Ropemaxx said:
You are not even a real person.
Sex is the fundamental pillar for a healthy mind and psychology.
Without it you are just a walking ghost.
Your self esteem will always be low,
your life will always seem empty.
Nothing will have meaning.
Sex is the thing that makes the harsh reality of life bearable.
The problem with your theory OP is that there are ugly guys who regularly have sex with ugly women but don't feel fulfilled and still have low self esteem despite regular access to sex with a landwhale.
Sex with ATTRACTIVE women whose judgement you value can be a great self-esteem booster, of course. That doesn't mean it's the ONLY way to be real/healthy/high-esteem/fulfilled though.
I believe there are other things that can make life bearable too.
If life wasn't bearable without sex, I would've already roped, so clearly it IS bearable.
I think perhaps some people fixated on sex more than others, so for them the lack of it is less tolerable. They are less open to finding purpose in other things.