Been seeing like 4 psychiatrists now over 2 months. 3 of them women and 1 guy.
The guy was very professional. He went straight ahead and did not just assessed my situation, asking about relation and all that and very straight forward asked if me being a virgin was troubling my mind, my alcohol, drug use etc He gave it to me straight and said I was not going to see any better mental health for a long time and I might have to live with the fact that just holding on to life is good enough. For some feeling like a loser is life long.
All 3 women however immediately when I talked about how the golden years had passed. I'm 26 on the way to 30. Most guys have fucked around now and in their thirties there should be career and family on your mind. While I talked about how far off all of that was all 3 female psychiatrists I met on three different occasions answered the same. "There is someone for everyone" (there is even studies that all throughout man's history like 8-10% of men were left out, they died in wars and industry). "You have all the best years ahead of you."
No wonder psychiatry is going to shits, the criminology courses are flooded with women who dream of becoming crime authors and now we got generation Grey's anatomy flooding psychiatry
