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JFL I'm a failed normie, worse than an incel

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I am now an incel due to aging, balding and mental problems, but back when I was young I was a low tier normie. This was before the internet became popular and smartphones were a thing. I had many opportunities to get a girlfriend, but I failed every one of them. This makes me worse than an incel, because at least you guys can rightfully blame your genetics, I have no such excuse.

My story begins in middle school which was when I was bullied pretty badly. During this time I had a crush on a pretty girl. One day I get a note passed to me in which this girl said she liked me. But it turns out it was only a joke, and she conspired with my main bully to bully me. The bully gave her money to send that note. I was humiliated and crushed. This absolutely destroyed my self-esteem and trust in females, especially young girls. This will be relevant later.

Fast forward to high school, I became friends with a Chad who enjoyed PC gaming and a Brazilian Chad. My main bully also moved away. This lead to my social value going up to the point where I wasn't ruthlessly bullied anymore. I was still teased and was low on the social hierarchy, but not on the bottom anymore.

I started to get some attention from high school females but I was still emotionally scarred by that one girl in middle school so I didn't trust that this interest was genuine. In my own eyes I was still that bullied loser kid. I was paranoid that they were just joking or something like that and scared of being hurt again. Also my social skills were crap as I had never interacted with females. So even though they were interested in me I had no idea what to do with that interest. Here is where having game would come in handy. Pickup stuff is only useful if you are even moderately attractive, before smartphones were a thing, now it's useless as the looks barrier is so high.

Basically I had a handful of females interested in me in high school and college, but I was too traumatized and socially awkward to do anything with that interest. Back then average looks was enough to get you in the door, but you also needed social skills to do anything with what your looks give you.

I dropped out of college and have been at home alone rotting for years. I did escortcel for a few years, but stopped doing that, it's not worth it but I still fap to those memories as the escorts were pretty girls.

My life here on earth is basically over. I'm an example of what not to do in life. I had every opportunity and still failed.

TL;DR Bullying destroyed my self-esteem and trust in young girls. Bully moved away and got Chad friends. Social value went up, girls began to be interested but I didn't trust them and my social skills were crap. Never got a real girlfriend in high school or college. Dropped out and have been on and off rotting ever since. I'm a failed normie who had opportunities but failed.

EDIT; FULL DISCLOSURE: I did have sex with one girl in 2009. So I guess I succeeded with her.
 
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I'd rather be a failed normie ngl
 
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Failed normie/mentalcel/autism cel (whether you're diagnosed or not) - you ARE a valid incel here, despite what retards might say.

And yes I totally agree it is potentially incredibly beneficial for a young mentalcel to learn game. Game can help Just Be First succeed realistically, which is basically the best way for non-chads to escape inceldom.
Again, retards here may throw a shit fit at this statement, just try to ignore them
 
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Game can help Just Be First succeed realistically, which is basically the best way for non-chads to escape inceldom.
The theory that mogs all other theories :blackpill:
 
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its ok dude. Middle school aged foids are some of the most evil. It's not till they're 25 and used that they realized how pathetic their life was. You are welcome here brocel.
 
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I'm not saying you're not incel now. But it's cruel of you to come here with "You guys are used to having shitty lives! I was beautiful! So I deserve to have a good life! That's why it's worse being a failed normie because I know what I'm missing out on."
 
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At least as a failed normie you've had social experiences and have some positive memories.

I don't even feel like i've lived. I don't feel like i've ever been alive. I don't remember anything about my life except some bad moments

That aside if you're balding hard and getting old you're certainly an incel NOW, even if you weren't exactly before.
 
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Give this guy a pass bro cels, give duke a pass
 
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Nah you were always an incel
 
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Nah you were always an incel
he literally admitted he had a gf and had sex
this isn't the place for him, maybe mgtow or some cuckpill (redpill) forums is the right place for him.
@nice_try your thread is getting accurate by the day... :feelsclown:
WELCOME TO SEXHAVERS.IS
 
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he literally admitted he had a gf and had sex
this isn't the place for him, maybe mgtow or some cuckpill (redpill) forums is the right place for him.
I had sex but no gf, she moved to another country.
 
