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If you saw me, would you stare at me or laugh about me?

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I'm a 1/10 due to a weird head, strange facial features, dimensions and proportions -- and an overall very unharmonious face (cheeks, jaw, skull, both upper and lower face).

But if you saw me would you try to act normally or stare at me or say something to the person you are with?

I'm asking bc I experience this a lot even with sunglasses and hat on, and it's not very nice. Most people would probably say I'm strongly autistic or have some mental retardation.
 
But if you saw me would you try to act normally or stare at me or say something to the person you are with?
No, I'd just act normally. Never done that to anyone. I like people that look strange. Bullies are the worst thing ever, wouldn't want that upon anyone else.
 
I would scream "Police! Police! I'm being brutally mogged into the 5th dimension"
 
I would just try not to have eye contact cuz I'm always socially anxious.
 
I would take a photo of you then frame you as one of the icons of the saints if you truly are 1/10
 
No I’m too high inhibition and would rather not talk to anyone when I’m out
 
I'm a 1/10 due to a weird head, strange facial features, dimensions and proportions -- and an overall very unharmonious face (cheeks, jaw, skull, both upper and lower face).

But if you saw me would you try to act normally or stare at me or say something to the person you are with?

I'm asking bc I experience this a lot even with sunglasses and hat on, and it's not very nice. Most people would probably say I'm strongly autistic or have some mental retardation.
I'd say under my breath that it is over
And hope you have the strength to persevere through life
 
Nah i wouldn't
No, I'd just act normally. Never done that to anyone. I like people that look strange. Bullies are the worst thing ever, wouldn't want that upon anyone else.


Thanks.
This puts it perfectly- in high school I heard a boy in my class say to someone else - „there’s ‘normal ugly’ … and then there’s him”. I was 17 then.

Many people also can’t tell I’m a man (I had a bad hormonal imbalance in puberty only impacted my face, but every other body part is normal male, penis 6.3” - not great but still not horrible ig not that it matters). I’m autistic and look it
 
I'm a 1/10 due to a weird head, strange facial features, dimensions and proportions -- and an overall very unharmonious face (cheeks, jaw, skull, both upper and lower face).

But if you saw me would you try to act normally or stare at me or say something to the person you are with?

I'm asking bc I experience this a lot even with sunglasses and hat on, and it's not very nice. Most people would probably say I'm strongly autistic or have some mental retardation.
Maybe I'll offer you something to drink. Then there'll be based foid hate.
 
Unless I catch someone looking at me, I don't tend to look at others. When I'm outside my mind is constantly on the defensive, so I get to wherever I need to go as quick as possible, ignoring everything around me (as much as I can anyways).

If I did end up seeing you, or anyone really I always have the same dead stare facial expression. Like you, I know what it's like to have others react negatively to your existence, so I wouldn't do it to others.
 
I'm a 1/10 due to a weird head, strange facial features, dimensions and proportions -- and an overall very unharmonious face (cheeks, jaw, skull, both upper and lower face).

But if you saw me would you try to act normally or stare at me or say something to the person you are with?

I'm asking bc I experience this a lot even with sunglasses and hat on, and it's not very nice. Most people would probably say I'm strongly autistic or have some mental retardation.
No
 
No, that's very rude. Anyone who treats you like that needs to take a refresher course in etiquette.
 
Unless I catch someone looking at me, I don't tend to look at others. When I'm outside my mind is constantly on the defensive, so I get to wherever I need to go as quick as possible, ignoring everything around me (as much as I can anyways).

