well the thing is simple
there is a social and evolutive competition for social respect and sexual validation
preferences exist,thats truth but they arent distributed in a homogenius way so in any place you have the same chances of finding someone that can like you
prefrerences depend of culture,history,social conditions and demographic distribution
for example chinesse and japan have some special fetish for pale skin and tiny delicated feets
if you are a girl with this traits born in those countrys ,get partner would be more easy for you
but if you wasnt born in those countrys,then this traits can become a weigth
incels live in countrys and cultures when their traits are something disgusting for public opinion,add to that our lack of social skills (being their fault or not), looks/health problems and live condition problems (dirty,poor,violent etc)
incels are the ones that had lose the social and evolutive competition for sex and love in their enviroments and unless their enviroment and them change,is almost imposible to get laid
as long there is something like ''win'' there will be always losers
if you like this kind of guys ,well fine for you
but for every girl like you there is thousands of ones that will reject us,and even if we managed to meet girls like you we will have to compete beetwen ourselves to get tham
repeating the same shit just than in a minor scale