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You can't have a career, can't have friends, can't be respected by your fellow men, can't be uncreepyzoned at work, can't get promotions, can't get nothing.

Especially being a man 30+, when all your peers are married with kids, and you being foidless, is Total Social Death (TSD).

People will be literally removing their kids in the park from your viccinity. Will be like walking around with a thick, dark, stigmatising aura.

Foids are literally the effin gatekeepers of all social relationships and approval. Especially in 2026, forget any form of social acceptance as a foidless truecel moiden. (combination of moid and maiden).
 
Sounds brutal bro.
Thankfully I will always have my tulpa, so I don't have to worry about that.
@cathuluelitist
 
you can have all of those without being in a relationship, how would being in a relationship keep you from having friends or being promoted for example? It’s usually the total opposite, men who are in relationship are less likely to keep their friendships or get promoted as they dedicate less time to those things and focus more on their family.
 
Sounds brutal bro.
Thankfully I will always have my tulpa, so I don't have to worry about that.
@cathuluelitist
it is. can't even get in proper restaurants and venues if not accompanied by a foid. foids are the ultimate status symbols in soyciety.
 
you can have all of those without being in a relationship, how would being in a relationship keep you from having friends or being promoted for example? It’s usually the total opposite, men who are in relationship are less likely to keep their friendships or get promoted as they dedicate less time to those things and focus more on their family.
if you are hella NT and kinda handsome maybe. my life experience taught me that only negative things come from foidlessness, both mentally and in confidence for you, and in how much society respects you... .
 
They will think you are a paedo creep by default
 
They will think you are a paedo creep by default
yup. nothing good comes socially by being a foidless adult. unlesss if divorced with kids, where society is more understanding... .
 
Many of the things you just mentioned you can attain despite being an Incel. The problem is that Inceldom isn't just the incapability to form romantic relationships but goes beyond that - lookism extends to larger societal structures, which is why many of us are not only loveless but incompatible subjects to society.

Inceldom with the aspect of lookism correlates with direct rejection from work places, possible friends, social life etc. It is not a causal effect though. Some here have a job and maybe a friend or two.
 
Many of the things you just mentioned you can attain despite being an Incel. The problem is that Inceldom isn't just the incapability to form romantic relationships but goes beyond that - lookism extends to larger societal structures, which is why many of us are not only loveless but incompatible subjects to society.

Inceldom with the aspect of lookism correlates with direct rejection from work places, possible friends, social life etc. It is not a causal effect though. Some here have a job and maybe a friend or two.
being a dweeb with a couple fellow dweeb friends, isnt much further from the TSD that we talked about... .
 
It's brutal. After my teens, it's gotten to the point where being sexless is not the biggest problem with being an incel. I am a social reject cut out from ever living a respectable life.

you can have all of those without being in a relationship, how would being in a relationship keep you from having friends or being promoted for example?
It's 100000 times harder. To gave these things you need to not be a social outcast, and if you aren't a social outcast you can get foids. Foidlessness is not the cause, but a consequence of being cut out, but then it also becomes a cause, because you lack the basic connections and motivation required to gain anything in life.

It’s usually the total opposite, men who are in relationship are less likely to keep their friendships or get promoted as they dedicate less time to those things and focus more on their family.
No, it's the opposite. Men who can get relationships are more likely to succeed in life. There are almost no incels who became successful, as an incel you're pushed to rotting your life away, way worse than having to dedicate time to family and girlfriends. It's like saying that people with food live worse lives because they have to sacrifice more time to eat.
 
It's brutal. After my teens, it's gotten to the point where being sexless is not the biggest problem with being an incel. I am a social reject cut out from ever living a respectable life.
THis man gets it. Yes, its 10.000 times harder having any sort of normalcy in your life. Even sex as the body withers from age, becomes the lesser priority evil from all the lacks that foids Do Not bestow in your truecel life with their absence... .
 
It's brutal. After my teens, it's gotten to the point where being sexless is not the biggest problem with being an incel. I am a social reject cut out from ever living a respectable life.


It's 100000 times harder. To gave these things you need to not be a social outcast, and if you aren't a social outcast you can get foids. Foidlessness is not the cause, but a consequence of being cut out, but then it also becomes a cause, because you lack the basic connections and motivation required to gain anything in life.