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Nah you were always an incel
Curious. Say a guy came on here and was like, "Brocels I was banging hot Stacies when I was young but now I'm incel AF" would you also say to him "nah you were always an incel"?
 
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he literally admitted he had a gf and had sex
this isn't the place for him, maybe mgtow or some cuckpill (redpill) forums is the right place for him.
@nice_try your thread is getting accurate by the day... :feelsclown:
WELCOME TO SEXHAVERS.IS
Agreed.
 
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Curious. Say a guy came on here and was like, "Brocels I was banging hot Stacies when I was young but now I'm incel AF" would you also say to him "nah you were always an incel"?
yeah it's chads.is/sexhavers.is now, get used to it
 
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Curious. Say a guy came on here and was like, "Brocels I was banging hot Stacies when I was young but now I'm incel AF" would you also say to him "nah you were always an incel"?
In these days the only sex I can get is escorts, but I am Christian so I don't want to do that anymore.
he literally admitted he had a gf and had sex
this isn't the place for him, maybe mgtow or some cuckpill (redpill) forums is the right place for him.
@nice_try your thread is getting accurate by the day... :feelsclown:
WELCOME TO SEXHAVERS.IS
I understand. MGTOW is cope, cuckpill is cope and rejected by incels (JFL). I am not wanted anywhere.
 
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Basically I had a handful of females interested in me in high school and college, but I was too traumatized and socially awkward to do anything with that interest. Back then average looks was enough to get you in the door, but you also needed social skills to do anything with what your looks give you.

Do not worry. Only intercourse disqualifies you from this site; I had slight sexual tension with my half-cousin in the past, due to our shared history of GI problems and mental illness. That person has enjoyed many boyfriends while I've rotted.
 
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Don't answer bro, don't answer that question, you're under no obligation

Consider me your incel representative
 
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Don't answer bro, don't answer that question, you're under no obligation

Consider me your incel representative
:feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
 
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Basically as I said in my OP I was a low tier normie during my youth. Now due to the age pill and mentalcel disabilities, I am as unlikely to have unpaid sex as anyone else here.

But if I am not welcome that's fine. Are there any blackpilled forums that welcome failed normies? MGTOW is cope, redpill is cope, I won't go to those places.
 
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he literally admitted he had a gf and had sex
this isn't the place for him, maybe mgtow or some cuckpill (redpill) forums is the right place for him.
@nice_try your thread is getting accurate by the day... :feelsclown:
WELCOME TO SEXHAVERS.IS
Wait he did?
I didn't even see that part jfl at me being retarded
Curious. Say a guy came on here and was like, "Brocels I was banging hot Stacies when I was young but now I'm incel AF" would you also say to him "nah you were always an incel"?
Didn't see the part where he admitted to having sex
I don't fucking read dude
Cut me a break I was at the gym :feelskek:


Oh nvm he added an edit.. KEK at me
 
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So sad seeing guys that blew all their chances and are now wizards rotting here
 
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So sad seeing guys that blew all their chances and are now wizards rotting here

"Forbidden Love" - (Partial Disclosure)

She called me "Best Friend" and sat in my bed all day listening to love songs. We walked to a gas station together holding hands.
 
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"Forbidden Love" - (Partial Disclosure)

She called me "Best Friend" and sat in my bed all day listening to love songs. We walked to a gas station together holding hands.
Every day that thought must be in your head. Wishing you could go back in time and do it differently
 
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Every day that thought must be in your head. Wishing you could go back in time and do it differently

No. Only S.R.B and group therapy youth permeate my thoughts.

I relinquished most of my history to focus on the significant bits.
 
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Dont care didnt ask this isnt a life blog forum for non-incels retard get the fuck out
 
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I was Also not that Bad looking when i was not balding, at least i could see myself in the mirror and not cringe. Nowadays i just evade the mirrors like the plague
 
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I am now an incel due to aging, balding and mental problems, but back when I was young I was a low tier normie. This was before the internet became popular and smartphones were a thing. I had many opportunities to get a girlfriend, but I failed every one of them. This makes me worse than an incel, because at least you guys can rightfully blame your genetics, I have no such excuse.

