Oofy doofy doesn't deny lookism. What seems to be happening is basically betabuxx without the financial aspect. I can definitely accept women in our (essentially) matriarchal society prioritizing psychological control over sexual attraction. Especially since many foids might finally realize they cannot monopolize chads anyway.
They still cuck these men with better looking guys on the side, but all their psychological needs are fulfilled in the 'relationship' despite the guy not paying for everything. She gets to chide, criticize and belittle the man she is with and she need never fear retaliation because she never regards this guy as a sexual being. Perhaps this is another reason for the decreasing birth rates. Who needs a kid when she can just substitute her hubby/boyfriend as a pseudo-dependent? Hence, her 'mothering' instincts are sated. Compare how mothers talk down to children with wives to husbands. You'll a notice a very creepy similarity.
When you think about it, this just confirms dual mating strategy all over again. Really, why does she even need to land a chad? Chad is more trouble long term. Women know they can get laid as easily as breathing, and chad is always willing to fuck below his looksmatch. So she can get her needs met then, and the rest of the time she has weak-willed schlub to abuse and manipulate to her heart's content.