No, it's the opposite. Men who can get relationships are more likely to succeed in life. There are almost no incels who became successful, as an incel you're pushed to rotting your life away, way worse than having to dedicate time to family and girlfriends. It's like saying that people with food live worse lives because they have to sacrifice more time to eat.
high IQ nigga
 
Trvth nuke, whole world runs on validation by others
 
It's 100000 times harder. To gave these things you need to not be a social outcast, and if you aren't a social outcast you can get foids. Foidlessness is not the cause, but a consequence of being cut out, but then it also becomes a cause, because you lack the basic connections and motivation required to gain anything in life.
being incel doesn’t mean necessarily that you’re a social outcast. That’s a result of bad social skills. You can have a social life and still be incel because youre ugly. I legitimately saw a dude that was 5’3, EXTREMELY autistic, face full of acne and he looked like he had down syndrome and he still had a social circle. A lot of you blame your looks for being outcasts without taking a look with how you interact with others irl. What you say would only be true for people who are sub 3 which is a very small number. There are some users who are extremely unconventionally attractive to the point it would impact their social relationships but this doesn’t apply to 90% of the forum.
No, it's the opposite. Men who can get relationships are more likely to succeed in life. There are almost no incels who became successful, as an incel you're pushed to rotting your life away, way worse than having to dedicate time to family and girlfriends. It's like saying that people with food live worse lives because they have to sacrifice more time to eat.
if you decide to rot your life away because you’re incel then that’s a you problem… Idk why you’re acting like everyone is gonna react the same way to their circumstances. If you don’t wanna do anything with your life then that’s YOU.
 
Trvth nuke, whole world runs on validation by others
if no one validates you, you have no job, no friends, no money, no gf, probably not even a house lmao.
 
being incel doesn’t mean necessarily that you’re a social outcast. That’s a result of bad social skills. You can have a social life and still be incel because youre ugly. I legitimately saw a dude that was 5’3, EXTREMELY autistic, face full of acne and he looked like he had down syndrome and he still had a social circle. A lot of you blame your looks for being outcasts without taking a look with how you interact with others irl. What you say would only be true for people who are sub 3 which is a very small number. There are some users who are extremely unconventionally attractive to the point it would impact their social relationships but this doesn’t apply to 90% of the forum.
Do you know anything about his social role then? is he the clown that gets made fun off? Is he being used while gaining nothing in return? You are jumping too quickly to conclusions, even though I agree that we should try to avoid making our life's even worse.
 
No, it's the opposite. Men who can get relationships are more likely to succeed in life. There are almost no incels who became successful, as an incel you're pushed to rotting your life away, way worse than having to dedicate time to family and girlfriends. It's like saying that people with food live worse lives because they have to sacrifice more time to eat.
exactly. no successful man is a truecel, spergcel, creep, or any type of loser. it was the jock of the football team from highschool that became the CEO.... .
 
Trvth nuke, whole world runs on validation by others
yup. only real ones and highIQers get it. foid validation is literal lottery. and it also unlocks the validation of high value men that can push your status and career forward etc... .
 
if no one validates you, you have no job, no friends, no money, no gf, probably not even a house lmao.
who has a house in this economy lol? most of us rent. especially on a truecel basic income.... .
 
Do you know anything about his social role then? is he the clown that gets made fun off? Is he being used while gaining nothing in return? You are jumping too quickly to conclusions, even though I agree that we should try to avoid making our life's even worse.
his friends are also autists and incel. He isn’t getting clowned or made fun of. I knew the dude for 3 years .You can befriend people that are in the same situation as you and who are also like minded. If you have absolutely 0 friends then it’s either due to not trying or being unpleasant to be around.
 
who has a house in this economy lol? most of us rent. especially on a truecel basic income.... .
true but my point is clear IG. Truecels like heed and succeed became homeless without anyone helping them out. That is the path of the truecel, and no one will come to save you
 
his friends are also autists and incel. He isn’t getting clowned or made fun of. I knew the dude for 3 years .You can befriend people that are in the same situation as you and who are also like minded. If you have absolutely 0 friends then it’s either due to not trying or being unpleasant to be around.
All the autists I was friends with were selfish and I always had to initiate myself.
 
