It’ll be ok. I don’t have experience with 40s or 50s. The first few years of 30 kind of sucked, I literally began getting random muscles pulled doing everyday shit, it was like clockwork. I also got a lot more isolated as my friends began getting married and moving away, and once they have kids they basically disappear. But for example provided you career-maxxed/lived frugally, you can reap the benefits of it. Live on your own, spend your time how you want (minus activities that require a woman of course
Unless you’re somewhere where you can escort if that’s something you wanna do) and spend your money on what you want to. Indulge in hobbies, get a nice computer and tv, comfy shit etc.
Looking back, I suspect the fear of turning 30 was largely a female idea that got spread to men as part of the whole “men and women are the same” ideological shift. Turning 30 matters a lot for women, they have a biological clock that’s amazingly precise and calibrated to end their fertile years after that time, and attractiveness is a big practical factor in fertility. But for men, not quite as much. Our biological clock seems more like a ticking time bomb for our entire life tbh. We could start balding at any time for example, and each stage can last for varying amounts of time. It’s not any better, it’s actually worse imo since we can’t plan around it, but it’s different and there’s no reason to worry about 30 specifically with it.
I’m not gonna lie and say I’m not suffering and miserable every single day. But I dunno man, it’ll be alright. There are still reasons to keep going.
Gonna log off for the day because I don’t wanna deal with the shit I get for making a post that lacks a bleak outlook.