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Blackpill I’m not seen as a real man by society. I have given up on myself.

Moggedbyeveryone

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My masculinity is a joke. I have never been respected or been seen in a way that others consider to be a real man. I am not a real man because of my looks. I’m not tall and dominant, nor do I have any androgenic facial qualities. I have no hope of ever having friends, much less a wife. I’ll die alone.
 
They will tell you this is the fault of the patriarchy. When in reality it's modern soyciety and women that put impossible standards on you - standards of worldy behavior, financial success, male beautification and post-communitarian (therefore post-patriarchal) inter-competitiveness. Patriarchy is such a convenient scapegoat; feminist rhetoric blames you for opposing the same thing that is killing you.
 
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They will tell you this is the fault of the patriarchy. When in reality it's modern soyciety and women that put impossible standards on you - standards of worldy behavior, financial success, male beautification and post-communitarian (therefore post-patriarchal) inter-competitiveness. Patriarchy is such a convenient scapegoat, because it blames you for opposing the same thing that is killing you.
I think it has a lot to do with how women want to be treated and how they act. They're just attracted to a certain kind of man, and I don't have the qualities they like. I’m just not good enough for them. I’m not handsome, tall, and I’m not a confident, outgoing guy. That's just reality.
 
I think it has a lot to do with how women want to be treated and how they act. They're just attracted to a certain kind of man, and I don't have the qualities they like. I’m just not good enough for them. I’m not handsome, tall, and I’m not a confident, outgoing guy. That's just reality.
The qualities they demand are tied to their unbridled hypergamy and social ascension all while an indivudalistic society, male hostile discourse and degenerate medias act as mediators between you and them. This is post-patriarchal hell.
 
Tried to be a man my whole life ,worked out , played contact sports, tried to be extraverted it doesn't change shit it's all about your face
 
The qualities they demand are tied to their unbridled hypergamy and social ascension all while an indivudalistic society, male hostile discourse and degenerate medias act as mediators between you and them. This is post-patriarchal hell.
This is true. Society is more individualistic than ever, and men and women don't really depend much on one another like they used to. That's what makes everything worse. Men and women don't really need each other anymore, so women are picky and they only look for certain men. Women are picking the top 1% of men, and the average guy is left with nothing. It's really not fair. Women have more power in dating, and that's just wrong. They are the ultimate gatekeepers of sex.
 
This is true. Society is more individualistic than ever, and men and women don't really depend much on one another like they used to. That's what makes everything worse. Men and women don't really need each other anymore, so women are picky and they only look for certain men. Women are picking the top 1% of men, and the average guy is left with nothing. It's really not fair. Women have more power in dating, and that's just wrong. They are the ultimate gatekeepers of sex.
:yes::yes::yes: But they will tell us that feeling emasculated and washed out in that situation is a symptom of our patriarchal wiring lmao. If anything, it's the complete opposite as those circumstances are antitheical to a patriarchy. Anyway i didn't want to shit up your thread with this. It's just that a man being vulnerable with his masculinity immediately invokes MUH PATRIARCHY and TOXIC MASCULINITY in msm normtards and feminists brains. I wanted to piss off potential lurkers by shitting on their grotesque opinions
 
My masculinity is a joke. I have never been respected or been seen in a way that others consider to be a real man. I am not a real man because of my looks. I’m not tall and dominant, nor do I have any androgenic facial qualities. I have no hope of ever having friends, much less a wife. I’ll die alone.
True, you're a self-pitying weakling. No man respects you for that.
You don't even respect yourself.

Now, of course, you can say that's just normie talk, but that's exactly what those around you perceive. However, you can also develop a fighting spirit.
That would at least have some balls. But I'll probably read a thread from you soon where you dream about roping.
 
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True, you're a self-pitying weakling. No man respects you for that.
You don't even respect yourself.

Now, of course, you can say that's just normie talk, but that's exactly what those around you perceive. However, you can also develop a fighting spirit.
That would at least have some balls. But I'll probably read a thread from you soon where you dream about roping.
I don't have a fighting spirit. I wish I had, but I never did. I never had a girlfriend, love, sex, nothing. My life has been just one disappointment after another. I never had a chance to develop a fighting spirit. How could I have a fighting spirit if other men have girlfriends and love while I’m all alone? I can't just become something I’m not. I don't know how to develop a "fighting spirit.”
 
True, you're a self-pitying weakling. No man respects you for that.
You don't even respect yourself.

Now, of course, you can say that's just normie talk, but that's exactly what those around you perceive. However, you can also develop a fighting spirit.
That would at least have some balls. But I'll probably read a thread from you soon where you dream about roping.
You are right, tho. I need to try and change things. I just don't know where, or how, to begin. I've been miserable for so long that even trying seems hopeless.
 
You are right, tho. I need to try and change things. I just don't know where, or how, to begin. I've been miserable for so long that even trying seems hopeless.
Hang in there. In a way, though, you are strong. We go through hell, more or less, every day, and yet we're still here, after all these years. Normies and foids wouldn't have this strength.
Remember that.
After my harsh words, I have to build you up again. :feelsokman:
 
I don't have a fighting spirit. I wish I had, but I never did. I never had a girlfriend, love, sex, nothing. My life has been just one disappointment after another. I never had a chance to develop a fighting spirit. How could I have a fighting spirit if other men have girlfriends and love while I’m all alone? I can't just become something I’m not. I don't know how to develop a "fighting spirit.”
Don't be so obsessed with this fact. You're not alone.
Besides, premarital sex is fornication anyway.
 
I dont care what society thinks of me i am an incel sigma
 
After a certain age, it’s too late to make up for it. Maybe not a gf or any kind of relationship like that, but I’d say if you start early, society might see you as a man if you grow in your younger years. Idk probably just cope
 
Society only sees us as men if we have to work or go to war and die for normies and foids.
 
My masculinity is a joke. I have never been respected or been seen in a way that others consider to be a real man. I am not a real man because of my looks. I’m not tall and dominant, nor do I have any androgenic facial qualities. I have no hope of ever having friends, much less a wife. I’ll die alone.

Screw wives. Find homeless teen to 'shelter'
 

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