if no one validates you, you have no job, no friends, no money, no gf, probably not even a house lmao.
This shit is so paradoxical that chads that cheat on multiple foids is seen as high value
 
This shit is so paradoxical that chads that cheat on multiple foids is seen as high value
He gets validation cause attractive, and many doors open for him. It's all about status, money, and looks in this world. Nothing else matters
 
All the autists I was friends with were selfish and I always had to initiate myself.
facts. plus they arent fun to be around and can do nothing to boost your status and money (coming from a truecel autist myself)... .
 
facts. plus they arent fun to be around and can do nothing to boost your status and money (coming from a truecel autist myself)... .
I don't even care about that. It's the fact that they expect me to initiate all the time and don't even give a flying fuck about me. Why would I keep reaching out then if they apparently don't like me enough to send me a message? I get 0 messages from people weekly
 
All the autists I was friends with were selfish and I always had to initiate myself.
if you always had to initiate then they didn’t like you. Idk your situation so i won’t assume anything.
 
if you always had to initiate then they didn’t like you. Idk your situation so i won’t assume anything.
they come up with the excuse that it's 'just who they are' but I don't believe in that bs. If someone likes you, they would reach out to you often. I was never really liked because people sensed that I am different, and I have a weird wide forehead, giant forehead freak skull which freaks people out. When I wear a cap, I notice people being way more friendly towards me
 
who has a house in this economy lol? most of us rent. especially on a truecel basic income.... .
Why would I want a house anyway? It's just me by myself, not even any pets. All I need is a room, a small kitchen, a small bathroom. Like 300 square feet. Why would I want a 2500 square feet 3 bedrooms? No such thing as a 1 bedroom house in America, and 2 bedroom houses are rare. Plus the maintenance of a house, especially mowing the yard.

Even house ownership assumes you have a wife and kids pretty much. I think it's usually women who want houses and men buying them to make the woman happy.
 
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if you always had to initiate then they didn’t like you. Idk your situation so i won’t assume anything.
nuh cope. its just chronic burnout, executive dysfunction, different affection language plus out of sight out of mind phenomenon common in autists and adhders. you mistakenly judge them by NT criteria... .
 
being incel doesn’t mean necessarily that you’re a social outcast. That’s a result of bad social skills. You can have a social life and still be incel because youre ugly. I legitimately saw a dude that was 5’3, EXTREMELY autistic, face full of acne and he looked like he had down syndrome and he still had a social circle. A lot of you blame your looks for being outcasts without taking a look with how you interact with others irl. What you say would only be true for people who are sub 3 which is a very small number. There are some users who are extremely unconventionally attractive to the point it would impact their social relationships but this doesn’t apply to 90% of the forum.
I'm just not talkative enough to have even one friend. I have nothing to say. I'm too boring. A "friend" wants to be entertained. I could go months without talking to a human and I'm perfectly OK. Add my social anxiety and low self esteem on top of that due to prior bad treatment and rejection (abused dog).
 
I'm just not talkative enough to have even one friend. I have nothing to say. I'm too boring. A "friend" wants to be entertained. I could go months without talking to a human and I'm perfectly OK. Add my social anxiety and low self esteem on top of that due to prior bad treatment and rejection (abused dog).
facts. with got zero motivation and all the past trauma at this point... .
 
facts. with got zero motivation and all the past trauma at this point... .
Yeah. Maybe it's also poor mental health genetics to blame for the lack of talking and nothing to say. Normies are constantly talking. It's stupid stuff they talk about, but they're always talking, and they expect constant talking from others.
 
nuh cope. its just chronic burnout, executive dysfunction, different affection language plus out of sight out of mind phenomenon common in autists and adhders. you mistakenly judge them by NT criteria... .
nigga if nobody EVER texts you first then they definitely don’t like you, nothing to do with adhd or autism :feelskek: And i got both. I get burned out and don’t want to talk to people at all for a period of time but if months pass and a person isn’t texting you then they don’t like you. 2-3 weeks is the max of a person avoiding you before it becomes obvious.
 
