This.
Everything is here.
It also bridges the gap between "women are human beings who can decide who they fuck, not sex objects" and "you have to fuck or you are nothing".
Of course, you can be a loser on a lot of different fronts. Like never obtaining your driving license, failing your exams, failing to run Y miles in less than X minutes. But in these situations, you are facing either objects or abstract situations where theoretically you can improve yourself in order to succeed, such as by training or buying lessons with a tutor/teacher/trainer.
But women are not objects or abstract situations. They are full actors in the game, unlike previous situations where you theoretically are the only actor. And they judge your genetics, which can't be changed by training or buying lessons. If they were sexual objects, you could train anything you want (such as your game, your sex movements and so on) on them, like redpillers believe. But you can't do that. They aren't objects of any king, and they already decided before if you won or lost, which is permanent. So losing on the sexual front is not exactly the same as losing in sports, academia and given tasks. It means being an inherent genetic loser, judged as such by women.
This is why there is no contradiction in "women aren't sex objects" and "it is bad for a man to be a virgin".
