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Serious I'm Proud to be an Incel

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Being an Incel has shaped my identity in ways I could have never imagined before knowing I would have this issue in life. I never imagined as a kid that I would grow up to be an Incel, not only in technicality, but in essence too.

People might say "how can you be proud of being involuntarily celibate"? I'd say it's the same as being proud to be working class. It's better to be bourgoise, but people are still proud of their identities.
 
why would you be proud of being too ugly to get sex?
 
why would you be proud of being too ugly to get sex?
The same way Irish people are proud to be Irish, even though being English is superior. Or how working class are proud to be who they are.

When you encapsulate an identity it becomes core to who you are as a person. Someone with self esteem takes pride in themselves regardless of their identity.

Another example I just thought of is when people are proud they were born poor "started from the bottom now we here". Why would you be proud of having to work to become rich when others are born in such a state.
 
It's like a starving yemeni kid saying I'm proud to be poor and have no food. Neither of us chose to be an incel man, we were forced into being one
 
I mean, at the very least you get know how the real world works through the Blackpill, but knowing that you are locked out of so many things due to your ugliness does suck the fun out of life.
 
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It's like a starving yemeni kid saying I'm proud to be poor and have no food. Neither of us chose to be an incel man, we were forced into being one
Exactly, and many people from Yemen are proud to be Yemenite
 
The same way Irish people are proud to be Irish, even though being English is superior. Or how working class are proud to be who they are.

When you encapsulate an identity it becomes core to who you are as a person. Someone with self esteem takes pride in themselves regardless of their identity.

Another example I just thought of is when people are proud they were born poor "started from the bottom now we here". Why would you be proud of having to work to become rich when others are born in such a state.
I kind of get what you mean. If you suddenly became a chad tomorrow your identity that you curated for yourself posting on these forums would cease to exist. You'd basically have to reframe everything from who you were before to who you are now. I'd still rather not be an incel though, it's painful at times even if I can cope through it.
 
I kind of get what you mean. If you suddenly became a chad tomorrow your identity that you curated for yourself posting on these forums would cease to exist. You'd basically have to reframe everything from who you were before to who you are now. I'd still rather not be an incel though, it's painful at times even if I can cope through it.
And if i were an Irishmen who woke up as a rich aristocratic englishmen, I'd take that too, but until that happens, I'll be proud to be a poor Irishmen.
 
I kind of get what you mean. If you suddenly became a chad tomorrow your identity that you curated for yourself posting on these forums would cease to exist. You'd basically have to reframe everything from who you were before to who you are now. I'd still rather not be an incel though, it's painful at times even if I can cope through it.
I'm mainly disappointed that I'm ugly, more than anything. Because when you're severely ugly, everything feels like a loss. At least 4-5/10 men can look at themselves and think they're ok. But I can't even bare myself to often stare back in the mirror. At least if I were good looking or average looking and short, I'd felt somewhat at peace knowing at least I can bare to look at myself in the mirror and cope with being average looking.But ugly and short? Over

Maybe that's just me.
 
It's like a starving yemeni kid saying I'm proud to be poor and have no food. Neither of us chose to be an incel man, we were forced into being one
 
I'm mainly disappointed that I'm ugly, more than anything. Because when you're severely ugly, everything feels like a loss. At least 4-5/10 men can look at themselves and think they're ok. But I can't even bare myself to often stare back in the mirror. At least if I were good looking or average looking and short, I'd felt somewhat at peace knowing at least I can bare to look at myself in the mirror and cope with being average looking.But ugly and short? Over

Maybe that's just me.
Yeah I get what you mean bro. Life is basically RNG and we got fucked pretty badly :feelsbadman:
 
In a weird way yes. I’m kinda glad I’m not alone brother
 
It's better to be an Incel than a Bluepilled goycattle Normie
 
I mean, at the very least you get know how the real world works through the Blackpill, but knowing that you are locked out of so many things due to your ugliness does suck the fun out of life.
Being incel is a curse but also a blessing at the same time
 
It's like a starving yemeni kid saying I'm proud to be poor and have no food. Neither of us chose to be an incel man, we were forced into being one
 
"proud" is not the right word, methinks
 
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why would you be proud of being too ugly to get sex?
To some degree, I think a large point of 'pride' that comes from being a black-pilled incel is that you're not a simp or a cuck—and that you escaped the horrendous fate of said people.
 
To some degree, I think a large point of 'pride' that comes from being a black-pilled incel is that you're not a simp or a cuck—and that you escaped the horrendous fate of said people.
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I knew subconciously that I would be an incel since the first times I got bullied.
 
Being an Incel has shaped my identity in ways I could have never imagined before knowing I would have this issue in life. I never imagined as a kid that I would grow up to be an Incel, not only in technicality, but in essence too.

People might say "how can you be proud of being involuntarily celibate"? I'd say it's the same as being proud to be working class. It's better to be bourgoise, but people are still proud of their identities.
INB4 you're accused of being a fakecel for being proud of anything.
 
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proud to be a genetic failure? nah. but cope is cope and if it works, it works.
 
To some degree, I think a large point of 'pride' that comes from being a black-pilled incel is that you're not a simp or a cuck—and that you escaped the horrendous fate of said people.
I agree, this is what I meant. It's not that i can't have sex, it's that I've found a perfect subculture and ideology to understand why.
 
I think you’re confusing embracing with being proud, it requires mental gymnastics beyond Buddha himself to be proud of such a thing
 
Bro is just fakecel
 

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