Major COPE
Of course it's impossible for me, and most on this site. However many Chads, Chadlites, and even high-tier normie men do experience that.
Not once did I NOT say those things last forever or some idealistic "romantic" notion that women only "love" you for yourself. What I do miss is not ever experiencing the first stages of mutual infatuation/love in a relationship. That infatuation typically fades in a long-lasting relationship, but you're the one that's thinking illogically if you actual believe that normal couples don't form bonds that do last, at least in some relationships and marriages.
As I mentioned in another comment, at least one of three things happens to those "Chads" you so envy. They catch an STD, they get a girl pregnant (which may or may not include marriage and possibly a financially ruinous divorce), and/or they get accused of rape (falsely or correctly) and go to jail where the niggers do to them what they did to women.
Prosperity is neither achieved nor sustained via degeneracy. Eventually is comes back with a vengeance. Rome's degeneracy caught up with them and our nation's degeneracy is doing the same. That's undeniable, we can see it happening all around us. The same happens for individuals. A man who squanders his potential on constant hedonism and pleasure will pay for it. There are exceptions to everything, of course. A billionaire can live a life of constant indulgence without having to worry about lifting their own finger. They can also likely get away with murder easily thanks to their great wealth, but that doesn't mean we're coping by accepting that committing murder likely gaurantees anyone of our rank in society life in prison or death.
Yes, there are "couples" that appear to live happily together for a long time, perhaps the rest of their lives. It is a facade. Behind their happy faces are two people who have had to enslave themselves to one another. It takes only an argument or fight which always happen sooner or later, and at that point they either stick together reluctantly out of dependence, fear, or a religious conviction, or they go their ways and love one another no longer. I've seen it in my own family and in my friends' families, and even my own. Cheating, fights, arguments, drug addiction and alcoholism, they always happen. If you want a steady relationship with a woman, you will have to die to yourself and become her slave, or vice-versa (which does not happen).
The irony of accusing me of coping, as you deny reality and cling to some irrational hope that there is a woman who will see you one day and just decide to treat you like some sort of special equal. It's no wonder you're so naive, I seriously doubt you've ever seen "love" up close after all, let alone experienced it. How many romance films have you based your beliefs on? Perhaps you should read up on evolutionary biology, it would be quite the eye-opener. Love is only an artificial product of the modern world anyhow. Have you read ancient literature? Do you think your forefathers chose their mates based on anything besides their sex appeal anyways?
Why would even you want to be so weak and adapt such an animalistic mindset? Why do you wish to go backwards biologically and live like a primate, lying in a filthy bed basking in foul odors produced by the sweat and flatulence of you, a mate, and the disgusting babies you will pump out like the shit they produce? Why do you think that you're special when most of humanity does and thinks the same thing? Nobody finds beauty in other couples (even if they say they do out of politeness), so why do you think you're special? What a pathetic and sad lifestyle you wish for. If you wish to live the way of the monkeys, then just admit you're a furfag and go be a part of that zoo.
The spirit of man shall go forward. It is all but guaranteed that within the next century, woman will be obsolete for procreation of the species. Humans will gestate in machinery, and perhaps eventually we will become one with technology and the machine will carry on our spirit better than ever before.
Love is an illusion, and its precursors are only a necessary evil of evolution (which won't be necessary for much longer). You're acting in your best interests by putting your childish notions aside.