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Serious If you aren't escortcelling, you need to get with the times

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A lot of incels unironically think they are entitled to relationships. And they think the only reason they can't get a gf is because of their looks (or autism etc). This isn't entirely true. (Western) Society as a whole is moving away from monogamy and relationships in favor of sexual consumerism. It's not just you who doesn't get relationships, normies chads and foids don't either. The difference is, they don't want them! They have eschewed them for short encounters based on sexual infatuation. When bluepillers tell you that you don't need a gf, they literally mean it. They don't value relationships at all.

This isn't necessarily a bad thing either. Our perception of concepts like love and sex and companionship are warped by our conditioning. It seems like monogamy and relationships are the cornerstones of human civilization. They are: egalitarian access to pussy ensures social cohesion. Machiavelli clearly recognizes this in The Prince when he says: "what most leads to a ruler being hated is seizing and stealing his subjects’ property and women; that he must not do" (chapter 17). However, civilization represents only a very small portion of human history. For the vast majority of our existence, we lived in a state of nature. According to Rousseau, during this time, man was a solitary animal. We lived dispersed among the animals, too few and far between to have regular contact with people, occasionally running into foids who we would fuck like seed bulls before going on our way.

What's actually happening is, advancements in technology have come full circle, and we are actually retribalizing and returning to a state of nature. Yes we are literally on the cusp of the end of civilization. The techno industrial system has gotten so convoluted and abstract that we are no longer dependent on anyone, only the system. Social atomization is destroying communities and replacing them with rugged individualism. The demise of monogamy is a symptom of this. Any "relationship" you see now (in the West) is just a holdover from the old days. Divorce rates are high and they don't even have kids anymore. And, as @Billowel said:
most catholics even those who "practise" and who are "trad" see marriages as nothing more then an okay from god to have sex with some random thot/chad. they don't think of it as a holy bond where two people carry one another to heaven and their children to heaven too.They don't see it as a bond that god has allowed and instutited,so that more saints can be created and grown,but simply as a contract to be allowed to have sex as if our lord is some sort of orwellian dystopian malefactor hanging in the shadows and controlling your every move.
Basically, you are wanting something that is no longer offered in the present day. So what is to be done? When in Rome, do as the Romans do. Practice sexual consumerism like the normies do because that's what's offered to you. Be like the seed bulls when we were in a state of nature. For incels back then, they were just fucked. But luckily now we have wealth so we can just pay escorts to fuck. Give up your pride, its over for you. Ride the tiger and fuck hookers.
 
Didn't read.
Low effort, dumbass.

To answer the OP, it;s true that longer term relationships are becoming more rare, cos "boo-fucking-hoo Chad doesn't wanna commit", having kids is getting expensive and in the way of consuming or making useless career and hypergamy is more one-night-stand-oriented.
 
I agree that idealized relationships dont exist, probably never did. But i think its a personal pov is it worth it escortceling or not.
But luckily now we have wealth so we can just pay escorts to fuck
I dont have wealth and sex doesnt seem so appealing to me to wageslave on scorching sun doing physical jobs for it.
I’m too high inhib for sex
Also this.
 
No, we don't.

Earlier, you replied to me that you are not wealthy, but it seems you are.
I dont have wealth and sex doesnt seem so appealing to me to wageslave on scorching sun doing physical jobs for it.
it's like a hundred bucks for a lay dude. unless you are in some third world shithole you can cough up the money (Mecoja you might actually be in one JFL). when i said "now we have wealth" i meant we as in our (western) civilization, not as individuals. its worth noting that what i say isn't really meant for non western countries because relationships are better preserved there. which is why i kept putting (western) in the op
But i think its a personal pov is it worth it escortceling or not.
when faced with the realization that its over, if you want to be happy you are going to have to figure out an alternative way of living. escortcelling is one way. another way is going full monk mode and giving up worldly desires. waiting for something to happen and getting mad over a sense of entitlement only makes incels suffer
 
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unless you are in some third world shithole
Many of us are, among those from richer countries many are Neets, but i see your point having a gf also costs money, probably even more and who knows how much sex they get.
waiting for something to happen and getting mad over a sense of entitlement only makes incels suffer
Yeah thats pointless, but humans always hold some form of hope, i dont think its possible for youngcels to completely lose hope and give up.
 
this is not a way to live. normies have a social life atleast.
 
Yeah thats pointless, but humans always hold some form of hope, i dont think its possible for youngcels to completely lose hope and give up.
Hope is lone gone. If you dont see any prospects in the future or anything to hold onto you cant create hope out of thin air.
 
Hope is lone gone. If you dont see any prospects in the future or anything to hold onto you cant create hope out of thin air.
Acceptance is very hard, even if you are fine with it sometimes there are periods when you get angry or depressed about it. I dont think escortceling is the answer though, there is no fix or answer.
this is not a way to live. normies have a social life atleast.
:yes:
 
Bookmarked will read later:feelsLSD:
 
yes i'm so ready to start escortcelling
 
yes i'm so ready to start escortcelling
The first time is gonna be rough.
Use a website that has reviews, only go to whores that have good reviews (one can be enough) and be sure to find a whore that treats her clients with respect.
Do not buy gift cards, that's a scam. Cash only, take not much more money than you need. Leave your wallet at home if you can.
 