If I did end up seeing you, or anyone really I always have the same dead stare facial expression.
:feelsbadman:

Like you, I know what it's like to have others react negatively to your existence,
Sorry man :(

so I wouldn't do it to others.
thanks
 
No, that's very rude. Anyone who treats you like that needs to take a refresher course in etiquette.
That would be like 98% of humans. I know I look strange - deformed and not masculine at all but yeah but pls just ignore me. I can’t even do anything, if I do I’ll get into trouble
I’m only 5’4 too
 
Maybe I'll offer you something to drink. Then there'll be based foid hate.
Thanks but you wouldn't make fun of me? I look geistig behindert (not Downey though), because of my facial features (don’t have certain facial bones and bad proportions) people think I am behindert, „sehr hässlich” and/or not a man (I have missing facial bones/no edges but every other body part and my voice is normal though so I don’t get this fuck up)
 
Thanks but you wouldn't make fun of me? I look geistig behindert (not Downey though), because of my facial features (don’t have certain facial bones and bad proportions) people think I am behindert, „sehr hässlich” and/or not a man (I have missing facial bones/no edges but every other body part and my voice is normal though so I don’t get this fuck up)
No, I don't do that. Because I'm not a brain-dead normie. I do ask questions, but only after we get to know each other better.
I don't know how bad it actually is for you, but I've had to deal with some—let's call them—unusual people in my life. I've always treated them completely normally, like everyone else. Sometimes I've even stood up for them and threatened to beat up anybody who makes fun of them. For example, there was this short guy with a speech impediment who you would have thought was disabled, partly because of his appearance. He was sometimes mocked, and I would intervene. After three beers, that was okay. Otherwise, my social anxiety was too strong.
 
No, I don't do that. Because I'm not a brain-dead normie. I do ask questions, but only after we get to know each other better.
I don't know how bad it actually is for you, but I've had to deal with some—let's call them—unusual people in my life. I've always treated them completely normally, like everyone else. Sometimes I've even stood up for them and threatened to beat up anybody who makes fun of them. For example, there was this short guy with a speech impediment who you would have thought was disabled, partly because of his appearance. He was sometimes mocked, and I would intervene. After three beers, that was okay. Otherwise, my social anxiety was too strong.
:feelsYall: based
 
No i wouldn't stare or laugh
Thanks man, people think I'm either disabled, "ugly af" or they can't tell I'm a man - I have very small amount of facial bones and a balloon head. Face makes a C curve. so I appreciate when people don't stare
 
Yes, as a 3.5-4/10 with man boobs, overweight, speech problems until age 20, bad eyesight, social anxiety, alcohol problems, and partial paranoia and some other things like an ugly face/deformed nose, I can't stand it when normies bully someone like us. I was bullied at school for my looks, too.

My only advantage is that I'm not short and can now defend myself.
 
Yes, as a 3.5-4/10 with man boobs, overweight, speech problems until age 20, bad eyesight, social anxiety, alcohol problems, and partial paranoia and some other things like an ugly face/deformed nose, I can't stand it when normies bully someone like us. I was bullied at school for my looks, too.
I see, thanks for explaining man, these lives are brutal. I know your situation is shit too.

I'm 1.62m but I couldn't get a gf if I were 1.95m I think.

My only advantage is that I'm not short and can now defend myself.
Good, that's something at least. I am starting to work out now just for the sake of it. I know you're a bit older than me, I'm 28 but I want to have lots of muscles by 30.
 
send me your face in dm
nah sorry, I made that mistake 6 years ago when I sent it to someone on a discord server, they spread it to other users (they blackmailed me too). So no offence, I'm not saying you'll do that but I'm not sending it to anyone anymore, doxxing risk even if small.

but imagine a balloon head with a almost boneless face and strong jaw. My face curves, as one side grew more than the other, people either think I'm not a man, the "ugliest person I've ever seen", or "how tf does he look like"
 
nah sorry, I made that mistake 6 years ago when I sent it to someone on a discord server, they spread it to other users (they blackmailed me too). So no offence, I'm not saying you'll do that but I'm not sending it to anyone anymore, doxxing risk even if small.

but imagine a balloon head with a almost boneless face and strong jaw. My face curves, as one side grew more than the other, people either think I'm not a man, the "ugliest person I've ever seen", or "how tf does he look like"
I see what you mean. I've sent my face to people here but I don't give a fuck if they send it to anyone because I've got nothing to lose anyway.
 
