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positive reaffirmation vs negative reaffirmation. There’s a reason you feel anxiety and dread any time you are around people. You know they’re going to treat you poorly from a lifelong experience of being ugly. So, it’s a natural fight or flight response to placing yourself into a hostile situation you know will not be pleasant. It’s your body preparing you for NEGATIVE things…dirty looks, snide remarks, laughs behind your back, bad service, etc whatever the situation at hand means. It’s also your body “defending” you, saying GET OUT as soon as you can to avoid any potential harm.
Chad and foids go out knowing everyone will bend over backwards to help them, praise them with compliments, etc. you think they feel anxiety going out being used to this POSITIVE treatment?
Chad and foids go out knowing everyone will bend over backwards to help them, praise them with compliments, etc. you think they feel anxiety going out being used to this POSITIVE treatment?