My story begins in middle school which was when I was bullied pretty badly. During this time I had a crush on a pretty girl. One day I get a note passed to me in which this girl said she liked me. But it turns out it was only a joke, and she conspired with my main bully to bully me. The bully gave her money to send that note. I was humiliated and crushed. This absolutely destroyed my self-esteem and trust in females, especially young girls. This will be relevant later.

Fast forward to high school, I became friends with a Chad who enjoyed PC gaming and a Brazilian Chad. My main bully also moved away. This lead to my social value going up to the point where I wasn't ruthlessly bullied anymore. I was still teased and was low on the social hierarchy, but not on the bottom anymore.

I started to get some attention from high school females but I was still emotionally scarred by that one girl in middle school so I didn't trust that this interest was genuine. In my own eyes I was still that bullied loser kid. I was paranoid that they were just joking or something like that and scared of being hurt again. Also my social skills were crap as I had never interacted with females. So even though they were interested in me I had no idea what to do with that interest. Here is where having game would come in handy. Pickup stuff is only useful if you are even moderately attractive, before smartphones were a thing, now it's useless as the looks barrier is so high.

Basically I had a handful of females interested in me in high school and college, but I was too traumatized and socially awkward to do anything with that interest. Back then average looks was enough to get you in the door, but you also needed social skills to do anything with what your looks give you.

I dropped out of college and have been at home alone rotting for years. I did escortcel for a few years, but stopped doing that, it's not worth it but I still fap to those memories as the escorts were pretty girls.

My life here on earth is basically over. I'm an example of what not to do in life. I had every opportunity and still failed.

TL;DR Bullying destroyed my self-esteem and trust in young girls. Bully moved away and got Chad friends. Social value went up, girls began to be interested but I didn't trust them and my social skills were crap. Never got a real girlfriend in high school or college. Dropped out and have been on and off rotting ever since. I'm a failed normie who had opportunities but failed.

EDIT; FULL DISCLOSURE: I did have sex with one girl in 2009. So I guess I succeeded with her.
I'm not seeing any failure.

Hell, you said you were LOW tier normie.

So, you had to perform like a race horse just to catch a tiny break.

Fuck that
 
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Fuck off greynigger
 
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he literally admitted he had a gf and had sex
this isn't the place for him, maybe mgtow or some cuckpill (redpill) forums is the right place for him.
MSTOWcel tbh :banhammer:
 
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Discovering blackpill as a low tier normie is fking pain.Its forces you to a path where you don't want to give up and keep trying or just lay down and rot.Every time you try to build up courage that there is hope,that hope gets instantly crushed.Its just constant cycle of misery:fuk:
 
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@Iranianoldcel interesting opinion, I hope you voted to allow me to stay on this forum :yes:
 
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@Iranianoldcel interesting opinion, I hope you voted to allow me to stay on this forum :yes:
Wtf r u talking about? What voting?
 
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Nah you were always an incel
yeah, it honestly seems that way to me

I guess the question is how much stock do we put into weighting the window of ascension part.

The way I’m reading this, he was an incel for basically forever (in denial), ascended briefly (probably with a land whale if I’m guessing), then went back to being incel immediately after for the rest of his life.

We can debate whether that counts, but he’s definitely incel now imo.
 
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Curious. Say a guy came on here and was like, "Brocels I was banging hot Stacies when I was young but now I'm incel AF" would you also say to him "nah you were always an incel"?
Of course not but that’s not the scenario they described. If someone is clearly incel for decades, ascends once with a land whale or whore, then immediately goes back to incel for the rest of their life then they’re either incel or right on the border of incel / low tier failed normie imo.
 
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If at first you don’t succeed dust yourself off and try again. Dust yourself and try again My nigga. We’re here for you now rise and TAKE ACTION!
 

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