Very good observation. I don't feel the need for company, I can just sit in my room all day like a Hikikomori. I probably have too much autist hinter-gatherer-genes. It's alright for me to fuck a prostitute every couple months. Gfs in the west are impossible for us. Especially in Germany. It's literally easier to get accepted in the Bundeswehr than to find a foid.
 
weird that my words are being used in a thread that promotes fornication. it is true that foids and chadlites/chads have eschewed normal relationships for random sex and nothing more.at best they enter quasi cucking relationships like friends with benefits.sure there are still boyfriends and girlfriends but that's becoming rare and when it does happen it's usually because you are a betabuxxer sucker.even if you aren't,it's only a matter of 2 days before your "gf" finds another chad on tinder or instagram or whatever before she stops having the "tingles" for you and monkeybranches.

do chads have girlfriends?sure they do,but they cheat on them most of the time,so it's more correct to say that they have harems not girlfriends.just check any chad celebrity you can think of and you will see that they have cheated on their girlfriend/spouse who knows how many times.at best they dump them right before fornicating with another women.



btw i do not promote fornication.escortecelling isn't a solution for any man who wants to lead a good and virtuous life.
 
The first time is gonna be rough.
Use a website that has reviews, only go to whores that have good reviews (one can be enough) and be sure to find a whore that treats her clients with respect.
Do not buy gift cards, that's a scam. Cash only, take not much more money than you need. Leave your wallet at home if you can.
thanks
 
You're right, bro.
Thats why I'm dedicating my life to escortmaxxing from now on.
I want to spent the rest of my life coping and the best cope for an trucel like me is escortceling.
 
A lot of incels unironically think they are entitled to relationships. And they think the only reason they can't get a gf is because of their looks (or autism etc). This isn't entirely true. (Western) Society as a whole is moving away from monogamy and relationships in favor of sexual consumerism. It's not just you who doesn't get relationships, normies chads and foids don't either. The difference is, they don't want them! They have eschewed them for short encounters based on sexual infatuation. When bluepillers tell you that you don't need a gf, they literally mean it. They don't value relationships at all.

This isn't necessarily a bad thing either. Our perception of concepts like love and sex and companionship are warped by our conditioning. It seems like monogamy and relationships are the cornerstones of human civilization. They are: egalitarian access to pussy ensures social cohesion. Machiavelli clearly recognizes this in The Prince when he says: "what most leads to a ruler being hated is seizing and stealing his subjects’ property and women; that he must not do" (chapter 17). However, civilization represents only a very small portion of human history. For the vast majority of our existence, we lived in a state of nature. According to Rousseau, during this time, man was a solitary animal. We lived dispersed among the animals, too few and far between to have regular contact with people, occasionally running into foids who we would fuck like seed bulls before going on our way.

What's actually happening is, advancements in technology have come full circle, and we are actually retribalizing and returning to a state of nature. Yes we are literally on the cusp of the end of civilization. The techno industrial system has gotten so convoluted and abstract that we are no longer dependent on anyone, only the system. Social atomization is destroying communities and replacing them with rugged individualism. The demise of monogamy is a symptom of this. Any "relationship" you see now (in the West) is just a holdover from the old days. Divorce rates are high and they don't even have kids anymore. And, as @Billowel said:

Basically, you are wanting something that is no longer offered in the present day. So what is to be done? When in Rome, do as the Romans do. Practice sexual consumerism like the normies do because that's what's offered to you. Be like the seed bulls when we were in a state of nature. For incels back then, they were just fucked. But luckily now we have wealth so we can just pay escorts to fuck. Give up your pride, its over for you. Ride the tiger and fuck hookers.
No one can afford escorts dude. They are crazy expensive.
 
No fucking way, not giving my money to a foid. Would rather use that money for other copes
escortceling is the only cope where you get to have sex with foids :feelshehe:
 
Having escorts is only good to satisfy foot fetish desires, otherwise no (but is enough). Incels should be entitled to relationships, nothing wrong with it, they should not forget that oofy doofys are at the top too.
 
Having escorts is only good to satisfy foot fetish desires, otherwise no (but is enough). Incels should be entitled to relationships, nothing wrong with it, they should not forget that oofy doofys are at the top too.
ok
 
Just moneymaxx and get on RubMaps bro
 
Very good observation. I don't feel the need for company, I can just sit in my room all day like a Hikikomori. I probably have too much autist hinter-gatherer-genes. It's alright for me to fuck a prostitute every couple months. Gfs in the west are impossible for us. Especially in Germany. It's literally easier to get accepted in the Bundeswehr than to find a foid.
Just maximize your Neeting and give lesser shits"
 
I've never felt entitled to a relationship.
Being rejected and unable to get anything non-serious like a hook-up or a casual regular encounter with a female depresses me more.

In a lot of cases, it's these mutual attraction, lustful encounters that lead to serious relationships. So if you can't get over the first step how are going to reach the second? :feelsree:

Be a simp then in a toxic slave to her relationshit instead? That's not going to work for lots of guys either, especially these days as foids can earn good money and are treated better. Even the fat/old/ugly ones can become "sex workers" or go nude on only fans for the legion of desperate bluepill incel simps out there!

I've never earned decent money or be seen as good simp material anyway, I would feel so unhappy and resentful in that kind of union. It's pathetic!

As for paying an escort to take your virginity and becoming an escortcel, it's a personal choice. I can't write it off, but it never appealed to me and I have a lot of anxiety around it too.
 
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