Discussion I'm a believer in "know thy enemy". Here's a woman from TwoX talking about male vs female loneliness.

[DoomThreeKoala]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1nkynqq/why_is_the_concept_of_a_woman_being_lonely/


In short she says: Female loneliness is caused because men aren't committing to her.
We are "claiming" we are lonely because we don't get sex we want.

Here's my view: We are not a monolith. Plenty of us do want just sex. But, most of us don't want that. If that were the case, escortmaxxing would be more common. I don't want that because it is recognising how much of a loser I am (Same reason I don't fap either).

There was also a reply that got some gears turning in my head. It was about how previously being close to another man (platonically) wasn't really seen as gay, and this is more of a new phenomenon. Women maintained their social structure, meanwhile ours got bulldozed like a black neighbourhood in 1960's America.


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1nkynqq/comment/nf1n3vx/

 

[The Notorious SLAV]

There was also a reply that got some gears turning in my head. It was about how previously being close to another man (platonically) wasn't really seen as gay, and this is more of a new phenomenon. Women maintained their social structure, meanwhile ours got bulldozed like a black neighbourhood in 1960's America.

Dunno. Maybe that's the way it is in America, but in general the "lack of male friendships" is just a talking point meant to make men think that they are the cause of their own problems. "Bros before hoes" is still a thing for a lot of guys, and men growing apart from their friends after getting married was well-known even decades/centuries ago. The simple fact is, friendships alone can never make up for romance and love, people just want ugly men to shut up and blame themselves.

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Most of the women upvoting this have men in their lives who believe that they could rely on them and trust them, be they their brothers, husbands, fathers, or even sons in the saddest cases, meanwhile this is what they actually think about men who have problems and who are unloved.

Fucking brutal.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Dunno. Maybe that's the way it is in America, but in general the "lack of male friendships" is just a talking point meant to make men think that they are the cause of their own problems. "Bros before hoes" is still a thing for a lot of guys, and men growing apart from their friends after getting married was well-known even decades/centuries ago. The simple fact is, friendships alone can never make up for romance and love, people just want ugly men to shut up and blame themselves.

Fair enough.

Most of the women upvoting this have men in their lives who believe that they could rely on them and trust them, be they their brothers, husbands, fathers, or even sons in the saddest cases, meanwhile this is what they actually think about men who have problems and who are unloved.

Fucking brutal.

Exactly.

 

[deleted fren]

How can you read the slop they write? It's nothing but pseudo intellectual word salad slop with no actual basis. They never provide any evidence or sources. All of it exposes how disconnected they are from women. They're incapable of being able to emphasize with men or understand how we think. This whole "male friendships seen as gay" nonsense is rubbish. They're basically claiming this because they can't comprehend that men aren't as emotional as they are. The average man does not want to cry in front of his friends and be hugged. That's incomprehensible for most men.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

How can you read the slop they write? It's nothing but pseudo intellectual word salad slop with no actual basis. They never provide any evidence or sources. All of it exposes how disconnected they are from women. They're incapable of being able to emphasize with men or understand how we think. This whole "male friendships seen as gay" nonsense is rubbish. They're basically claiming this because they can't comprehend that men aren't as emotional as they are. The average man does not want to cry in front of his friends and be hugged. That's incomprehensible for most men.

I have no fucking idea.

 

[sadcelo]

tldr : men are lonely because they are alone, women are lonely because the chad they like doesnt like them back.

Oh look they even gave a name to this https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Humiliationship

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

tldr : men are lonely because they are alone, women are lonely because the chad they like doesnt like them back.

Oh look they even gave a name to this https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Humiliationship

 

[sub5ricemale]

DNR.

Foid lonliness can easily be solved by female circlejerks and dating apps while male lonliness is enforced by removing male spaces.

We can't even have friends anymore

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

DNR.

Foid lonliness can easily be solved by female circlejerks and dating apps while male lonliness is enforced by removing male spaces.

We can't even have friends anymore

No friends for your face