I'm just not talkative enough to have even one friend. I have nothing to say. I'm too boring. A "friend" wants to be entertained. I could go months without talking to a human and I'm perfectly OK. Add my social anxiety and low self esteem on top of that due to prior bad treatment and rejection (abused dog).
just give your opinions about food, politics, videogames etc. You just have to find people with similar interests. I’m boring to the average person but if i find someone who also has an interest in videogames then i could talk for hours. But if you don’t care for friends then that’s fine. You don’t need to have them if you don’t want to.
 
just give your opinions about food, politics, videogames etc. You just have to find people with similar interests. I’m boring to the average person but if i find someone who also has an interest in videogames then i could talk for hours. But if you don’t care for friends then that’s fine. You don’t need to have them if you don’t want to.
yeah espeecially if you keep getting cucked and ghosted... .
 
You can't have a career, can't have friends, can't be respected by your fellow men, can't be uncreepyzoned at work, can't get promotions, can't get nothing.

Especially being a man 30+, when all your peers are married with kids, and you being foidless, is Total Social Death (TSD).

People will be literally removing their kids in the park from your viccinity. Will be like walking around with a thick, dark, stigmatising aura.

Foids are literally the effin gatekeepers of all social relationships and approval. Especially in 2026, forget any form of social acceptance as a foidless truecel moiden. (combination of moid and maiden).
IDGAF. I have a career and yeah people constantly ask if I am trying to meet people but I just say not really and move on. They can think whatever they want. They can't fire me for not being a PUA artist or having no friends some dumb shit
 
nigga if nobody EVER texts you first then they definitely don’t like you, nothing to do with adhd or autism :feelskek: And i got both. I get burned out and don’t want to talk to people at all for a period of time but if months pass and a person isn’t texting you then they don’t like you. 2-3 weeks is the max of a person avoiding you before it becomes obvious.
It's way to hard to maintain friendships with all the covert contracts and entitlements people have. If you're not kissing people's ass 24/7 they find other people
 
IDGAF. I have a career and yeah people constantly ask if I am trying to meet people but I just say not really and move on. They can think whatever they want. They can't fire me for not being a PUA artist or having no friends some dumb shit
careercels are rare but yeah. is the money worth the hustle at least?
 
It's virtually impossible to make friends as an incel. There are so many barriers to making friends when you're ugly, autistic and sexless.

  1. We have little common ground with sexually active normies, and this gap only widens as they marry and start families.
  2. Normies often already have established friendship circles and social networks.
  3. Even when normies are looking for more friends, they usually don't want to associate with ugly virgins because that would make them look bad.
  4. Even if they were willing to look past these things, they wouldn't get much out of befriending us due to the extent of our social difficulties.
The desire for romance, sex and family can't be fulfilled through friends. But even if it could, how could we realistically make friends with these social challenges? To have friends, you need to be perceived as normal and socially capable. Inceldom is a death sentence to your social life.
 
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being incel doesn’t mean necessarily that you’re a social outcast. That’s a result of bad social skills. You can have a social life and still be incel because youre ugly.
While it is true that you can be an incel and still have friends, making friends is much more harder for an incel than it would be for a normie, let alone a Chad.

I legitimately saw a dude that was 5’3, EXTREMELY autistic, face full of acne and he looked like he had down syndrome and he still had a social circle.
So have I, doesn't mean it's still harder for someone like him to make friends.
 
While it is true that you can be an incel and still have friends, making friends is much more harder for an incel than it would be for a normie, let alone a Chad.


So have I, doesn't mean it's still harder for someone like him to make friends.
preach
 
it is. can't even get in proper restaurants and venues if not accompanied by a foid. foids are the ultimate status symbols in soyciety.
What country do you live in? If you're in the USA this sounds like a lawsuit waiting to happen.
 
What country do you live in? If you're in the USA this sounds like a lawsuit waiting to happen.
nuh not usa, in the brutal cesspool of balkans. here primal status markers are everything if you wish to have any kind of respect and lifequality... .
 
What country do you live in? If you're in the USA this sounds like a lawsuit waiting to happen.
also brutally agree with your moto as an ND truecel
 

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