want to come off as overly rude.

 

[whogivesafucc]

im exactly like you, anything beyond the usual courtesies is a complete no-no to me. i literally cannot talk to them in any way, shape, or form, and I used to be able to back then when I was young, just like you. i was also low inhibition as fuck back then, so idk. it feels foreign to me to even "talk" to a girl, my brain just wants to avoid them as much as possible

 

[CopingGymcel]

im exactly like you, anything beyond the usual courtesies is a complete no-no to me. i literally cannot talk to them in any way, shape, or form, and I used to be able to back then when I was young, just like you. i was also low inhibition as fuck back then, so idk. it feels foreign to me to even "talk" to a girl, my brain just wants to avoid them as much as possible

I was pretty low inhib before I met World of Warcraft (can't wait for Classic WoW to come out, lol.)

 

[Framecel222]

Just start drunkcelling 24/7.

 

[Dissapointment]

Yeah im pretty good socially with other guys tbh but with girls i cant even form a sentence wtf should i say to them

 

[whogivesafucc]

im exactly like you, anything beyond the usual courtesies is a complete no-no to me. i literally cannot talk to them in any way, shape, or form, and I used to be able to back then when I was young, just like you. i was also low inhibition as fuck back then, so idk. it feels foreign to me to even "talk" to a girl, my brain just wants to avoid them as much as possible

I was pretty low inhib before I met World of Warcraft (can't wait for Classic WoW to come out, lol.)

LOL

i think that's what fucked me over too, i was a complete fucking shut-in with runescape and then later on wow (specifically wrath of lich king private servers). my autistic ass made like 16891903111616168161 trial accounts for retail, before i discovered that i can just play a private server and not pay.

 

[CopingGymcel]

Just start drunkcelling 24/7.

I need to buy some Xanax on the dark web.

 

[whogivesafucc]

Yeah im pretty good socially with other guys tbh but with girls i cant even form a sentence wtf should i say to them

legit. with guys you feel like there's at least some sort of common interests that you have. with girls, it's like you're treading in unknown ground, you haven't the faintest clue what to say and anything that you might say can potentially ruin the entire thing between you and her. this is fucking mental torture.

 

[CopingGymcel]

I have ignored girls in the past but I did it out of petty spite when I was already in a bad mood. Looking back I regret it.

Now I’ll clasp any opportunities I have with women with both hands. The problem is trying to not come across as too zealous

Isn't your text suppose to say "6/10 autist"?

 

[New New Poster]

I'm pretty sure the correct response is to turn around slightly, look her in the eyes for a split second and say "you're welcome" with a friendly voice. But it's easier said than done. Contrary to actual autists, I actually know the correct response, I'm just not able to give it because of fears, anxiety and low self-esteem.

I'm able to say thanks when a female opens the door for me, but that's just because I don't want to come off as overly rude.

Maybe if you live in buttfuck nowhere and only interact with a few people.  Then maybe you stop, smile, talk about the cow that wandered into the town square.  But if you're in a populated area, then it's too warm and familiar to lock eyes and say "your welcome."  I mean, no one really gives a fuck, so don't overthink this.  But typically you just acknowledge their presence and move on.

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

Isn't your text suppose to say "6/10 autist"?

 

[Dissapointment]

legit. with guys you feel like there's at least some sort of common interests that you have. with girls, it's like you're treading in unknown ground, you haven't the faintest clue what to say and anything that you might say can potentially ruin the entire thing between you and her. this is fucking mental torture.

Yeah not only that my voice sounds different and i stutter a little even if i was a chad it would still be awkward as fuck

 

[itsOVER]

Well just think...you're pretty bad, but at least you're not as bad as Twisted!

 

[CopingGymcel]

Well just think...you're pretty bad, but at least you're not as bad as Twisted!

He would have probably asked if she had an STD.

 

[itsOVER]

He would have probably asked if she had an STD.

I'm still not convinced he's not just a massive LARPer.

 

[Octopusgun2]

Nope, i’m too low inhib and confident that it has gotten me rejected brutally (had a femoid tell me that I shouldn’t be this confident when I look like I do)

 

[CopingGymcel]

Nope, i’m too low inhib and confident that it has gotten me rejected brutally (had a femoid tell me that I shouldn’t be this confident when I look like I do)

BRUTAL.

When you've got your surgeries done, it will serve you well.