lanturn
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At least read this half:
At least read this half:
When I graduated we moved in together in a new city. He was finally out of his dad's house and he found himself a job in a local restaurant to pay the rent. I instantly knew when we moved in that I'd made a horrible mistake. I'd graduated from college and was in a good job that I loved. I was going out meeting new friends and he was staying home. He worked late nights so I spent a lot of time alone in the apartment and found myself becoming attracted to someone else I'd met through a mutual friend. I stupidly invited him over to the apartment one night and we kissed. I knew then that I had to break up with my boyfriend and there was no going back.
Only six weeks after moving in I sat him down and told him that we couldn't be together anymore. He was in disbelief. He had had such a terrible life at home and I had always promised him that things would be great when we moved in. I encouraged him. I told him he'd build his confidence when he had me around every day. We planned so many trips and dates that we were going to have in this new city. He spent so much of his savings on decorating our apartment. This was everything to him.
Things didn't work out with the other guy but I didn't have any interest in getting back together. He begged me to stay in the apartment with him because he didn't have anyone else. I felt awful and agreed but made him sleep on the couch and had a lock put on the bedroom door. I spent most of my time in the bedroom and whenever I came out he would beg me to change my mind and give him a chance. He felt like he had messed up a beautiful relationship because of his anxiety and, to be honest, it was true. I became angry at him for not accepting my decision and we started arguing more and more. He said once he was suicidal and I brushed it off and told him to call the hotline. I called him pathetic, told him I was happier without him, called him manipulative. He was working on himself extremely hard, going to the gym daily and meeting up with friends from work, I'd never seen that side of him. But I was happy to have the weight of his illness off of my shoulders and told him that. At the same time I found someone else on Tinder and really fell for him hard. He is successful, handsome and everything I hoped my ex would have been. I started sleeping around his place more and more and basically ignored my ex.
Then, last weekend I slept at my new boyfriend's house. My ex kept calling me, which was unusual as he only tended to talk to me at home. I was angry and texted him that I was happier with my new boyfriend than I ever was with him and to leave me alone. That was the last thing I ever said to him. I returned home on Sunday to find him hanging by the neck in the bathroom.
He was the kindest, gentlest, most intelligent person who loved me like I was the only person on earth. All he wanted was a chance at a normal life and I threw it all away for him. All I've done since is cry and scream. I feel like I've murdered someone. His whole life was so difficult and I broke every promise of what living together would do for him. How do I live with this?!
He is successful, handsome and everything I hoped my ex would have been.
She will stop caring within a couple weeks and live the rest of her life with no guilt, trust me.
This.She will stop caring within a couple weeks and live the rest of her life with no guilt, trust me.
Virtue signalling cunt.Just absolutely fucking lol at this whore. As soon as he ropes she starts saying, "he was the kindest, gentlest, most intelligent person who loved me"
SO WHY DID YOU SLEEP WITH ANOTHER MAN AND ABANDON HIM, SLUT?
This.
They are sociopaths incapable of remorse. She'll probably hook up with that other guy while he rots down below.
Girls will date a depressed "loser" with no life for years because he is handsome yet we are not even given the smallest chance.
She will stop caring within a couple weeks and live the rest of her life with no guilt, trust me.
LMAO at women, they will literally back stab you the first chance they get. Showing any sign of weakness = insta breakup. Women have no remorse, no moral compass all they know is themselves. They are legit sociopaths, every single one of thenm.
Bitch says he was handsome. Atomic blackpill: even handsome guys get treated bad.
It's over for me.Handsome is the minimum requirement for girls to ltr a guy. The type of tinder slayers she gets with is a different level of handsome, a level of looks that makes you impervious to depression and anxiety, because noone ever treats you badly.
Also a reminder that even if you do get a femoid, if you aren't on your game and "interesting" 24/7, she'll leave you.
LMAO at women, they will literally back stab you the first chance they get. Showing any sign of weakness = insta breakup. Women have no remorse, no moral compass all they know is themselves. They are legit sociopaths, every single one of thenm.
Feminism, she deserves a murder charge.Just absolutely fucking lol at this whore. As soon as he ropes she starts saying, "he was the kindest, gentlest, most intelligent person who loved me"
SO WHY DID YOU SLEEP WITH ANOTHER MAN AND ABANDON HIM, SLUT?
An 8/10 guy is seen as the subhuman when all those 9/10 guys come around. Brutal.Bitch says he was handsome. Atomic blackpill: even handsome guys get treated bad.
Really think so ?!Damn, I'm kinda speechless. Even normies are agreeing with us in those comments.
Noy all your fault but you were cruel u knew he was vulnerable. Maybe rather then being on dating sites you could volunteer for mental health
You shouldn't blame yourself, but at the same time, it seems you really mistreated the poor guy. I cannot imagine a long-term girlfriend asking me to move in with her, then getting dumped for a succession of strangers. Letting him stay with you was just cruel.
There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be with someone who's mentally ill or depressed, but I would recommend speaking to a counselor or going to therapy. You are not at fault, but I think you need to talk through your grief as well as the mindset that let you treat a supposed loved one like that.
Best of luck.
You called him manipulative? Why?
Time will heal all. Forgive yourself.
9/10s are truly rare though. I only know 1 IRL.An 8/10 guy is seen as the subhuman when all those 9/10 guys come around. Brutal.
i'm a lazy-cel. can someone tldr for me?
This western women are absolute fucking trash and tinder needs to be terminated now.DON't FORGET THAT THE ORIGINAL BOYO WAS ALSO TALL, HANDSOME AND LIFTING.
HE JUST DIDN'T HAVE MONEY AND NEEDED LOVE
BUT SHE FOUND SOMEONE ON TINDER WHO HAD THE SAME SHIT + $$$$$$$
AND THOUGHT SHE IS ENTITLED TO IT
WHO THE FUCK IS THIS FOID
I HOPE SHE NEVER SLEEPS UNTIL THE REST OF HER DAYS
I HOPE SHE GETS DEMONS IN HER HEAD FOREVER
I HOPE SHE GETS AID AND PUMPED AND DUMPED BY EVERY GUY SHE EVER MEETS UNTIL SHE IS 40 AND INFERTILE
I HOPE SHE FUCKING DIES ALONE LIKE A DOG
THIS IS WHAT SHE DESERVES
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TINDER + THIS WHORE KILLED A YOUNG MAN
THEY SHOULD BE SUED BY THE FAMILY
THIS IS INDEED NOT A SUICIDE IT'S A MURDER