Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/145ln1q/im_scared_that_im_settling_for_less_by_dating/
I feel that dating apps have ruined this for me where I am now obsessed with the physical looks of people I swipe and date. I recently got out of a relationship with someone who is tall, fit, gyms, older than me so he was confident and assertive while respectful and understanding.
I am getting tired of dating and breaking up. I want to get married and start my own family. My good friend of 6 years has been pursuing me and I have rejected him over the years, but I am now considering it because I know he is someone who will give me safety and would want to settle down. But I am afraid I am settling for less because he’s not attractive to me - he’s shorter than me, he’s skinny, he’s a year younger than me so he’s in this awkward phase in his life where he’s still too shy to ask for ketchup and getting his degree while figuring out his future. I even think he might be a virgin and I feel that how good my ex was in bed has now set the bar so high.
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