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RageFuel if youre able to seclude yourself into solitude , you had no meaningful relationships with others to begin with

Arabcel9

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ive basically been in "willing" solitude for nearly 3 years now , and although im still in education and live with my family i have pretty much stayed with myself and have close to minimal interaction with those around me .

as for friends i have none , and although not so long ago i had distanced myself from individuals who might have wanted to form one with me i have burned those bridges,in a subtle manner (im not complaining) the reason being that i have never truly felt connected with anyone , i also feel like dead weight when i am with people so i dont see why i should be a burden for others and thus id rather be alone not to mention that i become the laughing stock wherever i go .

the only individuals who i share some more notable "connections" with have all been online, and knowing that they will never manifest irl i have no hope for them to last .

i cant explain it but ive been really alone for the past 3 years rn (haven't left the house besides for school or groceries ).

i dont mind the solitude nor am i here to complain about >"muh loneliness ", but i feel like a wandering stranger who will leave this world without any marks not that i want to leave any, but it would be nice)

i dont think that 99 percent of people , no foids but maybe some men could handle this solitude of mine .

but with all this free time on my hands , there is one clear benefit: more time for contemplation , and upon further examination of my past self i came to the full realization that i was truly always alone , and that any "connections" i had wit people were as fragile and meaningless like a spiders web .

truth of the matter is that most of you here are close to my place, its just that you don't realize it.

i would be content if i had to live my life all by myself if that is what god has decreed for me , but i wish that i could meet someone who i could have a meaningful friendship with (no females) , i wish that i could have a strong bond with another male , like that of comrades but even that is too much to ask for . and not to forget my parents dont give af about me staying home 24/7 since all they care about is me studymaxxing since "thats all thats important rn and i will be able to catch up with others after that" :society:

the only meaningful thing that i do look forward to is praying my 5 daily prayers as a muslims

tldr; if youre able to seclude yourself from others easily , its because you had no real meaningful relationships to begin with .

My life has amounted to nothing and nor will it amount to anything
 
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Relatable bro :cryfeels:
 
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I've been in solitude for most of my life. Willful solitude started about six years ago.
 
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Same.
After I stopped waging, I went into solitude.
It has been like that for the last 30 years.
I also became a Muslim. Can relate.
 
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Solitude since 2012.
No new people. College sucked as expected. I go from home to job and back. Play xbx. and thats my life.
 
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LeonTheSilent said:
Solitude since 2012.
No new people. College sucked as expected. I go from home to job and back. Play xbx. and thats my life.
damn at least yoiu have a job , my life consists of nothing but studying nowadays
 
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Arabcel9 said:
damn at least yoiu have a job , my life consists of nothing but studying nowadays
Living with parents ?
 
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LeonTheSilent said:
Living with parents ?
yes and i will continue to do so for at least 5-7 years (for my studies)maybe even 10 years lol
 
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I can relate. How old are you?
 
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Arabcel9 said:
late teens/ early 20s :feelsokman:
I'm mid/late 20s. Ive accomplished nothing in life
 
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Zac said:
I'm mid/late 20s. Ive accomplished nothing in life
me too , im the biggest loser
 
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Arabcel9 said:
yes and i will continue to do so for at least 5-7 years (for my studies)maybe even 10 years lol
I see. Sucks to depend on them. But if you can focus on studies it tells me that you have a wealthy life or at least that they dont care about sustaining for a long time. If this is rigth all y have to do is play safe and life will be easy. :feelzez:
 
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I was also in solitude. Then I made a friend. Turned out that friend was toxic and just trying to put me down. Now I'm back to being in solitude and I think I will stay that way. I dont want to deal with people anymore.
 
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LeonTheSilent said:
I see. Sucks to depend on them. But if you can focus on studies it tells me that you have a wealthy life or at least that they dont care about sustaining for a long time. If this is rigth all y have to do is play safe and life will be easy. :feelzez:
lmao im a poorcel , and since im an ethnic they force me very hard to focus on my studies but what drives me mad is that they dont let myself be a little independent (such as having a job)
 
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Arabcel9 said:
lmao im a poorcel , and since im an ethnic they force me very hard to focus on my studies but what drives me mad is that they dont let myself be a little independent (such as having a job)
oh. I see. Maybe they know how hard life is if you're not white. So maybe it is for the best.
 
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LeonTheSilent said:
oh. I see. Maybe they know how hard life is if you're not white. So maybe it is for the best.
JFL its over for ethnics:feelsohh:
 
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Arabcel9 said:
tldr; if youre able to seclude yourself from others easily , its because you had no real meaningful relationships to begin with .

My life has amounted to nothing and nor will it amount to anything
Very relatable
I’m the dark wanderer
 
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