It's not that we don't give them credit. It's that the black pill can harm your mental health and development during your impressionable years of becoming an adult.
The black pill is supposed to give context to your teenage and early adult life experiences. It's one of things in life where you have to do it on your own and fail, before being told what's right. But if you don't go through those trials, then learning about the black pill is like reading a really despressing book that makes you want to kill yourself as soon as you finish the book and close the cover.
How do you know it was the blackpill that hurt your mental health and not that your mental health was already hurt from the shitty life experiences that come with being an incel? Maybe it's just experience that learning about the blackpill made life look bleaker, but it was probably on route to be looking that way either way.
People who learn that there is poverty, famine, war, human trafficking, and many other heinous things in the world don't have their mental health hindered just because they know these things exist. The same would occur to youths. If a high-tier normie learns about this he won't be able to relate and probably won't be affected by it, since he will have experienced a completely different world. It's like educating people from first-world countries about how people in sub-saharan Africa live. They get to know that there are people living in completely different conditions than them, but it doesn't really affect them.
I'd rather give people certain people the opportunity to mess up their psyche with the blackpill since they would be the kind of people to find something else as a substitute anyway. You can treat children like children, not teenagers and young adults.
Teenagers are very fickle and go through many edgy phases.
If there is one thing I noticed it's that teenagers will drop whatever philosophy or outlook they previously claim "is for life" the second they naively see as little as normies treating them okay out of fake politeness and outreach.
That's where all those "How I stopped being incel" teenage posts come from.
Also reaching out to teenagers will get incels accused of grooming.
All male based philosophies, groups and ideologies would do well steering clear of "mentoring" younger generations lest they give more ammo to governments that want to crack down on them for "corrupting" the youth and make it easier for disavowal of those blackpill ideas as a temporary growing up "phase" to profilerate.
Teenage males should figure this stuff out for themselves like they've always done if they think it's going to be applicable to them long term.
A preteen incel could be an 18 year old chad after all and vice versa.
Males aren't going to magically figure out this stuff unless they're pushed over the edge and into a community such as this, which won't happen for most indoctrinated normies. The fact is that the sources for learning about blackpilled topics, and tbh reality in general, are quickly becoming scarse. The media is disingenuous and spreads lies, most forms of popular culture do the same, and father figures are becoming few and far between. We need somewhere in the Internet for men who want guidance, but without the ridiculous blue and redpilled lies which are so common.
As to the point of governments cracking down on our groups/ideologies that will happen anyway. Sitting back and doing nothing is not an alternative. Young, disillusioned and ostracized can be the most powerful force in society if they come together, as any person knowledgeable in history would know. I very much doubt that they will completely censor us and make that be the end of it.