I would give you $20 because with a 1/10 face, you have it harder than a homeless man.
 
I see, thanks for explaining man, these lives are brutal. I know your situation is shit too.

I'm 1.62m but I couldn't get a gf if I were 1.95m I think.
I forgot to mention that I still suffer from hypersensitivity. Or at least have strong tendencies toward it. Too many sensory impressions at once overwhelm me.
Yes, I'm about 1.85 m, so about average height for a modern German. Maybe a little over that. Many sandniggers, for example, are noticeably shorter than me.
Unfortunately, that doesn't help me because of my other attributes. The most I could do is ogremaxx, but Foids are disgusted by me. I think a Chadlite and his girlfriend laughed at me earlier today. I'm sure the giggles were directed at me.

Good, that's something at least. I am starting to work out now just for the sake of it. I know you're a bit older than me, I'm 28 but I want to have lots of muscles by 30.
Yes, I wish you much success in your endeavor!
That's right, I'm in my mid-30s.
 
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usually when I see a very ugly guy I try to act as empathetic and kind as possible, because I know there's a chance he may be a user here.
 
Unless I catch someone looking at me, I don't tend to look at others. When I'm outside my mind is constantly on the defensive, so I get to wherever I need to go as quick as possible, ignoring everything around me (as much as I can anyways).

If I did end up seeing you, or anyone really I always have the same dead stare facial expression. Like you, I know what it's like to have others react negatively to your existence, so I wouldn't do it to others.
Same
 
Hand you yer change and say, "have a nice day Sir."
 
Wouldn't care at all doesn't bother me in any way
usually when I see a very ugly guy I try to act as empathetic and kind as possible, because I know there's a chance he may be a user here.
Thanks! Appreciate when that 2% of people don’t stare.

Just for more context I have balloon head and c curved face. Also bc I have no sharp edges/very little facial bones but downward growth of rounded jaw, people often call me “miss”, I immediately feel sad. I have stubble growth and don’t even have long hair you fuckers

Everything else except my height is normal, I have no testosterone deficiency and 6.3 inches, but I’m only 5’4 short (also a mystery, should have been 6’1” bc of my parents).

I have several health conditions but my looks are a mystery even to the doctors. Implied in my medical reports
 
I’d shoot you with a flare gun
 
I forgot to mention that I still suffer from hypersensitivity. Or at least have strong tendencies toward it. Too many sensory impressions at once overwhelm me.
Yes, I'm about 1.85 m, so about average height for a modern German. Maybe a little over that. Many sandniggers, for example, are noticeably shorter than me.
Unfortunately, that doesn't help me because of my other attributes. The most I could do is ogremaxx, but Foids are disgusted by me. I think a Chadlite and his girlfriend laughed at me earlier today. I'm sure the giggles were directed at me.
Relatable

Yes, I wish you much success in your endeavor!
That's right, I'm in my mid-30s.
Thanks!
 
I’d shoot you with a flare gun

Season 17 Laughing GIF by The Simpsons

homer simpson rod flanders GIF
 
I would give you $20 because with a 1/10 face, you have it harder than a homeless man.
Thanks, not many people have this empathy

Just for more context I have balloon head and c curved face.
Also bc I have no sharp edges/very little facial bones but downward growth of rounded jaw, strangers often call me “ma’am” (not ironically), overhear “monster”, or they tell the other person “probably he’s mentally retarded” (these are total strangers, didn’t hear me speak). stupid fuckers and stupid life

Everything else except my height is normal, I have no testosterone deficiency, I have deep voice but only 6.3 inches, but I’m only 5’4 short (also a mystery, should have been 6’1” bc of my parents)

So I’m always glad for respect even if it’s rare.
 

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